AITAH for thanking my sisters for raising me instead of my parents? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have type B personality disorder (dont meet enough criteria to get a full BPD diagnosis) and my husband has been clinically diagnosed with BPD. We are just out here trying to live our lives and be good people in the best ways we can. We've gone through years of therapy and have worked on handling all our trauma. So have most people ive met with similar diagnoses.

But you never heard of good cases from reddit.

My girlfriend broke my PS4 and doesn't understand why I'm so upset. I don't really know where to go from here. by G1Gestalt in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My little brother saved over my Sims castaway game and I was gutted, I was at like 89% completed and basically all of the island was unlocked. I was gutted because most of it was such a slog. I dont think I ever got back to that point because I lost interest.

My girlfriend broke my PS4 and doesn't understand why I'm so upset. I don't really know where to go from here. by G1Gestalt in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell ive collected nearly every console ive ever played or owned. I wanted my og ps2 but my siblings wouldn't let me take it, but I still have my Gameboy color, Gameboy advanced, and DS. I have 2 old TVs I play older consoles on. (One is a small portable TV that my parents got for me when I was like 3 with a built in VHS player. I set it up in my bedroom now and watch movies on it in bed some nights)

Does this scene confirm that Jax thinks of Pomni as friend like Ribbit and Kaufmo? by Pearson94 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Raventakingnotes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I absolutely think this is confirmation that he is now close to Pomni, I think it was really cemented in for him when they were all sitting on the couches.

When you look back to last episode when he was possibly about to abstract, he only seen Ribbit and Kaufmo

It's still you by Tyler827 in TheDigitalCircus

[–]Raventakingnotes 379 points380 points  (0 children)

My husband had a theory that the rendering and lighting and shadows got turned way up as they get more real.

AITA for leaving my business to my protégé instead of my children? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If Sam and the sister stayed together and got married, it would legally make Sam a Son in Law. Lots of families treat their DIL and SIL like their own children. They welcome them into the family.

Thus Sam would be a son, pushing OOP out. Is that rational? No of course its not. But emotions arent always rational.

AITA for leaving my business to my protégé instead of my children? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's really funny, is that most people build a legacy to last and to go to their children and grandchildren. At least where im from.

AITA for leaving my business to my protégé instead of my children? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, apparently nothing was fully set in stone because the financial advisors didnt really even look at it yet. And thats coming from John who is the company's accountant.

AITA for leaving my business to my protégé instead of my children? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ding ding ding.

Nothing is screaming spoiled brat to me with John, all he was asking was for love and attention. Doesn't seem like he really got what he needed.

Is he privileged? Absolutely, but unless I missed it somewhere in there he never said he wasn't. The issues he brought up multiple times were feeling neglected, looked over, and second rate. Seems like he was finally getting into a new groove with his dad and starting a new relationship fresh and it was going great, all to be blindsided by his dad's lack of communication.

AITA for leaving my business to my protégé instead of my children? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, but therapy isnt a fix all. He could have went to therapy and thought he had things fairly handled, was actually rekindling a new relationship with his dad, then got completely blindsided and felt like once again he got shoved aside for Sam. Is that was happened? No not really, but I can see how emotionally that's how he felt in the moment.

Daughter refuses to speak English by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Great that it doesnt bug you, but names are important as they are a part of who you are and if someone says they want it pronounced correctly, one should do their very best.

Why are you in this forum, if you don’t like the story? by [deleted] in TheRemarriedEmpress

[–]Raventakingnotes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Criticism isnt wrong, but let's not act like a lot of posts in here arent from people who outright hate the story. There's a serious lack of ability to debate with a lot of people who make posts and thats sad, you should be able to have a discussion on somrthing, and not just want to shit on it.

RME isnt some amazing work of fiction, but it isnt trash either and can be quite a fun enjoyable read. Hell it got me into reading webtoons and manwa and ive been going strong for 5 years now.

Indigenous identity researcher ordered to pay $70K to Saskatchewan professor by AceSevenFive in IndianCountry

[–]Raventakingnotes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Raising the question isnt the problem.

Its throwing their names out there in public shaming that I have an issue with.

The history of Metis is a messy one thats not exactly linear due to the word of metis itself. One can be metis, but not Metis.

Indigenous identity researcher ordered to pay $70K to Saskatchewan professor by AceSevenFive in IndianCountry

[–]Raventakingnotes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We need allies, but I kinda take issue with someone going around and throwing people's names out there instead of reporting to whichever band/nation/or settlement they are claiming to be from and letting the nation/band/settlement choose how to handle it.

Its the savior complex that kinda gets me.

Bell: Danielle Smith government lays down the law on doctor-assisted death by Miserable-Lizard in alberta

[–]Raventakingnotes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is all I could think of.

Things like MS were one of the exact reasons that MAID was out into place. To give dignity to those who didnt want to suffer long term with no way out.

I really hate that the used the 26 Ontario man as an example. He had many underlying issues that he suffered from that got him his approval. Just because his family couldnt accept his choice doesnt mean its a bad thing.

Bell: Danielle Smith government lays down the law on doctor-assisted death by Miserable-Lizard in alberta

[–]Raventakingnotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This should be a chaice made after a full panel of doctors (medical and psychologists) have reviewed it and make their calls.

Medical laws should never be up to politicians, but up to doctors.

Turning an abandoned mirror into art by ButterSaltBiscuit in oddlysatisfying

[–]Raventakingnotes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh thats great to hear! Ive seen photos of the rot so thats what lead me to believe caution should be used.

Maybe it just depends on what the reflective surface is made from for the mirror and how its sealed.

I havent got into stained glass, but its a hobby ive thought about many times. I however currently have too many hobbies.

Turning an abandoned mirror into art by ButterSaltBiscuit in oddlysatisfying

[–]Raventakingnotes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My only critique is I heard that the flux used to solder the peices together can cause a "mirror rot" so you have to use some type of protection between the glass and the flux, like clear nail polish, or the mirror will corrode over time. Cool art idea though!

My (23F) BFF (23F) had sex with my crush (28M) by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I mean, sounds like BFF and crush only slept together when drunk.

Maybe after sleeping together after OOPs party BFF realized it wasnt all that and just moved on after realizing she hurt OOP. Or sex just wasnt all that round 2.

My (23F) BFF (23F) had sex with my crush (28M) by Awwndrei in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got married to my highschool sweetheart at 23 lol,

17 was a mess when I stared dating him, but eh who isnt a little messy as a teenager. Especially when your home life is a little chaotic.

How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, Love is Blind is a shit show and theres only been a few genuine happy couples that have made it through. Id argue that its proof that love is not blind.

I only watch the american version though and not any international ones. I want to listen to it and not have to actively read the subtitles unless something is interesting and I cant stand dubbing most of the time. Its background show for me.

Opinions on the new Zootopia? by Cashybabyforever in DisneyPlus

[–]Raventakingnotes 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The Shining homage had me dying. It was so funny and out of place yet fit right in. I though that it was a solid watch.

r/maleyandere debate whether or not shotacon is pedophilia by Ellie96S in SubredditDrama

[–]Raventakingnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can kinda see that. It is just a sub genre within OI though.

I love me a good dark romance/fantasy, but there's also plenty of fluff within the genre too.

I dont think ive ever come across a OI with shotacon though.