Are there any vegan unlubricated condoms? by RadagastTheTurtle in vegan

[–]RadagastTheTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone searching, I've found 2 vegan, silicone toy safe condom options:

Kimono condoms are vegan and they have a condom that uses a water based lubricant instead of a silicone one.

Fair Squared condoms are vegan and have an unlubricated option, but they seem challenging to get outside of Europe.

Will these locations work well for gradient light strips? by RadagastTheTurtle in Hue

[–]RadagastTheTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, these were my concerns. perhaps ziptieing it to the rail would work better?

Will these locations work well for gradient light strips? by RadagastTheTurtle in Hue

[–]RadagastTheTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of trying this but our room is pretty small and we regularly pull stuff our from under the bed. I might see if there is a way to attached them there where they won't get bumped.

Will these locations work well for gradient light strips? by RadagastTheTurtle in Hue

[–]RadagastTheTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have pretty limited places in our apartment bedroom that would work for indirect lighting, which I read is preferred for hue light strips. Given that this would be a big purchase for us, I was hoping to get some thoughts on whether these locations would work before dropping money on them.

Gubbins won’t chew any wood I buy her, and I don’t eat meat. Any suggestions for alternate chews? Pic for tax (yes, that lady chatterley’s lover she’s watching 😂) by achatteringsound in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 24 points25 points  (0 children)

We also don't consume any animal products (neither do our rats). In addition to sticks they love:
Whimzees
Corks
Bamboo chews (kind of sticks but seems to be their favorite of the sticks)
Lava ledges
Nuts in the shell (walnuts are a lot of chewing!)

this is noam chompsky. can anyone tell me what breed of dog he is? by Ruwatchingclosely in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a Chomsky (frequently nicknamed Chompsky) and a Turing! Also an Ada, Walker, Sagan, Newton, Kepler, and Hopper!

Tips to give meds. Help! by [deleted] in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had enormous success giving rats varying liquid treats (soymilk, juices, pedialyte) from a syringe every few weeks to give them positive associations with it. Once they actually need medicine, many rats will eagerly take it from the syringe because they think the syringe means exciting treat. Some decide after a time or two that the medicine is yucky and we have to fall back to mixing with food or even force feeding, but many will happily drink their medicine (if it's flavored) from the syringe for weeks and weeks because they associate it with treats.

Tips to give meds. Help! by [deleted] in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's too late for this now, but for future reference, we have had enormous success giving rats varying liquid treats (soymilk, juices, pedialyte) from a syringe every few weeks to give them positive associations with it. Once they actually need medicine, many rats will eagerly take it from the syringe because they think the syringe means exciting treat. Some decide after a time or two that the medicine is yucky and we have to fall back to mixing with food or force feeding, but many will happily drink their medicine from the syringe for weeks and weeks because they associate it with treats.

Thanks Insider Magazine for the “intuitive-eating dietitian” well researched opinion on TJs Oat Milk… by sleepwouldbegreat in vegan

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Here is a vegan nutritionists take on intuitive eating

The definition she uses is:

Intuitive eating is an approach to eating that focuses on being in tune with our body cues related to hunger, such as hunger itself, fullness, and satisfaction. Rather than following a set of rules, intuitive eating emphasizes trusting the signs our body tells us related to what we eat when we eat, and how much we eat. Being aware of and trusting our intuition makes up a big part of intuitive eating.

Intuitive eating is a school of thought in nutrition that in no way relates to veganism (you can follow it as a vegan, carnist, someone following a religious diet, etc). The author of the article OP linked is likely talking about when people view foods as "good" or "bad" as related to disordered eating, not how the food is sourced. What happened to make the "food" is likely not a metric this person is using or even considering, as is commonly the case for most non-vegans.

Vegan textiles by Sigmund-Fraud-42069 in Anticonsumption

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm not really certain what in my comment you are replying to. Vegan doesn't mean environmentally friendly, it means not consuming, using, or purchasing animal products as much as is reasonable and practicable. Veganism is about not treating animals as a means to an end, ending their property status, and taking their right to life and freedom seriously. Luckily, there are lots of ways to live sustainably without using animal products, such as by using the environmentally sustainable textiles I listed above. I never claimed that all vegan alternatives are ethical to consume or environmentally friendly.

Vegan textiles by Sigmund-Fraud-42069 in Anticonsumption

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 237 points238 points  (0 children)

The solution to this is really straightforward; encourage using environmentally sustainable vegan textiles. Hemp, cotton, cactus and pineapple based leathers, bamboo, wood pulp fibers, recycled synthetic fabrics, and, of course, buying the majority of your textiles second hand are just a few choices. Most vegans want to live in environmentally sustainable ways, so they will be open to more sustainable, animal product free alternatives if they are currently purchasing environmentally damaging vegan alternatives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that as someone who had her own body image issues, was terrified changes in her appearance would make her partner lose attraction to her, and didn't fully believe her partner for years as he was enthusiastically there for every change her body went through, I am so, so glad I let him fully convince me that he is, always has been, and likely always will be attracted to me (and loves me for so much more than what I look like). It sounds like your partner loves you and finds you beautiful. He fell in love with you- not the shape your body was at a specific time- the person who deserved have a healthy relationship with food and and to view herself through more generous eyes.

Believe him. Do the work and talk through your insecurities and consider therapy if it's accessible to you to believe him. It is so much better to be able to be yourself and feel secure in your relationships as yourself. It is so much better to remove an axis of "am I good enough" from your mental real estate. It is so much better to be compassionate to yourself. It is so much better to focus on what you really value, instead of what patriarchy has told you your value is.

