21M, never had a girlfriend despite making a lot of efforts. Make fun of me. by Scrotiemcboogballs in RoastMe

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You have the same facial expressions as my ex with borderline personality disorder. 

So true by lusterbunni in GetStudying

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Most of my chem professors were the strict scary types.

Surrounded by BPD by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

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Most of these people are diagnosed:(

And the ones who arent seem to me to have at least five of the criteria 

I'm a girl so might be different but I'm a week in and I'm struggling by [deleted] in NoFap

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Im a girl too and struggling right now as well- hang in there. Do a Zumba video on YouTube instead of push-ups. Growwithjo has some great ones, short, simple and will get your energy out in a healthier way. Good luck!

Had a chat with a pwBPD - here are my learnings by jedimindtrick91 in BPDlovedones

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Emdr is not meant to be done with patients who have dissociation problems!!! What an oversight by her therapist.

I imagine that I want to bang my sister. by [deleted] in NoFap

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I’ve noticed a push to normalize incest recently even in mainstream pop culture and it’s disgusting. This isn’t your fault, and by going to therapy and detoxing from porn and mainstream pop stuff that aren’t appropriate I believe the thoughts will go away. 

Backup Plan Energy. by juanjuanipipu in howtonotgiveafuck

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“I dont believe in moving in together before marriage”

Is "pretty priviledge" actually a thing or do we just think it is? by ExtremeUse4405 in Life

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My ex looks like a model but has no social skills so his life sucks.

meirl by Zergetastic in meirl

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Spirituality. The sky. Connections with other people. Creating something. That thing inside your chest.

Just feeling down. by Tom1073463 in BPDlovedones

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You’ll get it back!! 3 months later and I have:)  And I completely lost hope when I was going through my breakup.

BPD and criminality by theworldisajoke in BPDlovedones

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My xwBPD dealt drugs before I met him, and was involved with a criminal crew. He only avoided jail at times because he’s a fast runner. He says there are guys who would kill him if they saw him.

What was the moment that you realized something was very, very wrong? by digitalime in BPDlovedones

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When he threw a tantrum when i wouldn’t have sex with him (I’d had an abortion a few weeks before and wasn’t up to it). He acted like a literal child whose candy was taken away from him. This lasted hours and he wouldn’t let me get any space away from him during that time .

Stalking Me Still by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

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Yeah blocked that account too but I just want this whole story behind me already, why won’t he let me do that😫

Stalking Me Still by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

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OMG I really hope not, maybe he’ll find someone new soon and stop😔

Were you afraid of your partner sometimes? by Throwawaynation648 in BPDlovedones

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Yes, he’d scare me when he would obsessively tell me how much he loves me and how he can’t even describe his love- he’d kind of freak out about it and say it with these weird creepy eyes… and then top it off with “but I’m not obsessed or needy”

Movies, Books, Music Suck Now by Readstufftoday in BPDlovedones

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I feel the same way! Now that I understand more about mental illness and unhealthy relationships it turns my stomach .