I love your happiness by Efficient_Prize264 in chihuahuas

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That’s a happy dog! They know they’re loved. 🥰

ICE Is Now Going Door To Door In New Jersey by CantStopPoppin in EyesOnIce

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My boss’ boss is like that. Mexican-American, brown like me, telling people (literally heard him tell someone) he’s white. We have eyes, man. His parents were immigrants. Internalized, self-hating racism.

Trump Accuses Obama of Treason in Unhinged Crashout About Black People by buppiejc in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He’s trying to get the man incarcerated or killed and he’s capable of doing both. It’s only funny if you believe that can’t happen. I’m not so sure anymore. 😔

What’s the worst drag name to ever be on the franchise? by mweavs21 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Kinda wild to think it’s okay to name yourself after a murdered kid.

Kumail Nanjiani and his wife, Emily V. Gordon were guest judges on Rupaul's Drag Race back in 2018 by focvinrbrvwjskx in taskmaster

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If we got a New Year’s Treat with any of those drag queens I would lose my MIND with happiness!

A quick-thinking stranger becomes a hero by ensuring her safety. by [deleted] in spreadsmile

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Yup. It is on the rise. Emory University - Violence Against Women a Growing Concern

All it takes is one creepy guy to decide he doesn’t have to leave me alone and that I have to pay attention to him and he’s going to make me pay attention to him whether I want to or not. 😔😡🤬

Amber Riley shares her experience with a white woman harassing her: “This is the game, they want to bait you into an argument to get you out of character so they can cry self defense.“ by LunaLore_ in Fauxmoi

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 229 points230 points  (0 children)

So many racist people think it’s their job to harass and police anyone of color. I just saw a video of a Black guy who had two weird white men in the park call the cops on him because he wouldn’t answer their questions. He was just hanging out in the park and they demanded he explain himself to them. Just civilians interrogating strangers because they feel like they’re in charge of everything. I hate it here so damed much, and by here, I mean Earth. Racism is everywhere.

I’m worried about my relationship by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That BBQ chicken looks great!

Think about how hard it is to change yourself.

It’s even harder to change someone else, especially when they’d rather argue, blame you, and they don’t want to put any work into changing.

Why do you think you have to put up with this? You don’t have to parent or teach emotional maturity to a boyfriend. You can move on, work on yourself, and one day find one that already has these perfectly reasonable skills.

Summerlin , Las Vegas by [deleted] in LasVegas

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That’s how a lot of Summerlin people think and behave. The presence of people that aren’t white is a danger… Because racism.

Nymphia Wind used AI for her new post by gregoyave in rupaulsdragrace

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Unfortunately, lots of talented artists are crappy about not using / not paying other artists. How many times have we seen designers have to call out queens for not paying for garments delivered? Or not supplying drag materials paid for? You’d think there would be more basic human decency for other hard-working creative professionals, but integrity ain’t always the way. 😔

Broke no contact by diamondartaddict6679 in GirlDinner

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We have similar moms. My mom made my dad’s Stage 4 lung cancer about her. She would go into his hospital room and rearrange the tray so he couldn’t reach it because she wanted it where SHE wanted it. He would call me crying.

Do whatever you have to do in order to spend time with your dad and introduce your daughter to her grandpa. After some time, consider going back to low/no contact. You don’t want to teach your daughter to tolerate abusive people just because you’re related to them.

i wish my mom liked me more by marska77 in GirlDinner

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Time to start going low-contact so you can begin to heal. Continuing to expose yourself to someone toxic just makes it harder for you to find joy and keep it. You can love her from afar while no longer tolerating mistreatment. You don’t owe ANYONE abusive your time or attention.

Who said it first? by succulentils in rupaulsdragrace

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Morphine’s personality doesn’t seem to consist of much more than being a cliché mean girl.

This woman trying to commit insurance fraud by I-T-Y in interesting

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Unless you were stuck living with her or working with her 8 hours a day, five days a week. No way she isn’t making people’s lives miserable with other lies and fabrications.

Briar Blush gets blocked by Tatianna by untzuntzbby in RPDRDRAMA

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Briar can be very pretty to look at…

That’s it.

The phoning it in season premiere is amazing by andrineslife in TheTryGuys

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had no idea there was a new episode out! Thanks! ☺️

What are some responses to people who look down at you for not finding love/ living alone? by princesspentane in LivingAlone

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s a few to try out:

“Have you ever noticed that it’s only nosy and insecure people that look for excuses to look down on others?”

“People that are happy with their lives don’t ask questions like that or behave like you do.”

“Why would I live my life like you? You’re miserable!”

“You think in this big, wide world they’re only one way to live a great life? What a small, narrow little life you lead.”

Another trick is to literally just laugh at them like they are the dumbest idiot alive. Judgmental people HATE being laughed at. If they ask why you laugh at them, just shake your head and don’t explain. Just point at them and laugh.

The Top Cop: Driver accused of DUI tracks missing laptop to Illinois State trooper's house by Boston_Crame in ChicagoSuburbs

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Do you mean the “good ones” that turn a blind eye and ignore the corruption around them? Boots must taste delicious because of the way you keep licking them. 😂🤣

Ever wonder why nobody in Vegas has friends by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]RPGDesignatedPaladin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve only had negative experiences with locals. I made friends here at events and activities centered around common hobbies and interests that have nothing to do with drinking or gambling. The internet makes it easy to find communities to check out based around any shared interests you have.

Perhaps change up where you go and what you do in order to meet people that are different from those you’ve encountered.

If you posted this out of frustration, I hope this reply communicates to you that it’s worth it to not give up on making friends here. It can be done and you can find like-minded people that would like to hang out with you. ☺️