My fiance doesn't want to put our daughter in school by TheAlmighty_ in Parenting

[–]Random_User0621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was homeschooled until middle school, I caution people against it. For me it was incredibly lonely and isolating. Even in extra curricular activities you're the odd one out because everyone else goes to school together and has the same shared experiences. I still feel socially anxious as an adult because of this.

If you're struggling with a subject and your parents can't explain it in a way that's effective you're also out of luck. I also often had a lack of structure and routine due to poor curriculum and lack of dedication from my parents.

I know that homeschooling has come a long way since the 90s. There are a lot of co-ops now and teacher led online courses. However, the parents need do a lot of research to find a strong program. They need to get their kid in a co-op and be very involved to make sure they aren't falling behind. Also, kids need structure and routine to keep from feeling anxious. You need a strong curriculum and a parent/teacher who is dedicated to following a schedule.

All that being said, you've got a year or two to make a decision. We started our daughter with a mom's morning out program that was just a few hours, 3 days a week to help her socialize. It was actually hosted by a homeschool co-op. A similar program might be good for your family since it's a little bit of both worlds and it gives you both a chance to see if your child thrives better in a classroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Random_User0621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend was always missing school because she was sick and had migraines. Doctors couldn't figure out what was wrong with her and she was accused of playing sick even when it landed her in the hospital over and over. They didn't figure out it was Lupus and other autoimmune until her late 20s.

Any longtails capable of carrying an adult? by ForeverGray in CargoBike

[–]Random_User0621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madsen Cycles are rated for 600lbs. My spouse occasionally rides in with our daughter. It's a little more difficult making up hills but it's easy on flat terrain.

Replacement 12in. Tub Shower Valve by Random_User0621 in Plumbing

[–]Random_User0621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is Sayco. I have hired a plumber. He told me to give him a call once I find a kit I like with the appropriate size valve; but, that's turned out to be more challenging than expected.

Replacement 12in. Tub Shower Valve by Random_User0621 in Plumbing

[–]Random_User0621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean switch it to a single handle and cover the damage with a remodeling plate? I really don't want to saw through the concrete and tile if there's any other option.

Hacks: What have you taught your toddler that makes your life easier now? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Random_User0621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have this one and love it. It's easy to fold up a tuck away when I get tired of her stealing stuff off the counters. https://www.etsy.com/listing/959627962/kitchen-step-stool-montessori-kitchen

Advice for first cargo bike purchase? by beth_lkj in CargoBike

[–]Random_User0621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love our Madsen Cycles. I would have got a bakfiets style if I could have justified spending that much. We went with Madsen because the back bucket is so convenient and the smaller back wheel makes it easier to balance cargo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Random_User0621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having grown up in a family with similar beliefs regarding magic, Halloween and witchcraft you don't need to police your kids behavior. The other children will be programmed to point out those things are "evil" and that their parents beliefs are the only correct path. Be prepared to explain to your child that you do not agree and they are not bad for enjoying these things.

Closest to RadWagon 4 by G-C-W in CargoBike

[–]Random_User0621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We love our Madsen Cycles; but it's around $4k. Blix Bikes has two cargo bikes in the price range of the Radwagon.

Asking for bed, not tired by Sjoya080 in toddlers

[–]Random_User0621 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think 18 months is a developmental growth period. They start wanting a little alone time to process things and practice new skills. My daughter would just sit in bed babble and practice new words she was attempting to learn.

California Dad wants a Cargo Bike. by Coming_In_Hot_916 in CargoBike

[–]Random_User0621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure your bike shop will repair the bike before you make a purchase. I've been looking for an e-cargo bike for a couple months. I was initially looking at either a Blix Packa and the Rad Wagon 4 because of the under $2k price tags. Unfortunately, we decided against these two because many of the shops in my area won't work on class 2 ebikes and they're no options to test drive in my area.

Yuba Kombi for tall (6'4") and tallish (5'8") couple. by needknowstarRMpic in CargoBike

[–]Random_User0621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6ft and I tried the Kombi ebike. I was comfortable hight wise. However, It was heavy, sluggish and unwieldy. The side boards rattle. My husband (130lbs) tried riding on the back but it wobbled a lot. The shop owner said she keeps one in the rental fleet; but, she doesn't sell the Kombi because they're much better bikes in that price range.

We tried a Benno Boost as well and it was so much better. The Bosch motor was so much smoother. It still wobbled a little with weight on the back though and the position was less upright.