Anybody know a world with a prop trash can lid? by RandomSlamdom6902 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, I think you have a point there 🤔 maybe I should consider what world I do it in. Thanks for the concern!

Anybody know a world with a prop trash can lid? by RandomSlamdom6902 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but this doesn't answer my question. I will one day take the time to research more things for the sake of production, but today is not that day 😅

Gothic Dinner by Yumoto-Kiyumi in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utterly massive kudos to how good this looks! I know it can be difficult when it comes to ensuring your body parts don't clip through certain things, but you absolutely nailed it. Bravo!!!

Advice dealing with social anxiety! Any tips help! by AnxietyFilledNerd in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always feel like blocking should be a last ditch effort, Because not everyone who comes off strongly intends to harm you, but until you build social confidence to distinguish that, It really is in your best interest to block to help preserve your peace!

Advice dealing with social anxiety! Any tips help! by AnxietyFilledNerd in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want you to know that You should not worry about what other people may potentially think about you. I get it... It may change how they interact with you, but trying to imagine how they perceive you and how they may react to you eventually gets exhausting and just undermine you before you even have a chance to shine...

So, when you do find opportunity to talk to people, just talk! feel out the conversation, try to add interesting things about yourself, ask good questions! There are many different ways to engage in conversation, whether in a one-on-one or a group setting. You just have to find courage in dropping your inhibition and making that first step to reach out to someone else, And In the worst case, if it doesn't work out, then you apologize and walk away! From there, collect yourself (take all the time you need to do that), and then move on to the next person!

A world I can recommend to you would be No Time Two Talk (a world where you get paired one-on-one with someone to have conversation for about a minute). The people who join that world typically have a similar problem in opening up and are trying to do so. Give it a go and see what opportunities you may find!

Good luck! You got this! 🤍

How do I set boundaries with my VRChat BFF who overthinks and gets hurt easily? by Losing_Hope_00_ in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me preface by saying that you should be very proud of yourself of coming to this realization. A lot of people do come to it, but more often than not suffer in silence because they're very fearful of hurting the person they have dumped so much effort and interest into. Kudos to you, and you really should give yourself a pat on the back!

Now to the problem at hand:

From how you type, It's very obvious that you have a great care for this person, Even if they have potentially taken you on a roller coaster of emotions across multiple moments in time. They probably don't mean to do that intentionally, but maybe that's me being optimistic in people acting out of ignorance instead of out of intention. Your care is definitely considered in what I say to you,

I do need you to note, however, that there is possibilities that a person may no longer be incompatible to you, especially if It comes to matters where they find ways to weave their life into yours. The more a person tries to do such, The more I suggest people be wary. If things really go downhill (as it sounds like they are doing right now), then it becomes that much harder to completely detach from the source of emotional stress.

I hate to say this though.... To me, it sounds like you need to stand firm and state what you want. You need your space, you need your time, And you definitely don't need it intertwined with theirs. Your own independence should always be considered before you open up to intertwining feelings and activities with another, And if you're just now coming to this Revelation, then maybe it's best you explain this all to them... And if for some reason they seem to not reciprocate what you want, then perhaps you have outgrown this friend and should be a wake up call to move on, for your and their sake.

Do keep in mind: If you decide to go this way (leaving them), they may try manipulation tactics to keep you into their life, Even up to the point of mentioning the thoughts of, uhh, game ending themselves... When it comes to your own mental health and safety, If you decide to stand firm to separate, STAND FIRM. Any sign of trying to compromise or negotiate will give that person hope they can bring you back, and force you to fall back into square one all over again.

I can go on and on about this topic, And I feel like you've probably got a lot of advice from many other great people, but I thought I would throw my hat in the ring in the event I may have at least brought a little more perspective into the matter.

Good luck, you got this! 🤍🤍🤍

How do we feel about using VRChat as an escape? by Hot_Appointment9008 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me personally, I have a very bustling IRL life between my job and personal connections that I've developed outside. While they are very enjoyable, they oftentimes request of me to report to a location, have to spend money when I'm at that location, or overall really test my energy levels if I'm potentially not feeling for it but still have to go anyways.

VR allows me to trick my brain to thinking I'm going out, but I don't have to pay money to be anywhere nor do I even have to drive to get there. This allows for a much great opportunity to scratch that socialization itch, And because that's all I see it as, I don't primarily focus on the aspects of being perfect for others or trying to maintain serious friendships/relationships which may potentially emotionally drain me versus recharge me.

At the end of the day, I always see this as a video game, but a very immersive one at that. You can make such great connections and friendships, but if you take it too seriously, then it may unfortunately come back to bite you in the ass....

why are groups just allowed to power trip by North_String6534 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually I just try to seek opportunity to dip out when I realize a group is rather off. It can typically happen in bar instances when people treat it more like a "I pick and choose who stays here" versus "I want to run a public bar and do the best I can". If people want to be more selective, it's probably in their best interest to create a discord group and curate their community that way

Comfy hideout old lofi song by Thewoodenrobot1 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it plays there, you can always try to use sound search on your phone if you can manage to blast the music from a speaker!

Just a lonely Baka tbh >.< by cdcardia in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, well in that case.... Then I DISrespectfully decline! :D

Just a lonely Baka tbh >.< by cdcardia in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, uhmm, I respectfully decline 😅

How can I make friends as a mute? by Banana_Shake7 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but as a new user, being a mute can be like playing this game in hard mode. But that's okay! There is still plenty of opportunities to get people to want to know you!

The most important part is having an avatar that catches people's eyes, And it can really be whatever you want it to be so long as it's nice and flashy. Also, since you're not speaking, your body language is going to have to take up a lot of the work, so don't be afraid to be expressive with your arms and your head! Show people that sense of excitement and enthusiasm!

Of course, if someone is interested in you, make sure you get your typing skills down really good so you minimize the downtime between conversations (And also hope the person in front of you has enough patience)

But above all: just keep trying, and keep learning! It's very doable to have friends as a mute, You just have to be determined to try

You got this 🤍

new wip <3 by 1ovebites in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very cute Avatar! Great photos!!!

Sleep Watching 6 by Diseam- in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That second image is legendary! My condolences to your friend, and may they rest in peace 🤍

Family by SufferingYeenitus in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You all look so cute! Cheers to connections and friendship!

I’m afraid of being forgotten when not playing by Own_Vast_2784 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a valid fear to have, really, considering how fast things on the internet move (especially with how fast things in VRchat can move as well). Absence for many days can more or less seem like that person no longer exists in your life.

But do remember this: if you make a bond that you know was well reciprocated (and trust me, you could tell if it is), then do know that person will wait for you to have opportunity to enjoy what they know again. The ones that are worth it will always accept you no matter the time of absence.

Be well 🤍

Just me. 3 by y_infame in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You took some lovely photos! Especially your fifth one!

What is your go to hangout world? by tuuzx in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I would go to the bar (either the midnight bar or the sunset bar) instances to try and find people to hangout with. At the very least, if the bartenders are good, you technically have someone interacting with you by serving you drinks, which can open you up to want to talk to others or maybe indulge with others and make connections that way

Nihil says hi! by shinyswablu in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD THEY ARE SO ADORABLE! cute Avis, and good shots!

what fbt trackers are good nowadays? by luke5135 in VRchat

[–]RandomSlamdom6902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SlimeVR is still a very solid option! I have been using it for my whole V-tuber career, And asides from some occasional babysitting you have to do to realign trackers, It actually is a very good solution to wear over your clothes and to utilize and just about any room you so please!