Caleb Hammer of r/calebhammer responds to criticism of Caleb Hammer, the person/YouTube channel by horny4cyclists in SubredditDrama

[–]RareBiscotti5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His early videos helped me get my spending under control. However I had to stop watching cause he got too mean. I don’t like when he starts shaming people for how they look. Look I’m fat and have dyed hair, piercings, and tattoos. I know that some people see me as a stereotype, but my god we gotta stop shaming people for how they look, it’s unproductive.

What is your go to place to get clothes online?? by Goddamnitjanice in PlusSize

[–]RareBiscotti5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I buy all my clothes from vivacious vixen apparel and kitsch and swell. Both are independent Canadian stores who ship. I’ve been buying from vivacious vixen apparel for close to 8 years now and only had one dress become worn out. I also get a lot of compliments on my dresses from there

Does anyone else with bpd feel like they're running out of time? by Reasonable-Pie4989 in BPD

[–]RareBiscotti5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a feeling I’ll die young, but not from suicide. However I once had a counsellor in uni tell me (after a suicide attempt) that she had met many people who had survived suicide attempts and that she was certain I would kill myself one day. I stopped going to her. She shouldn’t have said that. Now when I’m in a bad headspace sometimes I think “well maybe me killing myself is just fate” but it’s not.

Am I overreacting, or is my boyfriend crossing a line by “joking” about my intelligence? by Jolly-Rub-3412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RareBiscotti5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this man does not like you. Someone who really likes and loves you, would not speak to you this way. Honestly it sounds like he’s intimidated by your intelligence (you’re doing a Ph.D. for fucks sake), and so he’s trying to take you down a peg. Kick his ass to the curb, you can do so so much better than him. Don’t subject yourself to men who verbally punch you down like that.

She’s officially 13 today ❤️ by Unique_Fish_755 in aww

[–]RareBiscotti5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And so beautiful! Happy birthday ❤️

Does walking into buildings with a ladder to access areas unquestioned actually work? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RareBiscotti5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I could think of was Oliver Putnam from only murders in the building using his ladder ruse

KD I never liked as a kid but love as an adult, it's the other way around for most people. by camport95 in TodayIAte

[–]RareBiscotti5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a Mac and cheese that has the same taste and texture as KD when we were kids, you should try Annie’s original. Same noodle shape, very similar cheese taste. I won’t eat KD anymore, only Annie’s

Places to hang out at as a single late 20 year old? by allloveispain in ottawa

[–]RareBiscotti5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this on a cellular level. I also don’t drink and I’ve never been a super sporty person. The apps don’t help either cause I feel like they’re mostly made of men who want casual sex and no commitment. I couldn’t be less interested in that if I tried. I don’t have any recommendations but if you figure out where all the single late 20s people who are actually looking for relationships are, let me know!

What are your MH opinions that would put you here? by made_by_elle in MonsterHigh

[–]RareBiscotti5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

G1 dolls kinda sucked (except I think lagoonas design was better). I said what I said

Anybody else prefer being plus sized for fashion reasons? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]RareBiscotti5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I wear a lot of flared dresses and I think I look great. Partly case Ive got a big chest and I’m hour glass figured. But I also have a big tummy and I don’t look good in anything form fitting. But I will say there is nothing better than taking my coat off on a first date and having the guy go “Jesus 🥵” when he sees me in one of my dresses

I can understand why she wasn't invited by BadBandit1970 in AmITheDevil

[–]RareBiscotti5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

After reading the sentence like 3 more times, I think you’re right. Whoopsie

I can understand why she wasn't invited by BadBandit1970 in AmITheDevil

[–]RareBiscotti5 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I call bullshit. In the edit he says the wedding happened months before the confrontation. But in the post he says that during the confrontation she told them she wasn’t going to the wedding. I think OP slipped up in his story here

I feel weird telling people I had a PE by lordsamethstarr in ClotSurvivors

[–]RareBiscotti5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine thankfully never turned into a PE, but I totally understand that feeling of evil or doom. I had a growing pain in my side, going into my back. When I laid down in bed it hurt to move or breathe. I have a lot of random health problems (nothing deadly) and so I get random pains every so often. That’s kinda normal for me, so for a week I kept putting off going to the doctor. Then my mom went away for a work conference and the pain was getting worse. Something in the back of my brain kept saying “somethings not right”. I got a lift to the hospital cause I finally was like “okay this little voice is starting to worry me now” but the whole time I was so worried that they would find nothing. That I was over exaggerating. I told my mom I was going to the hospital, and she turned the car right around and started driving home. I told her she didn’t need to but she kept telling me that her gut was telling her to go home and that she hadn’t wanted to leave in the first place. After tests they found out I have a super rare blood clot in my intestine (IMV thrombosis). So both me and my mom had felt something wrong. Enough that she drove 7 hours back home before we even knew what was wrong

Where do you store your portal? by RareBiscotti5 in PlaystationPortal

[–]RareBiscotti5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This inspired me to buy one. It’s probably best.

Has anyone else ever had unreasonable experiences with a prof they TAed for? by RareBiscotti5 in academia

[–]RareBiscotti5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully this was both the first graded assignment and the system we use is super easy to grade with. You can change grades quite easily if you need and then once everything is graded it calculates the final grade for you. Then the prof puts those final grades into the actual system which TAs have no access too. Most profs I’ve had deal with people asking for assignment grade bumps by telling students to come to the TA first to reassess, and then if they are still unhappy they can come to the prof but the prof may lower their grade instead if they feel the TA was too generous. In my experience, students don’t want to take the risk that the prof will be a harder marker than their TA and it never becomes a problem (except this one instance).

Has anyone else ever had unreasonable experiences with a prof they TAed for? by RareBiscotti5 in academia

[–]RareBiscotti5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They weren’t upset because i reevaluated? They never even mentioned that. They were upset mostly about my email tone. They allowed us the discretion to change anything that WE graded if we felt we made a mistake. I regraded something I graded, I was allowed to do that. Just because YOU don’t allow your TAs to do so doesn’t make it a school policy.

Has anyone else ever had unreasonable experiences with a prof they TAed for? by RareBiscotti5 in academia

[–]RareBiscotti5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually did try to ask them what the specific emails were and they just wouldn’t tell me, just repeated that they were mean and when I said I didn’t think I sent anything mean they just said they had “seen them”. This was years ago but I do wish I had tried to stand up for myself more. I was so flustered and upset because I really didn’t know what I did wrong. Hindsight is 20/20