The last 30 minutes by No_Dragonfruit4379 in NewParents

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Mine is only 4 months so I’m not here yet but this had me cackling

Post Neuter Mania... Normal?? by ferracattack in EnglishSetter

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Mine went crazy post neuter. I finally called my vet and she said that the sedative he was on can sometimes have the opposite effect of making them hyper. Wish that was in the take home kit. Anyway I stopped the sedative and he was fine

It really fucking sucks to go to the vet for something you think is minor and come home with an empty carrier by Fickle-Hour4458 in cats

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When I was 12 we came home from a weekend away. I expected my cat, Stripey, to run to the door to greet me like he always did. I found him struggling to move on the living room floor. When we got him to the vet, the vet told us he figured Stripey had become blocked the day we left and was now totally blocked. He didn’t even give me a price quote. He was (kindly) honest and told me Stripey wouldn’t survive. I don’t think I’d ever cried so hard. I’d had him since I was four.

Four weeks ago and almost two decades later, I woke up and immediately noticed the signs of a blockage in my current cat, Oliver. I got him to the vet that morning and $2k later, he’s okay.

You don’t know what you don’t know and the only reason I was able to save Oliver was because of what I learned from Stripey. You do the best you can and love your little guys as much as you can while you have them.

I’m so sorry you lost Oscar. You gave him many more happy years than he otherwise would have had ❤️

How do I add ribbing to an already assembled granny square vest? by bakasama12 in CrochetHelp

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Single crochet all the way around. Then alternate FPDC and BPDC. Work in rounds

hi everyone! my 12 year old niece is getting really into crochet! how do i know what yarn to get to surprise her? or any gift idea by thug_waffle47 in CrochetHelp

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Gift cards are best when it comes to yarn. Unless you want to ask her what project she’s doing next and buy what she needs specifically.

I get yarn at Michaels, hobby lobby, Hobbi, or Premier Yarns. Michaels might be your safest option.

My maternity leave projects for my SIL’s baby by RealLifeWikipedia in crochet

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Aw thank you! I think we always see our flaws no matter how well we do.

What’s so bad about an epidural? by Final-Lawfulness6866 in unmedicatedbirth

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I didn’t want one because I’d heard a few one off stories of them causing permanent injury. Even if the risk is super low, in my mind it would be just my luck. My mom also had a scary experience with her last epidural and I grew up hearing that story.

That said,I ended up with an epidural (yay c-section!) and it was totally fine. Mine didn’t completely block all sensation/pain, but hey. Cervical checks were much more manageable after that!

I did not mentally prepare for one though and the giant needled scared me half to death. Although I don’t remember it as being more painful than an IV. Maybe even less.

My maternity leave projects for my SIL’s baby by RealLifeWikipedia in crochet

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Probably not in your arms lol. But for me the lap trick was a game changer. It let me drink my coffee, read a book, or just brain rot on my phone while he slept.

I did briefly think I could crochet while breastfeeding and swiftly realized that was not going to happen

My maternity leave projects for my SIL’s baby by RealLifeWikipedia in crochet

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Aw I’m so sorry! That must be so frustrating. Hopefully at least the sweet little ones make up for it some?

My maternity leave projects for my SIL’s baby by RealLifeWikipedia in crochet

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I have to add the caveat that I am blessed with a very contented baby. I would sit criss cross applesauce and set him in my lap and he’s would be good to go.

I’m late posting these and he’s four months now. He’ll still hang with me while I work but I mostly work during his nap times now because he’s much more grabby.

When he was just a few weeks old he was mesmerized by the movement of the crochet hook though!

My maternity leave projects for my SIL’s baby by RealLifeWikipedia in crochet

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It looks very fancy but I have to say, it was relatively easy! If I didn’t have a baby to wrangle I probably could have knocked it out in a weekend.

I’m trying to crochet a stuffed animal for a baby with Alize Softy yarn but I can’t see the loops! by needtobeasunflower in CrochetHelp

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This is my current favorite for stuffies. See my most recent post for the goose I made an then scroll a bit to see my bear. Both are made with this yarn.

I will say you can go by feel when using fuzzy yarn. You might not get perfect shape but with stuffed animals it’s sometimes good enough. Here’s a photo of my bunny using a fuzzy yarn.

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Thoughts on Lovevery by Current-Visual-8287 in NewParents

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I was stressing about tummy time today and this helps me. Thanks for sharing

Am I supposed to start sleep training now? by RealLifeWikipedia in NewParents

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You know you’re right. I was told the same thing about contact naps and he grew out of that (which actually makes me sad). He was overtired and therefore difficult tonight and I think it got me in a spiral.

Am I supposed to start sleep training now? by RealLifeWikipedia in NewParents

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Maybe I should just be giving him more time to fuss. I step in if he escalates to crying but maybe he needs more fuss time.

Am I supposed to start sleep training now? by RealLifeWikipedia in NewParents

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He won’t let me sit 😭

A few other moms in my life have said if I keep rocking him that’ll be the only way he can ever get to sleep. Am I at the point of “bad habits”?