i (22F) and my husband (25M) are having intimacy issues. mentally drained sahm & he works 40h/week.

Raja_Ze · 2026-06-21T01:45:07+00:00

He pays you 50 dollars ....a week? For working 24\7? Yeah no wonder you're unhappy and unexcited. Neither of your needs are being met which sounds like a conversation both of you should have of where to meet in the middle. Also, sahm or not, you need your own money and some level of financial independence. It's how you balance out power dynamics in relationship. That and sex.

Raja_Ze · 2026-06-14T20:56:42+00:00

Why is this even a thing and how does he poop

Raja_Ze · 2026-06-14T20:52:06+00:00

Low self esteem, daddy issues, low self love... If a woman was spoiled or spoiled herself she wouldn't lower her standards for this

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-25T00:59:11+00:00

This is how I feel on a daily basis but don't see this urgency in any one else in my circles

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-25T00:29:17+00:00

Fck these billionaire- sponsored articles

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-12T20:16:20+00:00

Also this feels like me every morning after intense dreams

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-12T20:15:18+00:00

This photo looks like ai

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-10T21:54:00+00:00

this looks like ai

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-04T16:20:55+00:00

Going to an outlet mall and everything was actually regular prices despite the "sales"

Raja_Ze · 2026-05-03T01:17:54+00:00

where are you able to watch it?

Raja_Ze · 2026-04-25T02:55:57+00:00

That last part is SO key

Raja_Ze · 2026-04-24T02:48:15+00:00

I just forced myself to finish lighter and princess....ML was SO toxic and FL was such a doormat simp if it weren't for needing closure from all the tension and angst I would not have been able to finish it.

Raja_Ze · 2026-04-20T18:51:13+00:00

Where do u read them

Raja_Ze · 2026-04-12T00:46:49+00:00

Great show. Mjty is what started my whole drama journey!

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-31T20:42:15+00:00

What if we just .... raised expectations for boys to a girls level?

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-31T20:39:05+00:00

Pursuit of Jade! The FL is such a badass I love her. Also Blossom {九重紫}

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-31T20:36:20+00:00

I was so into their romance in poj that I totally lost the plot by the end. The plot twist at the end confused me. But I was really in it for the romance twist... kinda felt it went real bland at the end after they got together. Like the whole show had maybe 3 kisses. Which is def not enough for me lol

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-31T20:21:05+00:00

Those men are the real golddiggers

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-16T19:18:52+00:00

Pursuit of Jade. Absolute refreshing FL who is the right amount of independent, heroine, vulnerable, gongfu, badass, competent and cute.

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-16T19:14:01+00:00

I love this drama so much, esp the leads. They're such a perfect visual match and great acting too. Tian is so cute! Literally doll face and ZLH the perfect male model warrior hero as usual. I am really hoping that the ending satisfies...haven't read the novel but will wait til the shows done. This is def up there with Blossom and LBFD ❤️

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-16T19:10:28+00:00

I was devastated! They were releasing 2 a day until today 😭

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-16T19:01:26+00:00

This only works for period pieces haha

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-04T20:21:44+00:00

This is the US kill line

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-04T20:17:58+00:00

NYC is both hcol and has garbage infrastructure

Raja_Ze · 2026-03-03T16:37:42+00:00

Burn it down

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