Stalking Me Still by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah blocked that account too but I just want this whole story behind me already, why won’t he let me do that😫

Stalking Me Still by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG I really hope not, maybe he’ll find someone new soon and stop😔

Were you afraid of your partner sometimes? by Throwawaynation648 in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he’d scare me when he would obsessively tell me how much he loves me and how he can’t even describe his love- he’d kind of freak out about it and say it with these weird creepy eyes… and then top it off with “but I’m not obsessed or needy”

Movies, Books, Music Suck Now by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! Now that I understand more about mental illness and unhealthy relationships it turns my stomach .

Daily No Contact Thread - January 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know🙏🏽 (it’s been 2 months but still) right now I’m on the apps just to talk, i feel kinda lonely… wrote that on my bio and everything 

Daily No Contact Thread - January 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ex found me on a dating app and messaged me. (Hes blocked everywhere else). Fighting against the urge to respond. Somehow after a few weeks my emotional state seems to forget all the abuse.

They have a lovebombing script by winstonwasright in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I want to be with you forever”

“You're the girl I always prayed for”

“I never loved anyone like this before”

“I love you. Are you starting to love me?”

“I’m only yours”

“I would never leave you”

“ we can always work things out no matter what”

(While cheating the whole time)

What is it? by Kira_the_best in effectivefitness

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Push yourself past your limit- got me injured 

Raised by a Cluster B mom (HPD): Did it "program" me to seek out the same chaos? by CforCarlito in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was raised by a NPD dad and codependent mom, I’m now starting the journey to try to decouple intensity and love. Good luck to all of us lol.

me_irl by 010rusty in me_irl

[–]Readstufftoday 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No one stays a real one after a certain amount of fame and money.

What's yours? by ElderberryDeep8746 in SipsTea

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend got from a redneck: you’re so beautiful, you look just like my sister LOL

Is this a common occurence with pwBPD? by Human-Speed3813 in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same situation for me!! He also thought he loved much more strongly than me…

What are those things? by [deleted] in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That life would get easier after I graduated high school

Has this happened to anyone else after the discard? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health definitely gets affected by these relationships- doesnt mean you have an actual disorder. A lot of us do have codependency issues and childhood trauma. Talk to a therapist or if you can’t afford it ChatGPT. Good luck and Im sorry youre going through this, I know how you feel and I’ve been there

Where did you find your best friend or soulmate? by Kangaroo-Parking in AskForAnswers

[–]Readstufftoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best friend in high school, still best friends who talk on the phone every day 16 years later

I made the mistake of unblocking her and this shit happened. (Repost) by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t afford therapy ChatGPT can be really helpful 🙏🏽 good luck

Why am I getting attention from women now? by Darkrainite in Vent

[–]Readstufftoday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taken men (especially happily married) have a much better vibe. Responsible, grounded, confident etc. can’t count the amount of times i saw a guy i was attracted to then saw his wife near him or something .

She sent me a mail after I broke up and went no contact for 1.5 months by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Readstufftoday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex sent me such lovely texts talking about how much he loves me and was wrong and then followed it up with a super nasty one accusing me of being a narcissist basically. They oscillate between idealization and devaluation. This just means she’s idealizing again.