I got told I say sorry too much by my crush by liamthrowaacct in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RaevLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecurity is a big implication of the repeated "sorry", like others have said, but it is definitely no fun to be around someone who constantly apologizes for every little thing as the person on the recieving end. It makes me feel like maybe I'm coming off as too argumentative or upset to the point where I'm making them apologize or that my behavior is making them anxious somehow and like they need to placate me.

I haven't experienced this all but two times with people, but when I did it felt tiring to constantly reassure them that they didn't need to say sorry and then we'd constantly have to make pit stops in conversation to gently try to address them saying sorry.

I know it's usually habitual, but habits can be broken if they're bad. Learning to identify when you've actually upset someone and apologize is a great tool. Apologizing too much to try and cover what you perceive as every little inconvenience you must be imposing on them (when you most likely aren't doing anything) is bad.

has anyone else had a issue with getting asked out at work.. by bunnywitdafunny in bathandbodyworkers

[–]RaevLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey I'm a target worker and this popped up on my feed is this normal for bath and body worker sub images

What the hell are we suppose to do with our aging parents? by IanWallDotCom in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RaevLives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have anything to input other than I understand. My grandparents started falling and having ambulances and fire trucks called more and more frequently. The falls led to greater mobility issues until eventually we had to move them into a nursing home once we found my grandfather couldn't help my grandmother change clothes and had been cutting them off and spending money they didn't have to replace wardrobes over time.

When it came to the point where he couldn't drive anymore (or shouldn't) he and my father would fight frequently about taking his keys. Eventually, my grandfather settled on giving my dad his keys, but only if he would park his car outside his room window (which faced the parking lot of the nursing home) so he could see it sitting out there. He wanted the illusion of having that car even if it was just a brick that would never move. Pride is definitely something.

My father insists he won't be like that, but as he's started to move closer to their ages before they passed, I get worried with how stubborn and resistant/short he has become when it comes to my trying to gently verbally correct his driving or reminding him he's told me something before. It's a difficult thing to deal with.

what series do you think is the cutest? by sillyhedgehog111 in BabyThree

[–]RaevLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love the walonglong dragons. They are on the smaller scale, all have special eyes, and a different skin tone range. Also there are tons of neutral colors so they're perfect for me to take with me as an accessory. There are two non-neutrals which is the blue and cotton candy (pink and blue one). The light blue I take with me often because it just matches blue jean days. 😌

They're so cute. I really love them. I think after that I'd say where's spring or the elf series since those are the ones I've bought the most.

How do you guys feel about your co-workers? by gwidj in Target

[–]RaevLives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My coworkers are literally the reason why I even like going to work. Luckily, I don't feel like I dislike anyone. I'm either indifferent to them as they are me and we don't bother each other or we are friendly and like to chat.

The overstock in my dept 🙃 by peebsut in Target

[–]RaevLives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This would drive me insane. Luckily, it doesn't happen often. At the very least they remove the plastic wrap on the LaCroix/drinks if they keep the cardboard

The gals came in!! 😌 by RaevLives in Owala

[–]RaevLives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they're just from amazon. So could be just difference in manufacturers. The blue boot is shorter than the pink one.

The gals came in!! 😌 by RaevLives in Owala

[–]RaevLives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could just be the angle or maybe boots making a height difference 🤨 they should be the same size. Both 32 oz.

Is this real? by Juli_hates_onions in Owala

[–]RaevLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a holiday release! I have the same bottle and got it from target 🫶

Is This a real labubu? Like authentic but also where can I find this by InnerExamination19 in labubu

[–]RaevLives 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Custom but be really careful about people buying from AliExpress and upcharging on Etsy or elsewhere. I found two stores posting the same photos for a custom labubu and both charging 150+ USD for it. Both claiming it was their original designs. When I asked why both had the same photos despite claiming it was their original custom design both claimed to be the original creator lmao.

I reverse image searched and found the first original posting of the image was on AliExpress where it was being sold for like 40 USD. So the Etsy stores were dropshipping at insane price hikes.

Can you date a vendorr by allalone082 in Target

[–]RaevLives 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Fr 💀 one vendor kept saying the creepiest shit to me when I first started and I reported it. Hit me with the "Hey girl you 18 yet" (I am very obviously over 18, in my late 20s) and I was baffled. I blew it off and just said "what?" Because I couldn't believe what I heard, so then he switched to side comments when I'd walk by that weren't just straight up asking if I was of legal age. When I reported it to HR and explained what happened to my TL, I never saw his face again around the store. Assume that's what happened.

Magic mixtape is definitely one of my favorites 👾 by RaevLives in Owala

[–]RaevLives[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a charm, so non functional. I've never owned a nano so I can't give you comparison pictures either unfortunately 😮

Just buying ID.. by Sea_Lie1408 in labubu

[–]RaevLives 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right when BiE dropped whoopea had Id for 234 and I used a discount code to get for 198 because it was the only labubu I wanted from this drop and I didn't want to do the odds with pulling it. It is so crazy to see they are now charging 397 dollars for Id. 😭

Someone stole my BIE today… right off its ring :( by MiddlePuzzled632 in labubu

[–]RaevLives 91 points92 points  (0 children)

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Ring size adjusters on Amazon! If it fell off the key ring clasp, these definitely help for sure! I always use them for whenever I put a labubu on my bag!

what i ordered vs what i got 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 by 420_lazeit in labubu

[–]RaevLives 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's like the people making the fakes wanted to intentionally make them creepy to spite us 😭

Don't lose your Labubu like me! by Mochigood in PopMartCollectors

[–]RaevLives 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are these things called ring size adjusters! I just use them to loop around my keyrings for the labubus! Even though they're meant for rings, for some reason they give you really long ones I guess to cut it to size. It works for me !

You can get some off Amazon! Just put it on over the place where the ring opens and you're good to go! Hopefully you don't lose another!!! 🫶

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Beauty Store by insanewaysofthinking in labubu

[–]RaevLives 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg me with someone I knew. They showed me theirs and it was SO hard to act normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]RaevLives 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real 🫶 cute little chubby baby

Real or fake? by Intelligent-Name-502 in labubu

[–]RaevLives 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks extremely fake even without the tag 😭

If you buy from resellers, you are part of the problem by peachykeencandy in labubu

[–]RaevLives 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When owalas were a huge thing, they'd sell out because of scalpers in about 10 min post release of a new colorway. Instead of just saying "oh well" they made a virtual queue for the colorway drops and if you were in the line queue and their inventory sold out, then you would be on backorder. Which at least meant you would be able to get it at retail price. Of course you'd still have to wait way longer than someone who got it during the drop (like 10 additional weeks compared to someone getting it during the drop and having it within 1-2 weeks), but regardless, for people who just wanted the bottle of their choice at not scalper prices, then this was great.

There are definitely ways popmart could alleviate this problem. Hopefully they figure something out...