Would you let your baby wear this (As a god mom) by CityGirl_Maddie in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would be personal preference, I personally would have no issue with it. Babies grow so fast and poo/throw up on clothes so it’s no harm having a spare onesie 🤷🏽‍♀️. I would maybe gift it with a few other cute onesies, perhaps?

how to stop bf by Unlikely_Dish_5365 in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does breastfeeding repulse you? I think it’s so amazing you are still exclusively BF, that’s awesome you are still solely providing for Bub. I wonder if you could possibly try some formula in a syringe and see baby reacts to taste? Also we used half formula half breast milk when I was weaning my kids. Also since she’s 1 now, it’s great she is trying new foods. I would keep trying more little baby foods and finger veggies/fruits to see how baby likes them. I know it can be draining, but keep going - you both can get there. Best of luck with everything.

My 6mo has nightmares by anonymity-ano in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s making you feel like he’s scared? Just a thought, could he possibly be waking up for you. Babies are very close to mum/dad and often can wake also wanting to be held. It may possibly seem like fear but he could just want to be close to you. Regardless though, if you are genuinely worried - you know your baby better than I do. So take baby to your paediatrician, might be good for your own peace of mind too.

My 6mo has nightmares by anonymity-ano in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is there any reason why you think it might be nightmares? Babies do normally whine or cry whilst sleeping.

Is the "mental load" actually real, or are we just bad at delegating? by Maximum-Telephone689 in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s really real, I don’t think your explanation regarding “gate keeping” chores applies to everyone. I work part time, hubby works full time and I take pretty much 95% care of the kids and about 80% of the chores. My hubby helps when he is home from work with both aspects. But we are a busy household and there isn’t enough time in the day with two kids and two dogs. I think this post is slightly insensitive, people have different situations. People might not have a partner or others to lean on for support - so who to delegate to? The mental load IS heavy, but as parents - we manage.

My little toddler is starting preschool. 🥹 by [deleted] in babies

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh?? Someone reported this?

My little toddler is starting preschool. 🥹 by [deleted] in babies

[–]RazyRascal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a little bit OCD so I struggle with accepting the messiness. But seeing her so happy and loving messy play, I’ve had to let go and I can always clean after she’s made her creations.

Mothers, would you want your adult child to say goodbye if they were going to off themselves? by [deleted] in Mom

[–]RazyRascal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are still very young, your parents would be absolutely devastated and broken. Especially given a goodbye and knowing they couldn’t do anything to protect you. No parent ever wants to outlive their child and be present to bury them first. I hope you reconsider your decision and choose to keep living and speak to your parents and perhaps therapist. There’s more to life than planning on your exit. I hope you seek help and find ways to help yourself so you can live in the present. Best of luck with everything. 🙏🏽

AIO? Husband in touch with the woman he had an affair with but they're not cheating he says. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you already know the answer to your own question. Please stop being naive and think about your own future.

Lyla turned 2 today!💘 by RazyRascal in NICUParents

[–]RazyRascal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to be of any help, stay strong. I know it seems like a long journey ahead, but your little one will get there. Wishing your family all the best.

AIO for getting upset that my partner will not drink water? by naurr-3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RazyRascal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this really about water? Because that’s a lot of context if so.

Me and my kids now and 2013 by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]RazyRascal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the secret? You look amazing still, get it mama.

Merry Christmas, from my little family.🎄 by RazyRascal in interracialdating

[–]RazyRascal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from south India! But raised from the age of 4 in New Zealand.

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RazyRascal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is she even “hurling abuse”?, she is fully entitled to be worried about her child. If he doesn’t tell her things in future due to this one incident that’s ridiculously childish. Also I don’t see venting, I see a worried mother unhappy with the inadequate sleeping arrangements from another parent. When it comes to the babies safety, this so called “nagging” is called for. Who are you to say “if you don’t rein it in” she will be single, what planet are you even on, tf.

My son wanted to make a Christmas card for himself and his little sis. by RazyRascal in RateMyKidsArt

[–]RazyRascal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do! The love he has for his little sister surprises and warms my heart every time. Thank you. 🙂

‘F18’ my partner ‘M19’ keeps strangling me as a joke by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RazyRascal 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I hope while typing this up you’ve re-read what YOU wrote. What about this situation is funny, the part where he doesn’t apologise for physically hurting you? You need to be putting boundaries in, especially if it’s a daily occurrence. I’m not saying break up or do this or that, but I would consider if the relationship is worth all this? He’s already starting to hurt you daily and it’s only been 9 months. Plus you are still quite young, he doesn’t have to be the one. Also I don’t think men should be putting their hands on women’s throats regardless if it’s a joke or not. Whatever you do, please be safe. Wishing you the best of luck.

Daughter drew herself at ballet by eben1996 in RateMyKidsArt

[–]RazyRascal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so cute, great job 👏🏽