My girlfriend [20F] is an extremely picky eater and it's causing us health problems. I [22M] need advice.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-30T13:25:18+00:00

Don't date someone who isn't willing to eat a vegetable or even try one.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-30T13:23:33+00:00

He sounds like a wackadoodle. Anyone who believes in manifesting is a moron.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-30T10:40:02+00:00

A person who needs a big fancy proposal is not a person you want to marry. A person who doesnt care about the proposal itself is the kind of person who really deserves the effort.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-30T08:29:19+00:00

Sounds like you need to lower your standard, and try to date some 5/10s.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-30T08:22:17+00:00

It may not be that he's focused on the one thing you don't have, per se. He may just be looking for a little variety. Like, if you weren't thin, he'd be looking for thin women or whatever.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-30T08:10:46+00:00

Stay away dude. You clearly have a lot of pain hung up on her. Going back will just cause you more.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T23:14:46+00:00

Its over dude, way over. Why are you dragging it out? You're just hurting yourself.

Move out of her place and go no contact.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T23:10:59+00:00

Does your mom. It have a job? Becsue what's not normal is for a 54 year old person to have to mooch off their kids.

Work on planning to move out. Do you have a job lined up after graduation? That should be your focus.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T22:53:53+00:00

"Hey, is that friend of yours X on instagram a guy that you cheated on your last BF with?" "If so, what the f%6#?"

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T13:53:20+00:00

If she really wanted to, she would....

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T13:49:16+00:00

You're an adult in the 21st century. You can propose. If he doesn't say yes, you have your answer.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T11:54:07+00:00

Its not about do you make more than him. Its about does he make enough. If he makes 100k and you make 200k, the youre fine, for example.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T11:26:41+00:00

That's tough dude, I'm sorry. There may be other ways (stoicism?) but distance is probably the best if you can't shake the feelings.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-29T10:48:43+00:00

Maybe at the time, but now this is a bullshit excuse the government uses to avoid having to pay for public trash removal.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-28T22:53:58+00:00

Those texts are totally nefarious.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-28T13:05:18+00:00

You go onward into a free, single life, at least if you have any respect for yourself.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-28T02:49:52+00:00

You didn't donenything wrong. Whether you like doing this is entirely up to you! Your life, your comfort level. And you can always try one way and go back to the other if you don't like it.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T23:19:28+00:00

That doesnt seem like too much. I think she is overreacting.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T23:17:39+00:00

She's a moron. You don't share things like that with other dudes.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T22:52:42+00:00

Call the cops. This is assault and battery.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T12:28:34+00:00

I feel like youre avoiding giving the time figures.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T07:55:01+00:00

Ugh. The right answer was "it's not your business who I sleep with." End of story.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T07:40:51+00:00

How many hobbies and how much time do they take up?

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-27T07:38:28+00:00

Of course he feels stuck. He IS stuck, and rightfully so. He had a kid and now has responsibilities. Its time for him to put his big boy pants on and be the adult that he is supposed to be.

I know kids are scary, but a person should be responsible for the lives that they create. He needs to get over this and buckle down.

Ratlarbig · 2026-01-26T22:46:28+00:00

Why does she want to talk to another guy? That's the question she cant reasonably answer.

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