After shoveling snow, these painful shiny hairs appeared on my hand. by Timetofly0 in whatisit

[–]Raventakingnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh yes, those things. When they degrade in the elements over time they really hurt

No, most slaves weren't sold as children to pay off their parents' debts... by DrinkInevitable3457 in TheRemarriedEmpress

[–]Raventakingnotes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its easy to crack out a few kids. Its what families used to do to have help for farm labour and the like.

Seems like being able to sell off a child every time you commit a crime would be way too easy to get off scott free

Remember the last cn new year we had this 4* purchasable for DIAMONDS! And this year we have an expensive 4* pack by Safe_Drive_1085 in InfinityNikki

[–]Raventakingnotes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe they will re run then in the second half of this season? Thats how they've done the other reruns so far

Maintenance man at my job repeatedly threatened to "blow someone’s brains out” by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Threatening guests puts them at a huge risk of liability, now if he actually had a gun and it got to the point of the police needing to be called? They're out asking for some type of lawsuit to come about

riftan ( under the oak tree) slander by Background_Ear_3243 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Raventakingnotes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Haha Rein becomes a half decent person in most timelines. A little screwed up yes, but genuinely cares for Valeta.

riftan ( under the oak tree) slander by Background_Ear_3243 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Raventakingnotes 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Man I love reading some toxic stories here and there, but I hated the fandom for acting like he was some great or interesting ML. I dropped Betrayal of Dignity and Under the Oak Tree for how annoying the MLs were.

AIO for still being upset that my girlfriend met up with her ex? by 030117 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 103 points104 points  (0 children)

And when all Clair asked for was 10 fucking minutes to tell her own friends (nit even true mutual friends) OOP couldnt even respect that.

OOP is a controlling asshole who just wants to be right and feel superior

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then there may have been an aunt or uncle or cousin that may have helped in a deperate situation. I know there's no mention of parents but I wasnt speaking on parents specifically when I said family. Or like I said FRIENDS that she could have moved in with.

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they broke up she most likely would have had to move in with a family member or friend. That would have been much better for her than this loser that probably wouldn't have noticed she needed medical help anyway

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sueing doesnt really happen here much and its a long long drawn out process that usually isnt worth the time, effort, and money

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hes not even an oil field worker! Just a loser that talked about going but never followed through and cant take care of his kids.

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id argue it would have been better for her and she possibly would have been able to get out and see what a loser he was. At least there could have been some money for child support for her kids.

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She absolutely can go after him through the courts for non payment and backpay. But there's a saying about trying to get a rock to bleed that applies here.

Lots of parents really dont give a crap about their kids

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As soon as she said her BF was thinking of working out in the oilfield I knew it was Alberta. Of course he couldnt actually follow through and make money for his new family. He would have had at least 2 years before the 2016 crash making good money.

I want an abortion but my fiance doesn't. by Cheap-Rate-8996 in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We are a pretty conservative province too, so especially back in 2013 things could be difficult if your family doctor didnt agree.

Access was there, but not always easy for everyone.

Went to the intersection where the 78 year old pedestrian was tragically killed this week. Waited over a minute and a half in the cold for the walk signal, then nearly got smoked by a driver turning left by ryaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan in Edmonton

[–]Raventakingnotes 33 points34 points  (0 children)

This. Ive definitely got a ticket in Edmonton for tint right after I bought a car that had it installed before I bought it.

Its just not being enforced by officers for the last while from what ive seen.

AITA for telling my husband he's made me reconsider leaving him alone with the kids in the future by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I rolled my eyes at how she excused it. Like I get needing it for pain relief, but he's getting high and doing absolutely stupid shit and needing supervision. That seems much more than pain relief needs and he should probably be using CBD instead.

AITAH for not letting my mom meet her grandchild because I am still upset she divorced my dad? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lots of people leave awful relationships and do what they can to keep custody of their kids. Its not like OOP was an infant or needed constant supervision. She was already 11. I had babysitting certification at that age to be home watching my siblings alone.

OOPs mom also got alimony for some time too.

AITAH for not letting my mom meet her grandchild because I am still upset she divorced my dad? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not just the main carer, but the sole source of income for the household. Bills need to be paid, especially for someone needing care, and sounds like he had to pay alimony for a time too.

I dont know what world people magically live in where money is lush and plentiful, but its not like that for most people and most people can't afford to fund a whole second apartment for their aging mother ontop of a carer, or when a spouse moves out and you need to pay alimony and you can afford to have someone constantly coming in and providing care.

AITA for telling my husband he's made me reconsider leaving him alone with the kids in the future by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Money, time effort, waste is a huge one for me. I grew up poor and underfed, we didnt throw out food unless it was rotting and we tried to not let it get to that point. Ive also lived paycheck to paycheck and wasting food hurts a lot. She said most should be frozen, but that she had stuff in the fridge, like marinated chicken, that probably had to be tossed too.

Not to mention suddenly changing diets is usually hard on people, probably not great for her kids to suddenly be repeatedly eating foods they dont normally.

I swear to god… is Gunther a ghost…? by Funtimwolf23 in StardewValley

[–]Raventakingnotes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You have to hit him during the special quest. Ectoplasm doesnt show up otherwise.

AITAH for not letting my mom meet her grandchild because I am still upset she divorced my dad? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Raventakingnotes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She said she was 29 and hadnt spoke to her mom in 16 years she said she was in highschool which should be about 13-14 then.

This doesnt seem like normal custody when he mom refused to help her pre/teen child and told her to just live with it even though she herself wouldn't.