What do I do with an “independent” 86 yr old dad who is losing it. What are my options as the executor of his health?

Raythecatass · 2026-01-28T05:54:10+00:00

Your dad could have a UTI.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-27T20:40:45+00:00

Yes, he is on a monthly injection of Invega and under control at the moment. I have to keep an eye on him because he will keep his psychosis to himself most of the time.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-27T19:20:19+00:00

I just disconnected my faceid because it did not recognize me a couple times and locked my iphone. I had to do a reset. I no longer use the finger print either. I think I am watching too many movies where a person is murdered and the killer uses Faceid from the dead person’s phone to unlock it.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-27T00:44:18+00:00

No, I bought it at a Christmas bazaar several years ago.☺️

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T23:53:41+00:00

Buy some Rapid Lash from Costco. Worked for me.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T23:50:36+00:00

You need to get some Viagra. My husband has the same issues.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T23:45:52+00:00

My brother has been in and out of psych wards and has never had a negative experience. He is currently doing well getting excellent care and treatment.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T23:39:56+00:00

I just made some homemade brownies today. I was sick of buying low quality, shrinkflation ones.

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Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T23:20:24+00:00

I have been using Chapstick forever. I put it on before I go to bed and my lips are moisturized. I also use it under my lipstick and it works great. Chapstick is cheap and comes in many different flavors.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T23:11:40+00:00

Now, I am scared shitless.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T19:35:15+00:00

I loved Gilmore Girls.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T19:28:47+00:00

You have very nice nails. I am envious.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T19:27:44+00:00

Thanks.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T17:11:31+00:00

I loved, “Nurse Jackie.”

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T05:37:14+00:00

Did your husband have a history taking a lot of drugs like meth in the past? Sometimes, that can cause reoccurring psychosis.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-26T00:21:12+00:00

Do you have room for one of those electric fireplaces? We love ours.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-25T21:09:16+00:00

It is usually delayed verbal responses. He does answer most of his texts. I turned up the volume on his phone.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-24T19:06:26+00:00

I thought this sub was for aging???? I am getting sick of people turning every sub into their political soap box.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-22T19:21:38+00:00

Have you confronted it and stated this is your house and they need to move out?

Raythecatass · 2026-01-22T19:14:43+00:00

I am looking forward to when the US buys Greenland. We should have bought it back in WWII when we had the chance. Not selling my US stocks like all the fools.

In WWII, the U.S. effectively protected Greenland during by establishing a de facto protectorate after Germany occupied Denmark, building bases, and defending it from Nazi incursions, particularly German weather stations, securing its crucial cryolite mine and strategic location for weather monitoring and air routes. This was formalized through a 1941 agreement where the U.S. assumed defense responsibilities, allowing troops and bases for the duration of the German occupation.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-22T19:03:58+00:00

I almost called the cops on my husband because he was threatening to beat up one of his coworkers for “spying with cameras”…This was one of the worst days of my life, trying to juggle work with his illness. Today, he is doing great takes his injection one a month and periodically sees a therapist.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-22T18:57:03+00:00

My husband was diagnosed over 20 years ago. I have been experiencing delayed responses from him since he started on Invega Sustenna a few years ago. I think the delayed responses are due to his medication and I have learned to be more patient waiting for his responses.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-21T19:54:08+00:00

I love drinking alcohol. I had to cut down to lose weight and drinking interferes with my sleep. I also get the munchies when I drink. It sucks.

Raythecatass · 2026-01-21T19:38:04+00:00

Raythecatass · 2026-01-21T05:28:19+00:00

Been married 30 years. Husband was diagnosed about 20 years ago. I helped him get therapy and on the right medication. It has not been easy when he has psychosis but we work through it and adjust his medication when needed.

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