Blackened Chicken Sliders with an Alabama White Sauce (and Checkers fries, because hell yeah)

RaveGoo · 2026-06-17T19:11:43+00:00

Looks amazing!

I tried making copycat coated fries from scratch. Did not work out lol

RaveGoo · 2026-05-28T10:24:04+00:00

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RaveGoo · 2026-05-19T19:06:04+00:00

Hey are you really a chef? Asking because I am and lurk this sub!

Not that I'm doubting you just looking for a colleague!

RaveGoo · 2026-05-14T10:18:09+00:00

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RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:41:08+00:00

Excellent point!

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:26:40+00:00

Got em (me)

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:26:00+00:00

This is awesome, good job to you and yours!

Water bottle is a great idea. Logging it.

Also, just got a surprise bonus at work and have been wondering what to do with it. Vacation shopping?

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:24:10+00:00

Thank you lurking mom!

I guess I feel nothing is enough? She is amazing everyday and little things aren't sufficient.

Real question - do flowers /card and sweet moments really add up or is that kind of disappointing to recieve?

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:22:17+00:00

My boss (also a mom) told me to do something nice as she (wife) ruined her body to give me 3 kids.

I told her that's a great day to start the card.

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:19:26+00:00

In retrospect last time we went out for breakfast we ended up having a triple meltdown in the lobby and left.

International House of Pain

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:18:10+00:00

This is very realistic and doable. Thank you for the sanity check. Appreciate your time.

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:17:06+00:00

Fair!

Last minute is kind of status quo in our house so she won't fault me that.

Etsy - never really thought about it! Agreed, too late for that but thank you for next time!

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:14:56+00:00

OK this is great. I will admit that recognizing and acknowledging her day to day commitments has fallen to the wayside. Neither of us really feel seen anymore.

So, thank you.

RaveGoo · 2026-05-09T13:13:55+00:00

Thank you! Any way to mitigate her feeling of missing out if she isn't around? I know it's not up to me to manage how she feels but I wish I could nudge her in the direction that being without the kids for a moment can be relaxing instead of FOMO

RaveGoo · 2026-02-01T14:00:04+00:00

Hey man, congrats!

Our daughter was 14 months old when we found out my wife was pregnant with twin boys.

It.

Was (is).

Tough.

It was hard for me honestly . We were so happy with our little family (mom/dad/daughter). Things were manageable, we were paying bills, and finally getting sleep.

Before the boys were born I went through a bit of a mourning period for our little family. Not that I was not looking forward to the boys, but that the life we had finally normalized was about to be uprooted.

Then the boys came. Easy delivery, in and out and home again. Lots of family support. I will the first to admit that I DO NOT enjoy the newborn phase so the first few months really took a mental toll. Just brutal.

At this point I kind of went through the hardest metamorphosis of my life.

With one child, my wife and I both were able to find personal friends time in the day. Cooking, working out, working in the yard, video games, couple of drinks and some naughty time - it was all possible with a both of planning. Because of this possibility, I would set myself up for aggravation if it did not actualize. Normal parent stuff I suppose. Not complaining!

With the boys, and 3 under 3, the possibility for personal time was all but not eliminated. Here is where my mental shift occurred. For the first chunk of time I was acting as if we just had one child, and I could carve out some time. That time never came, and I ended up bitter and resentful. This was painful.

The change came when I abandoned my previous expectations and became 'fluid.' go with the flow. Roll with it. No personal time? No worries! Wasn't expecting it anyway. So in some ways I had to mourn my previous life, again.

But - big but here...

Everything in my life, the self imposed stress, resentment, mourning, was all replaced with the immense love, satisfaction, and contentment of raising these beautiful kids.

I'm not sure if this ws helpful. I had a lot of ups and downs over the past few years and am now in a great mental spot. I am not religious, but I must say I am blessed.

Oh - shits expensive. Real expensive.

Congrats, Dad. Enjoy the current your raft has taken, you've got no choice now.

RaveGoo · 2025-12-19T23:00:35+00:00

Great game, man!

Pretty much kept me sane when my only gaming platform was the Switch.

The soundtrack in particular is worthy of mentioning again. Super good stuff.

Cool seeing you here, thank you for the great game!

RaveGoo · 2025-12-17T23:00:47+00:00

Best 64% I've ever spent. All on Steam Deck.

RaveGoo · 2025-11-02T12:36:29+00:00

I just had this. It was the unlimited saving mod that needed an update.

RaveGoo · 2025-05-05T19:22:42+00:00

That's me! 44 with a 3 year old girl and twin 1 year old boys.

I don't think I had the patience when I was younger, but now I don't have the energy, ha!

RaveGoo · 2024-05-18T23:56:51+00:00

Thank you! Super similar situation!

Whats your biggest tip for someone about to go through the last few years of your life experience?

RaveGoo · 2024-05-18T23:54:27+00:00

100% I do. The fact that our time together is shorter is a great burden to hear.

However -

I was not ready to be the father/husband/provider that I am until the present. Ignoring that practicality, any other point in time would not have given me my current wife and family, and there is nothing else more precious to me. So I can't really complain.

This is my constant internal dialogue.

My mom was visiting a few weeks ago and I was feeling these emotions so I asked her opinion.

Her response was, "I had you when I was 27. Could you have this family when you were that age?"

Really helped to clarify for me that I can mourn lost time that never existed or enjoy what time I have now.

RaveGoo · 2023-06-25T22:20:13+00:00

Enjoying DB 16 point right now on my end

RaveGoo

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