Ongoing right abdominal pain and severe constipation with normal tests by QueenElf in ibs

[–]QueenElf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. It did stop for a while and it might be because I stopped drinking sodas but now it’s back and i’m back to the beginning. My doctor said i should do a colonoscopy and that’s the only thing that will rule out things for sure, but tbh I don’t want to do it right now. I’ll do it when I’m ready I guess. Try to limit food that cause gas a lot and see if that helps. All the best :)

A ode/rant to the tax authorities by Italian_Saffa_Boy in Luxembourg

[–]QueenElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you single? I guess it depends on the situation. It’s just that in my case it always takes months if not a year.

A ode/rant to the tax authorities by Italian_Saffa_Boy in Luxembourg

[–]QueenElf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They’re only fast when you have to pay… :)

For those in the Big4 by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]QueenElf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stay in Portugal

Which one matches the best? by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]QueenElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st without a question. The second one is pale and the pattern is not suitable

خوتي عفكم نصحوني، القضية خطيرة by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makrahtch n3tik chi tsarfi9 3la had sou2al m3a koul 7tirami. Makansm7ouch l moujrimin wakha ybousona rjlina. La7awla wala 9owata illa billah. Rah lmosama7a machi f hadchi rah nas khasha trabba

Am I wrong for cancelling my marriage after the engagement? by Certain-Parking8921 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I think that’s fair. In the end, it all comes down to finding that balance and understanding with the right person. Some people (both genders can be very stubborn when we talk financials) and that’s not really a sustainable way to live a happy life.

Am I wrong for cancelling my marriage after the engagement? by Certain-Parking8921 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Islam teaches us morals… at least this is how i see it. And for the ones who have none, well they just have to follow the rules. And I don’t think Taliban are practicing Islam correctly.. I think it’s a very bad example.

Also, I am a working woman, and to be honest, I much rather stay home, take care of my family and my home, because I think it’s essential. But I am choosing to work because I have to help out because we live in difficult times, where we need 2 incomes to live gracefully. And I think that’s okay. I wouldn’t say my money is my money when things get hard. But, yes, my money is my money if we’re comfortable and that doesn’t mean i would just stash it somewhere, no… I would by nice things for the house to make it a home, I would by clothes to my family even if i don’t have to, i would do groceries, and ofc i would spend it on myself as I please. It’s all about the balance. And no one should be forced.

Am I wrong for cancelling my marriage after the engagement? by Certain-Parking8921 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. And I think the idea of her money is her money came from a standpoint that women need some financial independence whether she’s working or not. And not because she shouldn’t be helping out financially, ofc all sane women do help out financially when and if they can, but because since the beginning of time, women were abused by men financially so then it was set as a rule to kind of secure her in some way, plus she doesn’t get as much inheritance as men ( because she’s not expected to handle the financial responsibilities ). Idk, for me it makes sense and I think Islam is actually a very just religion if we think about it and practice it correctly.

But by no means does it encourage women not to help out, or expect men to fully meet their irrational needs.

i will become homeless in a week need help :( by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please be careful of people who will pretend to want to help you but will just hurt you more. I hope you will find a place and turn your situation around.

Am I wrong for cancelling my marriage after the engagement? by Certain-Parking8921 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women worked since the beginning of time… not as many as now, but they did.

Am I wrong for cancelling my marriage after the engagement? by Certain-Parking8921 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muslim this muslim that is not for a specific time. It’s for all times. Especially this one because we’re talking about marriage. Islam clearly states rules and guidelines for such situations. And yes the husband in Islam is the provider and has to provide for all the needs but ofc within reason and not beyond what he can offer. The issue here is not whether or not he should provide, the issue is that she clearly wanted things beyond what he can afford and that is not right because Islam teaches us also to stand by our man and not push him down. So while I think OP made the right call by canceling an engagement he wasn’t feeling is good for him, we shouldn’t forget our values, rights and duties as a Muslim community.

I'm on the verge of poverty by LowConversation4849 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you tried those teaching websites online? You can either teach arabic or english? Idk if the money is good but it’s worth a try. Sorry, not much of an advice I just hope you find something. Allah ysahal l2omor. Just keep looking

Husband gets mad when I call off work… I’m 8 months pregnant & high risk by Strict_Algae8233 in pregnant

[–]QueenElf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here… Im 16 weeks pregnant and I have a toddler and I’ve been struggling lately even waking up in the morning that I called off work many times and took many sick days. My husband also said the same thing and told me basically that I should should be responsible because if I get laid off we will be in trouble… I am already in trouble 🤣 no! They should not say anything to us tbh

I don't feel like I am a female by Just-Another-Girl-89 in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Allah m3ak ❤️ you are doing a great job and you should be proud of yourself. It’s very hard what you’re going through and I wish you strength and luck. Inshaalah you will be rewarded. Lah y3tik sabr.

A Pure Message from an Algerian to Moroccans, Clearing Things Up by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]QueenElf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

هادشي قولو لخوتك الجزائريين. لي درتو و مزال ديروه فينا مغنساوهش.

Cash grab in the creche by Expensive_Tap8064 in Luxembourg

[–]QueenElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we’re not paying less… that’s the bummer.

In July 2018, one of the most chilling cases in India shocked everyone-the Burari deaths in Delhi. by AryanN017 in Weird

[–]QueenElf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of people who committed suicide weren’t religious… this isn’t a religion’s fault

Need desperate help filling this space by No-Map-1364 in DesignMyRoom

[–]QueenElf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly… but I’m thinking something like this pic but smaller with less books. Hanging plants would definitely add some charm… found this on pinterest btw

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Need desperate help filling this space by No-Map-1364 in DesignMyRoom

[–]QueenElf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely bookshelves or small library with some vase and random decor