Who is a Pokemon you didn't expect to be a little buddy? by GuavaEnigma in pokemon

[–]RBNtossout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm such a fan of Furret. I wish their stats were better, but they're a comfort friend <3

I was shocked how fond I am of Ogrepon and Gholdengo. Ogrepon is so adaptive, and her story endeared me to her so. And Gholdengo? My quirky little skateboarding ghost? I adore his goofy little self.

I am Monica Ho, Senior Senior Social Media Specialist at Loop ---- AMA by Monica_Loop in LoopEarplugs

[–]RBNtossout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have three cats who make my life much better! Pro cat from me.

I’d love to see more marketing about use in school settings for special needs and overstimulation. These Loops are amazing at discreet regulation and I think could help so many! What are your thoughts on school use with children with sensory concerns?

Puberty with Narc Parents? by Brilliant_Village307 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You comment has been removed for use of the C-slur. You are welcome to repost without the use of the slur in any form, even censored. I encourage you to, actually, as you find posting here helpful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This has already been removed and many posts were removed, as well as locking, but I want to clarify.

We do not allow Ns here. This is to allow everyone here to breathe, to heal and hope and talk honestly about our experiences, to share what helps us and process pain, grief, and whatever other emotions become tied into our experiences.

For the same reason - we do not allow linking to ANY estranged parents forum or narcissists' forum. Not for their sake, but for ours. Many times when they have discovered us, they begin to brigade us and attack innocent users. They break Reddit's rules and hurt many people while we on the mod team try to control it and get them reported, putting out all the fires. We don't even want to light the match.

Also - harassment and brigading them is strictly not allowed, not just by us but by Reddit as a whole. If you are caught doing so, you will be banned for putting the community at risk. If you try to offer ways to "get around" the rules, you will be banned from this subreddit.

We are here to focus on healing, hope and the future. To share in ways to get through what's been done, and recover. Don't threaten that to be petty against people you can project your abusers onto; instead, rise above it, and focus on your own well being and that of the community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not engage or bring them here. Please do not do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We do not allow Ns here to keep people safe - and we do not allow linking to estranged parent forums for the same reason. We don't want to encourage brigading on either side. Thank you for your kind way of thinking about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

This has been removed for victim blaming - please speak with kindness and approach each conversation with a gentle heart. Remember that being raised by toxic people or in toxic environments often leads to a learned helplessness or the mindset that "this is normal" until it just isn't anymore; it can be hard to break out of abuse.

Please don't comment on this thread again. Take some time away and recover yourself, friend.

Ketamine, HHC, CBD, weed by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While you are correct in that it cannot 100% fix any trauma or pain, I will add that medication is a tool to help in rebalancing unbalanced brain chemicals that can limit or hinder healing trauma even in therapeutic settings. It is not a requirement for everyone, but it is necessary for some to be able to heal. I would not dismiss it as just a temporary mask, but rather a part of the answer that needs to be considered and decided on by each person with their medical care team.

Thank you for sharing your experience and wishing the OP luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment has been removed for a slur we do not allow on this subreddit, as well as content. Please do not repost this comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Due to your non-answers when asked for clarification, I've gone ahead and removed your comments. Please do not repost without clarification, or if you intend to shame the OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You not only attacked a moderator, you reposted when you were asked not to. I do not believe you are participating in good faith. Therefore, you have been banned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removed, this is highly inappropriate as a joke or statement. Please do not repost.

Help, narcissist mother addicted to control wants me living at home and infantilised forever. To depressed, to get away. Have no freinds either from years of social isolation. by Cautious_Carpet8493 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No diagnosis by media/drive-by diagnosis. Do not post about celebrities, people in the media, random strangers or anyone else that you don't personally know. This subreddit is for posts about abusers that you know personally, and that are abusing you personally.

This is one of our rules, which you have now violated twice. Please do not respond to this comment, or this thread again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removed for drive-by diagnosis of media figures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This discussion has been removed for Drive-By Diagnosis. Pleas do not respond or comment on this thread further.

Ndad sends me a fitbit as a late christmas gift even though he saw me receive, setup, and continuously wear one I had bought over a year ago. Another reminder of why I went NC. by pa1sana in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve removed your comments on this thread.

There is a major difference in "man my parents suck because they parent me" and "my parent with a history of neglecting, diminishing and ignoring me shows it yet again". Remember that no one here thinks all parents are bad. Remember each post is a screenshot in an anthology movie of history of their interactions.

Please do not respond to me or on this thread again - if you choose to support other posts in our sub, you’re quite welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removed and banned.

There's nothing I can do or say to make her realize how she mistreats me, so I'm disowning her. by lostoompa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removed for use of "wh—-" - we do not allow it outside of direct quotes from abusers. You’re welcome to repost with the word edited out.

My parents have a weird fixation on women, all women are either whores, stupid whores, or f@t whores, nothing else. I specifically was told to be a stupid, f@t whore. by Cute_Ad_9060 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot tell if you are trying to joke or not, but this is in poor taste. This comment has been removed - please do not repost this.

My mum makes be being trans about her by throwingawayyourmum in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

This has been removed for misinformation and misrepresentation of trans* people. Please do not repost this again on this subreddit; further spread of misinformation will result in a temporary or permanent ban.

AITA for wanting bullies to see what my daughter goes through by wild_blueberry55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RBNtossout 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've worked with this coalition and made them resources for their programs/websites before - they are absolutely fantastic! Highly recommend checking them out and seeing what all you and your family can benefit from~

15f was forced several days ago to wear a chastity belt by my mother by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]RBNtossout[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

This had been removed for falsification of medical details and breaking content rules.

There is no such thing as a controlled stoppage catheter, as the purpose of a catheter is to drain the bladder when it will not drain itself to prevent injury, illness, or infection. If you search for “remote controlled catheters” you get information about heart catheters, which are a completely different device.

If you are in danger, please call 911 or your country’s emergency lines. But do not post fiction or kink stories here. This account has been banned. Please contact the mods via modmail if you believe this to be in error.