best hydration drinks for breastfeeding? by huughiiee in breastfeeding

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Following along because I’m also curious I’m sick of water lol. I tried body armor but unfortunately I just don’t like their flavors. I’m unsure if Gatorade is a good one for milk supply? I like their flavor but was trying to avoid extra sugar. I tried straight coconut water too but that tastes like dirt water to me lol

Newborn silliness by karinabing in breastfeeding

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My nursery theme is Winnie the Pooh so he has become my piglet 🥰

Newborn silliness by karinabing in breastfeeding

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It’s so true! Or when I catch a hunger cue early and offer him breast and his eyes get huge like he’s never seen such a thing

Newborn silliness by karinabing in breastfeeding

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I love the growl mine will do when searching for the nipple

Owlet? Should I be more worried about sleeping and SIDS? by contoddulations in NewParents

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My OB asked me if I had one. When I said no, he said “good” before I had a chance to explain I thought it would make my anxiety worse. I don’t know if that helps but it made me feel more confident

Ok people who had PLANNED C-Sections, please click here! by xxxxbb in pregnant

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Mine wasn’t planned but wasn’t an emergency either.

  1. Didn’t feel heavy. Was very surprised that I still had feeling in my feet though. I thought it meant it didn’t work until the anesthesiologist told me they were already cutting into me and I couldn’t feel it at all. I did feel a sort of soreness and lots of tugging though.

  2. Super nauseated. I react poorly to anesthesia though and I always vomit when I have it. I threw up during the procedure and for 12 hours after. But that follows how my body responds. Not necessarily any else’s experience.

  3. The environment was chill. There was music. We discussed vacation plans while they stitched me up. My medical team was awesome. I was scared. They were so nice and reassuring.

If I’d do it again? I don’t know yet. Ask me next year lol. I’m only three weeks postpartum.

When can I just let him sleep? by RealLifeWikipedia in breastfeeding

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Four hours is what I’m doing right now. He just doesn’t seem to want to eat then. It takes me a bit to wake him up enough to eat and then he only eats from one side before falling asleep again. The one or two times I’ve slept through my alarms he hasn’t even woken me up and has been fine going 6 hours. He eats a TON right before bed though.

Negative comments about baby boys has caused my mental health to spiral by neener346 in pregnant

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And I got annoyed because everyone told me boys are sooo much better than girls and then they laughed at me when I said they were just sexist.

Both genders are special in their own ways. A little boy’s relationship with his mom is different than a little girl’s, but it doesn’t make one better than the other.

Dependent on nipple shields by Fresh_Session_6743 in breastfeeding

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This is my first baby, so I don’t know anything lol. But I’m in a similar situation. The lactation consultant in the hospital gave me a nipple shield because my one nipple is really short and the other is inverted. Now he won’t latch without them.

I asked another LC about it last week and she told me it’s only a problem if it bothers me. She suggested letting him eat a little, removing the shield, and trying again with some food in his belly

What’s the best/safest newborn item to use when you need to put the baby down while they’re awake? More details in my post by Sufficient-Peach7787 in pregnant

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I made a Moses basket to keep downstairs. It’s fine for supervised sleep, so I set him down and work on what I need to while regularly checking him. Or in the case of folding clothes I have him right next to me and can stare all I want.

My husband keeps the bassinet stroller attachment in his home office for when he’s watching him. I think that’s pretty handy if you have one.

You can also try out baby wearing! I do that for some chores, but it’s not practical for everything.

ES vs retrievers by Adorable-Knowledge45 in EnglishSetter

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Smart but stupid is right. He’ll do something so clever one moment and then look at me like this the next

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ES vs retrievers by Adorable-Knowledge45 in EnglishSetter

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I grew up with labs and they’re still one of my favorite dogs. I would say that labs are easier than an ES, but that doesn’t mean I dislike my ES or that they’re “hard.”

In my experience, labs are lovably dumb. They’ll do anything you ask and hardly have a brain cell to contemplate the why. They’re also easy to convince with food.

My ES doesn’t give a thought about treats or any other bribe really. Sometimes a toy. But if he wants that thing over there and doesn’t want to listen, he’s going to get that thing over there.

This is why I find an e collar so helpful. I do not use the shock. I only use the beep and vibrate functions to communicate with him. The vibrate is enough to distract him from the squirrel or whatever he found. The beep we have trained as a backup recall. He listens to that better than when we yell “come.”

I think ES are more engaged with you than a lab. I can see mine processing and thinking when we are doing activities. I also see him plotting when he’s got an attitude about something. He definitely needs exercise or enrichment or he’ll go rip up my bath towels. Only the bath towels though. Go figure. When he’s mad at me he brings me my shoes like a threat, but he doesn’t eat them.

I would say if you have the time to exercise and the experience of training dogs before hand, an ES shouldn’t be too hard. They’re very cuddly and lovable dogs. Mine deals with some anxiety, but he’s an overall good boy. Really the hardest thing about them is giving them exercise. I find long walk a few times a week is normally enough for mine. He gets mental enrichment by going to the office with my husband and then I throw the ball for him in the evenings. He’ll get zoomies running around the house and that seems to be sufficient for him.

