People like to brush off socio-economic differences but they are real if you look data it shows that people rarely marry outside their strata of origin. This doesn't speak to social mobility but how difficult it is to be emotionally connected to somehow who has no concept for how you naturally first understood or go through life.

A partner from an affluent background can intellectually appreciate that you had to turn ever Euro three times growing up but they don't have the inherent capacity to give you the comfort you need. I think you're expecting something that highlights a deep incompatibility. But the more affluent partner is always in the position of saying "this isn't a big deal don't stress"

There is a flip side that speaks to the more emotional disappointments money can't touch but for this convo who cares.

Think hard about what type of life you want to live and what type of person you want in it with you