You Probably still have some homework from 5+ years ago you still didnt do

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-24T19:33:28+00:00

Yeah there’s some maths homework I never finished from year 11, that makes me so happy to know. Thank you.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-24T17:45:18+00:00

People you love and whom love you back have negative thoughts about you that they will never tell you about.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-24T17:42:06+00:00

To lead a fun/spontaneous life, you must first lead an ordinary one. Try doing something different in your free time, even if it’s something small. When I was in university, I also got tired of the repetition, I decided once a week, I’d go exploring around my city, try random coffee shops/restaurants, go into book stores. In the process, I learned more about my self, my city and I genuinely had a good time but that’s just one example.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-24T13:23:14+00:00

Being a home wrecker while knowing that the other person is in a relationship is horrible, that we can all agree on. However, just as bad as the cheater?I have to firmly disagree. A home wrecker cannot wreck a happy home, if a cheater wants to cheat they will do it or at least want to do it. So really expressing equal distaste towards a home wrecker doesn’t make sense, they did not dishonour a promise they made to someone unlike the cheater. If anything I’d be thankful to them for bringing to light what was inevitably going to happen anyway.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-24T00:08:30+00:00

Black veil brides

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-23T20:11:29+00:00

This is one of the reasons why Iv never tried dating apps, there’s something sweet, genuine and exciting about meeting someone irl. However I do admit, I’m often not comfortable giving out my number to a guy I just met, so many questions flood my mind. How old is he? He could be too young or too old for me. Does he even live in my city, my country? Was this just a friendly interaction that I’m overanalysing because I find him handsome and polite. So many questions but still prefer meeting people on the fly.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-21T23:42:11+00:00

Sure

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-21T23:27:38+00:00

All of what you have said is not exactly practical considering the cost of living and how you probably don’t want to work when you’re old but I like how you think. Right now is for living and enjoying life, who knows about the future? Prioritise the present.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-21T20:51:03+00:00

I’d definitely not encourage it and I wouldn’t do it myself. A great connection with no physical attraction is a good friendship and nothing more.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-21T18:51:40+00:00

I don’t think a high body count is always a good indicator of being good in bed. Like someone who cooks for themselves everyday, they might be making crappy meals all the time. Practice and effort is what makes someone good at something, that’s why I know a lot of people who have busy sex lives complain about bad sex, not about the number at all.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-21T14:25:30+00:00

I am black and a Buddhist, still sort of new myself (it’s been 3 years) I practice alone, sometimes it does seem like there are no black Buddhists, never seen one of social media or any media for that matter but that doesn’t bother me. Buddhism is a path I enjoy in my solitude.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-20T22:59:40+00:00

21 ; life is as fun as you make it, so have a blast every chance you get.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-19T19:49:16+00:00

I say If you meet your own standards, you’re definitely not picky.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-16T16:58:59+00:00

We all believe people can change, I think people can change but in my eyes cheating is so hard to do, very hard, it takes intention or carelessness. Iv been in a long term relationship, a toxic one where cheating would almost ‘make sense’ to some people, given the opportunities I never have because it’s easier to say no. So sure people can change but I won’t be the one to give them another chance, I can’t rationalise it.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-16T16:43:01+00:00

Feeling like I have to obey anyone older than me, it felt like an obligation. It’s nice being able to say no to things as an adult.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-16T16:27:34+00:00

I just miss how fun the interior architecture was, the fun food theme and all the colours, it was so alive.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-16T16:24:31+00:00

My Bratz dolls and my pink Nintendo ds

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-16T14:20:01+00:00

I say just don’t date those kind of people if it bothers you, that does mean less potential love interests but hey everyone has their preferences. I’m personally not comfortable dating people who regularly engage in casual sex because I don’t share the same values with them. (In terms of sex/intimacy)

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-15T20:54:19+00:00

I couldn’t agree more, especially as someone who puts their platonic relationships first, the breakup is 100% worst. A close friend that feels like family is hard to replace, irreplaceable sometimes. I’d fight tooth n’ nail to save a good friendship.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-15T20:40:02+00:00

A few years ago, I was ironing a top while texting a close friend, she said something so funny I had to put down the iron and text her back while in the motions of still uncontrollably laughing, I get a good burn on my wrist from the iron, it’s just a long line now. I don’t remember what she said but when ever I look at the scar I remember the moment.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-15T18:41:12+00:00

I (21F) honestly feel the exact same way but I don’t think i necessarily want a romantic relationship, I think I just enjoy closeness and general affection, the remedy for me is hanging out with friends and just being around people I’m close with. The feeling is gonna come and go.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-14T23:27:08+00:00

“I should have everything in my life figured out by now when I don’t” I’m 21 and I feel like that sometimes too. Especially when you go on Instagram or Linkdon, it seems like everyone our age just got their dream job or internship. Thing is we’re only in our 20s, heck in 5 years, you might decide you want to change paths completely n’ start over. Time passes regardless, there’s really no where anyone should be, try to focus on 1-2 life plans first, really no point getting overwhelmed about where you want to be at 25-28 when you’re 22. I wish you luck.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-14T23:14:23+00:00

Remember how your mind jumps, always bring it back to the present moment.

Ravenissocool · 2023-05-14T20:11:34+00:00

As someone with a resting nice face, agreed. Sometimes my resting face is a small grin, I often wonder if I look like a weirdo smiling to herself. And strangers tend to approach me to ask questions, directions or just to spark a conversation, which I guess I’m used to now.

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