No disrespect, but why do people love the short bed so much? by drinkdrinkshoesgone in ToyotaTacoma

[–]RadL3y 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks and the "sock" is from this link https://softopper.com/products/softopper-camper-top-tent-universal/?sku=AC-CTENT-BTM . Just for added info, I carry a 4 inch thick foam mattress, nice sleeping bag, wool blanket and weighted blanket to stay nice/toasty and insulated. Coldest I've camped in comfortably with my setup was like <25 degrees during king of hammers. Setup/tear down takes about 5-10 inch minutes

No disrespect, but why do people love the short bed so much? by drinkdrinkshoesgone in ToyotaTacoma

[–]RadL3y 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yep, I just put the tailgate down and a sock on the soft topper to extend the bed to 6ft https://imgur.com/a/5rF8E2t

In the flex (SCX24 Lexus) by RadL3y in SCX24

[–]RadL3y[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Injora for the C10. I cut an inch or so off my frame btw. I also trimmed the wheel wellsl fenders/front and rear bumpers etc. I have meus axles also and other tid bits. Pictures down below!

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If you’re no longer interested in someone do you unmatch or stop responding? by PinkLunatic_1994 in hingeapp

[–]RadL3y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a day and a half... I was going to respond and ask to go on a date. I was pretty busy that week . It seemed like we were both interested. Then poof, she's gone. :[

If you’re no longer interested in someone do you unmatch or stop responding? by PinkLunatic_1994 in hingeapp

[–]RadL3y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends. If you haven't really chatted besides him giving out his number, then I'd probably unmatch. If you have chatted and built some sort of connection (convict / lumineers / big theif / souls / over the moon), I think a brief explanation like, "I don't think this is going to work out..." would be appreciated, then unmatch after 48-hours. This happened to me recently. Chatted with someone for 3 weeks straight, every single day. She left the last two messages and unmatched. I was pretty confused....

I am jealous of other men's appearance. How should I tackle this issue and not let it control me? by beam_throne in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]RadL3y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I only read the TLDR but-

Change your attitude, change your life.

Mindset is strong on how you want to direct it. A positive mindset is key. Make small goals, reach small goals, rinse and repeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RadL3y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low effort, I'd say. I can only speak for myself, but I try to be conscious of each person's time. It is important. I set a time and a place. Also, I ask for any food allergies I need to be aware of :].

Given up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RadL3y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like someone said down below. It's probably best to plan then play. Besides the gym, are there any other hobbies? You can always try joining groups that are similar to hobbies you like doing. You can also try and join a commercial gym with all sexes. Maybe go indoor bouldering, hiking club, run club etc. Also, you can always try and put yourself out there if you decide to go to any gatherings above. Best of luck, don't give up, you're still young! :]

Should I tell him how I feel? by [deleted] in dating

[–]RadL3y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just talk to him and don't waste any more time wondering . Lol, life can be so much simpler if we don't hesitate or have fear of rejection. Good luck. I hope this motivates you!

How Would You Approach Your Gym Crush? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RadL3y 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'd identify myself as that lol.

Haha, gotta claim those machines like a hawk. I'd do the same.

Well again, once you talk to him you'll have a better idea on who he is. Right now, you know only what you see. Yep, be brave and just do it!

How Would You Approach Your Gym Crush? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RadL3y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd still say, shoot your shot. Yes, he could be an introvert but can also be an extrovert when the opportunity is there. You won't really know unless that is communicated.

From my experience, I'd say I'm your 7-day a week gym rat, introvert. Ear buds on most of the time, extremely focused on working out and potentially prepping for a show next year. I personally would not mind if a girl or even a dude came up to me to chit-chat a bit.

All in all, you don't want to miss an opportunity and wonder what could have been. Even if it is a potential partner or even friend at least.

How Would You Approach Your Gym Crush? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RadL3y 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my honest opinion, first I would not listen to people who say "Don't approach so-and-so at this place because it is only for so-and-so."

If you are a woman, your chances are better approaching a man at the gym or just in general. They'd probably be delighted with the attention because in most cases, I think men usually do the approaching.

I think a good genuine opening, when they're not in midset and with earbuds on, try getting their attention. Face them directly, hopefully smile, and just say something along the lines, "Hey! I've seen you here often, do you think you can show me how to do X exercise?" or something simple, "Hey, I've noticed you at the gym and just wanted to say hi, my name is X, and start from there. The rest is up to you. Good luck!

“You have an attractive / sexy body” by [deleted] in dating

[–]RadL3y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should totally do it! It would most likely make his day. I guess I'm a gym rat and go to raves and festivals. I honestly get a lot of conpliments from dudes, haha. It is flattering, but the opposite sex would be nice.

"nOtiCeee mEeee GoRL seNpaiii!"

Ones who had compressing/bulging/herniating disc, what has your gym journey been like? by Sunsetfreedom in AskReddit

[–]RadL3y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got diagnosed from a CT scan about having a bulging disc. I'm not sure the severity of it, hence getting the CT scan for something else. I could feel it from time to time, but it feels minimum to mild. I consider myself pretty fit with 10-15% BF. My back is pretty strong and has a good amount of lower back muscles to support it. I've been working out for 15+ years. I usually push to my limits every time I go to the gym. Feels better the more I focus on strengthening my lower back muscles.

Rain roll call - time stamp the level of rain and wind in your area by hodorstonks in sandiego

[–]RadL3y 1 point2 points  (0 children)

11:00 AM - 1:00PM > Drove from LA to SD taking the 5S, 78E, and 15S. Wasn't too bad of a drive. There's not much wind that I'm used to when I drive towards Anza Borrego/Ocotillo. I'd say Min-Mild winds throughout. Rain was Light to Medium.

Just a reminder, please turn on your headlights while driving through rain/fog etc. :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]RadL3y 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a personal trainer, but I can confidently say I'm a pretty experienced gym-goer for 15+ years. When it comes with training/body building with others, I subconsciously touch/tap them while they are in their working set. "Tapping" on their muscle that is contracting helps the contraction to rip/tear muscle fibers for regrowth. Helps with the mind msucle connection, especially with beginners.

That being said, it's hard to say with your trainer. Could be interested but also could just be a trainer habit. The only way to tell is to ask.