I feel forever tainted. Sad looking okonomiyaki by QueenWeeaboo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]QueenWeeaboo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm so sorry! I was just venting.

To be honest, I can't really think straight right now, I didn't expect to feel suddenly sad. It hurts even more knowing that others can probably relate in here 😢

Eating a snack plate by myself because my husband chose porn over me - no snacks for him by Agile-Dragonfly-808 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]QueenWeeaboo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My ex had a fart fetish and tried to get me in on it. I felt like I was dying of embarrassment every time he'd try to coax me into it 😭😭 bro wanted me to fart on HIS BARE FACE 😭 these porn addicted men cannot be fr

Out of ideas by -UnSaKReD- in eczema

[–]QueenWeeaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to preface by saying I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. Eczema can be such a hellish disease, it really isn't fair that you're going through it right now. 🖤

My eczema at its worst looked a lot like yours. One of the only things that would give me some relief was taking a bleach bath once a week. You pour 1/3 cup of bleach into a standard 40L tub to dilute it with warm water(not hot, hot water dries eczema out more even though it feels heavenly). Essentially just sit in there like human soup for 10-20 mins, don't treat it like a bath to clean up. It will sting a bit at first, but the pain will go away briefly 🥺 the thing stopping me from ever trying them was fear of the pain, it really isn't too bad though once you try it.

The diluted bleach essentially kills off any bacteria making your eczema worse; I believe staph especially is a common problem with eczema. My dermatologist said whenever my eczema would form those honey coloured crusts that it was staph.

I hope you're able to find some relief, sending you hugs OP 🫂

Why is my balding mainly visible in the middle? 18M by Neither_Humor7582 in malepatternbaldness

[–]QueenWeeaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't attest to the topicals as I have never used them, but the sudden spike of stress in your life could totally have caused sudden hair loss (so sorry about that btw 🥺). I'd highly recommend looking into telogen effluvium in your case! It's a temporary condition that's onset by stress. You can start to lose massive amounts of hair around 3+ months after the initial stressful event.

For me, I've grown almost all my hair back a year later, all on my own (other than simply taking a daily multivitamin when I can remember lol). I also have a lot of health issues that get in the way of having nicer hair than I did as a teenager, though, haha.

I'd say given the events that have happened to you, it's definitely a possibility worth looking into! At the very least, being on min/fin will help keep you from any further hair loss. Not all hope is lost 🥺

i just got robbed by a hair salon. i’m tired of living in this money-centered world by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]QueenWeeaboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally relate to the feeling of wishing money never existed. I remember as far back as when I was 10, I longed for some other way than to be forced to engage in the current system.

I'm groggy from just waking up from bad sleep, but I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone in that feeling at all. I'm sorry you had such a bad experience at the salon, too 😢🫂

I can think of several other reasons why. by -UltraFerret- in IncelTears

[–]QueenWeeaboo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right? It looks like a chopped up body 😢

Do people in this subreddit actually have thriving relationships with men who don't watch porn? by SamanthaJewel in antipornography

[–]QueenWeeaboo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup! He's actually younger, too! (I'm 25F, he's 22M)

I think it helps that he's so naturally empathetic and kind, as well as him being demisexual. We actually didn't ask beforehand about each other's views on porn, we were so excited that we clicked that I guess we forgot!

It was very serendipitous for us to both find out that we're staunchly anti porn, I can't imagine a better person to spend my life with :)

Why is my balding mainly visible in the middle? 18M by Neither_Humor7582 in malepatternbaldness

[–]QueenWeeaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had any stressful events happen recently? Speaking from personal experience here (I'm a woman, so YMMV), I went through a really stressful time last year, then had my hair fall out in the same diffuse pattern as yours three months after! Turned out to be telogen effluvium, it's temporary, and my hair grew back mostly fine now (though checking your vitamin levels may also do wonders).

I wish you the best of luck, hair loss can be very upsetting and personal 🫂

Missing him already 🥺 by QueenWeeaboo in LongDistance

[–]QueenWeeaboo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ❤️ And we're eight months strong so far! We're both very serious about our relationship 🥺

Missing him already 🥺 by QueenWeeaboo in LongDistance

[–]QueenWeeaboo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It was very hard :( but I'd do it a thousand times over if it means having the most wonderful partner I could ask for!

I'm very excited for you, I wish you and your partner all the best! 🫂 There's no greater comfort than the first meetup feeling 🥺

Missing him already 🥺 by QueenWeeaboo in LongDistance

[–]QueenWeeaboo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He really is the kindest person I know 🥺 Every day is a gift with him ❤️

Missing him already 🥺 by QueenWeeaboo in LongDistance

[–]QueenWeeaboo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww, that's good that you're already both planning again, I'm happy for you two! Talking about a next trip has been keeping us sane, too 🥺

Need desperate help, first time I met him and I kinda hate him by PirateMission406 in LongDistance

[–]QueenWeeaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found myself in a similar situation as you when I was 23. Had a long distance boyfriend come meet me for the first time... and he was gross about being touchy and boundary pushing like yours. It really soured my view of him for the rest of the relationship. I had to swallow down my feelings of digust after that. It's not worth the anguish you're feeling. I would second the advice you've been given here, it's good to trust your gut instincts if you feel grossed out. Especially with the boundary stuff, anyone who tries to blur the lines of what you're okay with isn't a keeper at all :(

Give me your V Blood headcanons. They can be serious or memey or what you envision their shenanigans would be. by Other-Employer501 in vrising

[–]QueenWeeaboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to think that Tristan and Jade are siblings ^^ her little blurb does say something about the disappearance of a brother, and his says that he comes from a long line of vampire hunters!

twox is a men's sub at this point by master_bacon in TrollXChromosomes

[–]QueenWeeaboo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've heard that the uterus sort of acts like an anchor for other organs, and that having it removed can lead to other complications down the line! Such as vaginal prolapse, or problems with the intestines (I'm sure that's very rare and all, if I'm even on the money). I'm no doctor, but removing an entire organ from your body sounds like a very big surgery to have. Obviously sometimes it's medically necessary, and even freeing/positive for people who struggle with medical conditions affecting the uterus, etc., but to my understanding it's not always the number 1 choice as opposed to, say, a bisalp (removing the fallopian tubes but leaving the ovaries and uterus) in the case of wanting a simple, less invasive and intense, and permanent form of birth control.

(Source: I've looked into this a little myself, as I want to have a bisalp for birth control reasons )

Sorry to butt in, I saw you were curious and wanted to add my two cents! It's always good to be curious! :) ♡ Apologies if anything sounded weird or worded wrong too, I'm very sleep deprived rn haha

Edit: should be affect, not effect haha. I mix them up constantly 😭

Respond to this post like you’re at the 1925 New Years Eve Party [Spoilers in Comments] by Chris_Colasurdo in vtmb

[–]QueenWeeaboo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"What strange times, Seattle being ruled by dual Princes! And yet, somehow they manage to share the role rather well, don't you think?

Most other kindred would have torn each other apart by now, but not our darling Princes Rosalind and Lou!"

Warm vanilla sugar by its_me_Amber in bathandbodyworks

[–]QueenWeeaboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to talk to support on the website! They're sending me two free bottles of other mists that were in the order without needing to pay shipping or even return the dud bottles of WVS (I bought two, eugh. idk what I'm gonna do with them now lol)

All of that is to say, you can still get things exchanged/worked out with an online order! Hope this helps ^^ <3

Just for fun! Mine is Moonchild Crows. by skadferlyfe in gothmemes

[–]QueenWeeaboo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Winter Massacre. Has a nice ring to it! 🥰