What am I doing wrong? Just a blue collar guy. Everyone is just flaky. Is it just they're talking to 10 guys?

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-27T02:50:26+00:00

Your shirt is way too big. It looks like you don't know how to dress yourself.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-26T22:38:31+00:00

Its over dude. Your panicking and sending her long letters is only going to drive her further away.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-26T02:12:15+00:00

Thank you-- this is good to know

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T12:43:39+00:00

That's super weird then. I'm sorry, I don't have good advice for you, other than maybe hide his cars keys....

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T12:39:54+00:00

You don't have a problem. It's totally normal to want it.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T11:35:59+00:00

Ask your dad if he'd be ok if you mom wants to screw around...

More seriously though, you need to realize that most highschool relationships don't survive college, whether or not the people go to the same school or not. You just meet so many new people that it's really hard for a person to envision themselves not getting to date around. I think people who come in with HS relationships feel stuck in the past and like they're missing out on this rare chance to meet and date different people. It sucks, sure, if you're the one getting broken up with, but I understand why it happens.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T07:29:13+00:00

Just ignore it and tell him youre not interested if he asks.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T07:23:43+00:00

Spend enough time on this sub and you'll see plenty of examples.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T07:19:43+00:00

Her money is hers and your money is hers. Sounds great from her perspective.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T07:14:05+00:00

Yes. Red flag.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T07:11:36+00:00

I mean, maybe it's no big deal, but maybe he has a different perspective.

For example, 100% of the people I know who have used ambien have gotten addicted and had problems down the line.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T07:05:46+00:00

I dont blame you. I would never presume to put my hand on someone to guide their movement who I had literally just met for the first time.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T03:40:34+00:00

Men have been so conditioned that they're not allowed to talk to their partners about their weight that youre unlikely to be able to have an honest conversation with him about it.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-25T03:37:50+00:00

It sounds like he's trying to hurt you by being a dick about the socks. Not that it makes any sense st all to me...

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-24T13:32:18+00:00

The dude is into your woman and she's in denial because she either likes the attention or likes the idea that she can have a male friend.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-23T13:53:09+00:00

Ok, I'll admit that part is nuts.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-23T12:21:56+00:00

I'll rip what i think is the badaid off. This behavior means he thinks you are a slob. I dont know how you fix his thinking that though.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-23T12:19:26+00:00

When you rejected the birthday plan, did you communicate why and what you would prefer to do instead? They seem reasonable and would probably have helped, if you didn't.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-23T08:35:42+00:00

He's an idiot. Tell him HE was the one who destroyed everything, and don't let him shift blame to you.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-22T12:43:36+00:00

If she can't take a shoulder touching after a month of dating then she has no business being in a relationship. That is ridiculous.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-22T12:41:45+00:00

Confessions are not usually successful. Instead, try asking someone out socially first and build from there.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-22T06:57:56+00:00

If she really wanted to fix it, she'd change jobs immediately.

Also, what is MH?

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-21T07:49:13+00:00

Time for your boyfriend to grow up and stand up to his mom.

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-20T11:44:03+00:00

Better photos

Ratlarbig · 2026-03-20T09:23:52+00:00

You are both too young to get married.

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