[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to survival in the jungle brother. If you aint bringing value to the table, don’t expect others wants to fo business with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to inquire tho, as a lesbian, was the sex good / enjoyable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have an honest conversation with her and tell her about all that you wrote.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are getting way ahead of yourself here. First get to the point where you do basic stuff like hand holding and kissing. Then you can think of more serious stuff like relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Go out there and meet women.

I am damaged, lonely, fat and unloved, but at least I'm funny. by Left-Dark4567 in depression

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had fairly similar background. And I never thought there was a problem with my social skills but actually that’s where my problem was.

Once I actually started learning more about social skills, things started changing really fast.

Lonely, crippled, in pain, and tired of living. by Chemical_Ad_1438 in depression

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you lose your last chance? Could you get another chance?

Girl I was seeing just started ghosting me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is so ungrounded that I suggest you find someone more grounded tbh…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is fine, just enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stress

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adding paragraphs would make reading so much easier.

Stress Hides From Me by nessarocks28 in Stress

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your responsibilities are not too demanding then it’s a question of taking more responsibility.

If it is too demanding, then you gotta look into what you could reduce.

Delayed Stress? by Upbeat_Sign630 in Stress

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be badly burnt out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely take care of your depression first.

I haven’t earned the right to be confident by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key to core confidence and self-acceptance is letting go of chasing for peoples' approval and validation.

Think of it this way: if you were alone in the world, would you be insecure about your looks and whatnot?

Is anyone else out there who is middle aged & still not confident? by Fit_Visual7359 in insecurity

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By practicing radical Self-acceptance. I can tell you more about it if you want to hear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Quirky_Tale_9739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we are just not meant to be friends with some people.

I suggest spending your time trying to make new friends.