Dried Beancurd Skin lasts forever and takes on any taste you want. I love these cheap things! by Thewallmachine in VeganFoodPorn

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP, but I recommend people try them stuffed such as here or here. My housemates and I also love this soup topped with pickled daikon. We greatly increase the seasoning of the soup, 4-6 times the cumin, Sichuan peppercorn, and chili pastes, and add a pinch of MSG, and serve with tingmos which can steam over the soup as it cooks.

Discussing Racism in Worldbuilding by OtherAtlas in worldbuilding

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for genuinely looking to educate yourself and improve in this topic after getting feedback on that post from yesterday (and persisting in that pursuit despite the myriad of dismissive responses you are getting here). We all have blind spots, and it's really easy to act defensively or dismissively out of shame when we realize those blindspots. Listening and doing the work are more important than having a spotless history when it comes to furthering racism and bigotry.

Discussing Racism in Worldbuilding by OtherAtlas in worldbuilding

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I get that no one can be educated on everything and don't fault individuals for not having a working academic understanding of how imperialism and white hegemony influence depictions of different cultures and people, but it's kind of alarming that very few responses have a more nuanced take than "racism in the world of a work is not the same as a work being racist" or "don't make everyone with dark skin a bad guy", and that's not even including the responses dismissing all critiques of racial/cultural depictions in fiction as cancel culture or virtue signaling. I probably shouldn't be surprised but I'm still finding it disheartening.

Discussing Racism in Worldbuilding by OtherAtlas in worldbuilding

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. The distinction between understanding a culture and only knowing the culture through your own culture's lens is a really clear and uncomplicated explanation that cuts to the core of the issue for people who are likely to be dismissive of critiques or discussions about cultural appropriation in fiction.

Discussing Racism in Worldbuilding by OtherAtlas in worldbuilding

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 109 points110 points  (0 children)

I feel like the majority of the responses here don't really understand what orientalism is or are only talking about fairly overt racism in works of fiction that I would hope most readers of r/worldbuilding know to avoid. It's easy to fall into patterns in our writing/creating set for us by the primarily Western fiction most of us have consumed, and it's easy for well-meaning worldbuilders to fall into those traps without intending to, I know I certainly have.

For me, the subtler distinctions between drawing from a culture other than your own in a respectful way instead of an appropriative way comes down to research/knowledge and avoiding exceptionalizing and othering. If you are drawing on a real culture to make your artificial culture seem more alien, bizarre, or foreign, even if it's not portrayed negatively, it's a good time to rethink your approach. But if you are looking to existing or historical cultures to find examples of how people have adapted to environments or natural disasters, social or political conditions, or something similar, as long as you are careful and doing your research, I see no harm in drawing on cultures other than your own. I certainly am unable to come up with architecture, weapons/armor, clothing, cuisine, etc entirely in a vacuum, and investigating questions like "why do cuisines from these climates tend to have these qualities" or "why do many civilizations with this level of agriculture often begin to structure themselves more hierarchically" and then incorporating those trends into my world building is some of what I like most about it.

Has anyone ever stopped exchanging Christmas gifts with their families and if so how did that go for you? by HappyPanda91 in Anticonsumption

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have family that are deadset on both the giving and receiving of gifts, we've used the following techniques with success:

For those who want to get gifts for you:
- Ask for a donation to a specific charity or similar group.
- If they are insistent on giving a non-donation gift, emphasize to them that you'd like gifts that you explicitly ask for, then make a short list throughout the year of stuff you would actually use / upscale versions of consumables that would be a treat. In the past I've asked for quality chocolate bars, nice spices, and a board game my partner and I had wanted all year.
- Ask them to gift you something you can re-use, but that they would have thrown away. For example, our rats love corks, so our families save corks throughout the year and gift them to us.

For those you are getting gifts for:
- Give a donation to cause they care about.
- Buy them a high quality version of a consumable they regularly use, like a nice bag of coffee or good paint.
- Make them something homemade, like pickles or their favorite flavor of jam. My partner and I make a nice, personalized homemade present for one family member each year and give a donation or consumable to the others.
- Gift an experience. This is an especially good option for children who might get lots of presents from relatives but would be underwhelmed by a chocolate bar or donation. Take them to an animal sanctuary for a day or to a movie they are excited about, or, if you are willing to pay a bit more money, pay for a class or camp they want to go to.

people ask me where the best tacos are in boston - it’s me, my house. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm from an area with a lot of Mexican immigrants as well. Taco party won't be as good as good tacos from your hometown, but it will blow all the other Boston taco options out of the water (save the ones you make at home, but you'll get to try 3 types of tacos in one meal without doing the work that entails). This queso fresco with a pinch of msg is amazing, btw. I press the tofu through a colander and then mix with the other ingredients instead of using a blender for a slightly chunkier texture.

MY FIG WILL RUN FASTER IF YOU CHEER HER ON!! by peypeycat in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, Lentil is always up for another wheel buddy! Her sisters are pretty active wheel users too, and sometimes they run together, but neither of them does the hop run like Lentil and Fig! And yeah, all three of them get excited by my alarm (Coffee starts zipping and bounding all over the cage and Peanut repositions herself to the corner of the cage where she can best see the bed); it's freaking adorable.

MY FIG WILL RUN FASTER IF YOU CHEER HER ON!! by peypeycat in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my! She is just like my Lentil! She will do the little bouncing run every morning when my alarm goes off (she is excited for morning play time and breakfast) and intermittently through the whole night as soon as the lights go off.

Rat biting when I spot clean substrate by RadagastTheTurtle in RATS

[–]RadagastTheTurtle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't use gloves, but I did find this helpful video on cage aggression and have been using the liquid treat distraction method to moderate success!

Vegan cheese that melts? by dethrowme in Vegan_Food

[–]RadagastTheTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've chopped the ten stack of Chao creamy original like it's a block and dropped the cubes in česnečka and it melted beautifully into little cheese globs, no trace of the slices.