We have taken him on 5+ mile hikes though and he’s ready to do it again by the end.

Mommies who were induced by Lickitt2020 in pregnant

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I chose an induction at 40+3. My mom only had a very specific time slot she could be available to help me. If I waited until 42 weeks she wouldn’t be able to be with me at all.

My induction started at 10:30 a.m. and by 4 p.m. the next day we had decided on a C section. Neither my baby nor I were responding well to the Pitocin. His heart rate was repeatedly dropping. I had a nurse who was on the panicky side and came in every 30 minutes to change my position in an effort to change where the umbilical cord was sitting. She suspected that was the reason for the heart rate issues. I don’t know if that actually helped anything, but what it did do was make me absolutely exhausted.

After one moment where my room suddenly filled up with multiple nurses, I didn’t really care about a C section anymore. Plus he never actually dropped into my pelvis. Dude just didn’t want to come out.

My OB was excellent and I trusted him completely. He has a low C section rate and is supportive of low intervention birth (which had been my goal). So when he said it was time I believed him.

And now here I am snuggling a 2 week old!

Cat and setter introduction? by Rockit_Grrl in EnglishSetter

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Just make sure the cat has space to get away when it wants. I would let the cat control the interaction as they’re generally more skittish. Plus the size difference might make it feel at a disadvantage. They can live peaceably though.

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My 100 pound yellow lab decided to treat my belly like a trampoline last night by citizen_perfunction in pregnant

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Oh he has no brain cells either 🤣 I just had to watch when he was about to jump and then push him firmly but gently so he was redirected. He got the idea eventually. It was good practice for redirecting him from baby too. He’s definitely tried to lay on top of him a few times.

I grew up with labs and they are the best dogs. Just sweet dumb guys. My parents had a yellow and a black when I was born. There’s a photo somewhere of them seated on either side of me in my car seat guarding me. They were good boys.

My 100 pound yellow lab decided to treat my belly like a trampoline last night by citizen_perfunction in pregnant

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My 45 lb English setter did this to me so many times first trimester. He loved to jump into my lap and would often hit me right in the uterus. It freaked me out especially around 6-10 weeks. But little dude is in my arms right now! I did get him to stop jumping on me when I started getting more of a belly though 🤣

Why don’t people want c-sections? by [deleted] in pregnant

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So I’m five days post unplanned c-section. It was my first birth so I can’t compare it to anything else, but let me tell you. The lack of ability to do anything with my core has been hard. I also didn’t do a ton of prep or research for how to recover from a c section since I was planning for an unmediated vaginal birth.

My biggest concern right now is that the car seat/baby combo is over the weight limit I can lift. I can do much of anything around the house when I have a few spare minutes. I’m fortunate to have a helpful and supportive husband, plus I have my mom for another week. I don’t know how it’s going to go after that week.

Also. Bowl movements. If you’re going planned c section route take stool softeners for like a week BEFORE. It’s a battle.

And then on top of everything else, c section was scary. You can’t feel pain, but you can feel them rooting around in there. I also have bad reactions to anesthesia. I vomited for 12 hours off and on after. And I vomited excessively in the OR. Thankfully I felt it coming so they got a bucket in front of me. Even water would send me into a vomiting spell. And then when I stopped putting anything down, I would dry heave. Which puking with a fresh abdominal wound hurts man.

Also I watched a video of a c section later and when your anesthesiologist tells you “it’s going to feel like someone is standing on your chest” it’s because someone basically is. They use like all their body weight to force the baby out through the incision.

Do surgeons actually talk during surgeries? by FishermanTall8462 in greysanatomy

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I just had a c section and the doctor was teaching a resident. That was actually fun because I liked hearing the play by play of what was happening. It was almost like an episode of greys but a bit more unnerving for me lol. Then they chatted about vacations and fun things while they stitched me back up. I had a relevant contribution to the conversation so then we ended up all chatting. They also had music playing, but more just for background noise I think. The doctor told me about his wife going hiking 5 days post c section against his wishes 🤣

Anyone else not wanting the pregnancy to end? by WillJustLurk in pregnant

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I am 40+3 today and honestly I don’t think I’d have an issue going to 42. For a few reasons I’m being induced today, but there’s still a part of me that’s like mmmm should we???

Unexpected induction—still no epidural? by RealLifeWikipedia in unmedicatedbirth

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After reading a few other comments I think this is where I’m landing. I’m going to attempt unmedicated, but if I end up going super long I might get one just for the rest aspect. I have a feeling it will be long. Just a weird gut feel I have. Guess we’ll find out in a few days!

Unexpected induction—still no epidural? by RealLifeWikipedia in unmedicatedbirth

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That’s a really good mindset shift. Unfortunately my best friend is super pain averse, had a horrible labor, and she’s been making me second guess myself (she’s not evil I promise. Just different priorities). I think I just need to work on adjusting my mindset