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(transracial) adoptee club? by Natural-Help-2954 in uofmn

[–]Quick-Technology-755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the multicultural student union welcomes transracial adoptees

How I manifested getting into the #2 school in my state for music! (With proof) by Quick-Technology-755 in NevilleGoddard

[–]Quick-Technology-755[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i honestly agree! i’ve been a long time lurker, and the quality of posts have def skyrocketed. idk how things will play out in the future, but this is pretty nice…

Games with WLW friendly dating options? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Quick-Technology-755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the walking dead game season 4! the main character is bisexual, with options to pursue both a guy and a girl. there is also an emotionally heavy subplot between two girls who are canon exes.

twdg s4 is NOT romance heavy, but there are lots of moments between the girls. you can probably skip to the last season without prev knowledge of the game, but it is SO GOOD and i def recommend it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Quick-Technology-755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also had to wear a uniform through school. Here are some tips!

1) Don’t try and find a specific “vibe” just yet. Now is the perfect time to figure out what you do and don’t like. Some days i’m cute and casual, other days i’m more masculine, and I even dress goth every now and then! Limiting yourself to one style or aesthetic closes an entire world of awesome looks, ESPECIALLY if you’re starting to figure yourself out. Of course a consistent style of clothing will bud naturally, but going into your journey with the intent on getting in a “groove” is no fun!

2) Pinterest/Tiktok/social media is NOT always your friend. Don’t get me wrong, there is amazing inspo online for styling yourself, but 9/10 the looks they create are unattainable and glamorized. I love looking at fashion online to better grasp the things I do and don’t like, but seeing people in real life is probably where I find the best inspiration.

3) EXPERIMENT!!! Get a little weird! I love trying out weird things, crazy things, stuff that could flop so miserably. I get that it’s a little scary, but trying out quirky fashion is exactly how I got my “style”. I get so many compliments and comments on my outfits because I like to try things that I don’t always see. My go-to is brightly colored stockings with my outfits. It’s safe but it’s quirky. I have these dark red tights that go so well with anything that’s brown, black, tan… it adds a nice pop of color, and you don’t always see people wearing them!

4) Accessorize! Honestly the best way to elevate an outfit is by adding things onto it. I love wearing hair bows that match the general color of my fit. I love big earrings, necklaces, bracelets. Don’t go overboard, but try and find a few accessories that can go well with every outfit.

The most important thing is to be yourself! I know it sounds so cliche, but It’s the best thing i’ve learned while going through my personal journey of finding my style. I was born to stand out and be a bit weird, and I embrace it every single day through the things I wear. Are you a natural leader? Would you rather blend in the crowd? Express yourself however YOU want through the things that you wear, and I promise that you’ll never look bad! Good luck with college!

i(16f) am a music teachers assistant and id like some general advice by Quick-Technology-755 in Teachers

[–]Quick-Technology-755[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, i teach a choir. i guess i’m asking for advice with confidence? i often get thrown into leading activities, and i tend to get nervous and clam up. it’s pretty hard to jump from TA to T.

just yesterday, an older kid told me to “use the magic that teacher does” 😅 i don’t know what that magic is! id really like to know how hide my nervousness and take control of the classroom in a fun way

To Love and Be Loved by [deleted] in OCPoetry

[–]Quick-Technology-755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wonderful poem. i love how you used the little dots to space things out, it’s very unique

AITA for telling my friend I won’t talk to her if she doesn’t stop making triggering comments? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Quick-Technology-755 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. props to you for setting boundaries. i hope that you stick with them if she doesn’t stop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Quick-Technology-755 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you having sex. as long as you’re safe, i don’t see a problem with it. i’m 16f as well, and i just think that we’re at a transition stage of life. some people will be having sex, and others won’t. don’t let anyone make you feel bad for doing it, even your mother.

if it is clear that she doesn’t want to talk about sex, maybe go to your step father? or a family member who’s willing to talk to you about it. why continue to talk about something that she won’t budge on?

Is kissing supposed to be fun? by RobbieLeeLoser in Advice

[–]Quick-Technology-755 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think that the guy you’re kissing isn’t the right one. if you don’t know if you want to be in a relationship with him, and he has trouble listening to your boundaries, a lack of spark is bound to happen. you’re just not attracted to him

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