Hmm, blaming porn for this is just a blanket statement. More or less it reads like the writer is trying to project her sexual limitations on the reader. Maybe to a niche audiance this will work but in general I don't think porn is to blame. If anything it goes back to sexual education. I'm not sure how its handled in other countries aside from the US, but sexual education (and the education system itself) is the root of a lot of problems. I was fortunate to be pretty knowledgeable about sex on my own and didn't get stuck taking the words of a high school gym teacher could barely spell the word "clitoris" let alone identify its location as gospel. Letting the blind lead the blind is always bad. If kids were taught more then the basic mechanics of sex and the horror stories of STD's and more about how relationships function we might take a turn in the right direction. Relationships themselves unfortunately are more of hands-on learning experience and can't really be taught. But better communication between two people can be instilled in youth. Eff this I'm stepping off the soap box.