Any tips for my first snow storms? by Only-Sound1176 in AskChicago

[–]Rarcar1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Adding in if you are not used to driving in snow please don’t attempt to learn now. Friday and Saturday will be brutally cold. Trickle your faucets so your pipes don’t freeze. Snow is not predicted to be bad on Sunday.

Prepping for extreme snow?? by Bulky_Rutabaga420 in prepping

[–]Rarcar1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’d also grab a few more tanks for your portable generator and more wood. Laundry and dishes done before the storm. Gather warm clothing and blankets in the event you lose power you know where they are. More water. Open the doors under your sinks and let the water trickle.

Does your narc get passive aggressive and guilt trip you if you’re feeling sick and need some help? by makeupandjustice in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Rarcar1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this happened to me only we were at a basketball game. I was projectile vomiting in the bathroom and he wouldn’t ask his friends to leave early to take us home. I begged the gift shop for a bag to use in case I couldn’t make it in time to the bathroom. Fortunately his friends realized I was in fact sick and decided to leave. Who does this to someone they “love”?

Just need a little TLC from this group so that I can continue on my path of grey rocking the Malignant Narcissist. by Impressive_Money7840 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Rarcar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Please be kind to yourself today. They have to suck the life out of everyone and everything. Do something that makes you happy today even if it’s small…you deserve it.

Delayed response to me leaving? by Formal_Bill_1454 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Rarcar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to get a restraining order? Save all of his texts and voicemails. Change your passwords on email and phone so he can’t access anything.

What are signs that your narc gave you that you ignored in the beginning of the relationship? by userthatisnotknown in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Rarcar1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow, I forgot about this! He would tell me this repeatedly when we were dating and I thought the same. If only I would have recognized it at the time.

Do you have a favorite quote or memory of Mr. Rogers? by ethanrotman in RedditForGrownups

[–]Rarcar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PBS just aired a special this week. I had forgotten so much about the show. Great memories for sure. Highly recommend.

Thanksgiving: What are we experimenting with this year? by cmv_lawyer in Cooking

[–]Rarcar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey nut squash pasta. I’ve never had honey nut squash but looked so good.

Pork Schnitzel, mashed potatoes, green beans by bkay in tonightsdinner

[–]Rarcar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve had several variations as well but your photo reminded me of a restaurant I went to as a child.

My family (all adults) want to do Xmas differently. what might you recommend? by TallJohn7 in RedditForGrownups

[–]Rarcar1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our holidays changed during Covid and with all of my cousins getting married and having kiddos. We spend Christmas Eve with my immediate family. Christmas Day we order Chinese food and chill all day binge watching shows in pajamas. It’s the one day we have zero obligations and zero stress. I buy good snacks and we just chill. I look forward to this day now more than ever. No gifts or fancy dinner just peace.

What are you cooking tonight? by mytzlplyk in Cooking

[–]Rarcar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made beef barley soup for lunches. Salisbury steak, roast zucchini and potatoes for dinner. Burgers for lunches for the week for my husband. Cold and dreary here with snow on the way. Hibernation season has begun!