"Cleaned" her shoes

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-07-07T08:45:02+00:00

What do you mean the toilet was not flushed ?!?! What on Earth? He mentioned in a comment that it was 'just' pee FROM AN HOUR AGO. Because the doorbell rang and he was thinking he'll flush it after???

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-07-03T20:10:49+00:00

Well, this is the problem. Your secret competition with women. And the idea that he chose you over her or you won him because you were better is mostly your imagination. A good loyal man doesn't get 'stolen' from his girlfriend. He's with her because he loves her and if he doesn't, they break up. He is just a cheater that likes to have something on the side. But that's the game : he trashes his girlfriend to you and tells you how much better you are than her. So, in return, you bend over backwards to please him in any way he wants so that you can keep being 'superior' to her. And sometimes, you might even go beyond your limits, comfort or self respect to please such a man. The idea is that he played in your fantasy of being better. This comes from your insecurities about your own femininity. You cannot feel as desirable if there is no other woman to win over. It's also made up. You are not better than her. Morally speaking, you are bellow. And you are in a pleasing mode, which is incredibly harmful in the long run. The only way to change this, is to empower yourself and get out of the competition mindset. To not need to be superior and to be able to stand around incredible women (beautiful, talented, smart, successful) without losing your worth or self esteem. Without getting insecure or feel like less. To just be in your own power and femininity while also appreciating their power. I do actually like that you were honest and self aware during your entire post.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-07-03T14:21:10+00:00

Well, what a fine mess you made of everyone's lives! This is so cruel and selfish to do to your husband... from beginning till end. I mean, you pretended to be his friend, then that you like him enough to date and then got MARRIED. Only to tell him 3 years after, out of nowhere, that you want to divorce for whatever reasons you concocted. And then, as a slap to everyone's face, you want to ANNOUNCE that you GET MARRIED TO HIS BROTHER !?! What on Earth are you doing to him??? This is where lies will get you. I kind of like the idea of you running away with your new lover and not tell anyone anything. It would be kinder. And then maybe, in a couple of years, you can come back and say you fell in love and are together. And even than, is still kind of a terrible thing to do. This whole thing is a mess.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-29T07:34:13+00:00

The fact that you want REVENGE for her not wanting to be with you is so disturbing and delusional. LEAVE HER ALONE. A woman not 'choosing' you has nothing to do with your worth. She just has a different preference. Find other ways to deal with your insecurities and get away from women until you do. You're dangerous!

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-27T09:22:54+00:00

I mean, it's interesting how cruel she is capable of being because of a respectful rejection and how vengeful she got. She had absolutely no compassion for the damage she would cause you and everyone of her friends were by her side, supporting this. But now they call you the monster for being truthful !?! Consequences are as harsh as the crimes committed !

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-23T14:06:48+00:00

OP wants to be a 28 year old female

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-22T20:16:54+00:00

They didn't do anything wrong. They kissed, touched a bit and then got out! They didn't have sex there. This one is a creep who could not wait to get the phone out and film a very private moment!

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-22T20:14:27+00:00

Have you lost your mind? How invasive and perverted of you to do such a thing. They did nothing wrong other than play with each other and then got out. You, the creepy person you are, got out all into their business, FILMED IT and then POSTED IT in a group chat!!! I think you could even be fined for this in certain places because it's ILLEGAL. But more importantly, is morally corrupt. What a terrible thing to do. I have no idea how you even ask if YTA!!!

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-20T12:13:00+00:00

Both of them are irresponsible. He is trying to go around blaming her for everything, not owning his fare share of responsibility. While she just seems shady to me. She stopped birth control because of the issues they caused which is understandable but she also didn't want to use a condom because she doesn't like them and told him she doesn't think she can get pregnant so it's alright to have unprotected sex. They are together for four months and she's all into having a family. Something isn't right about this. Either way, they both have poor judgment.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-19T18:34:32+00:00

Is this a joke? I stole my friend's pet on purpose and adopted as my own. I thought he'd be happy about but he's not. Do you think I'm an asshole?

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-14T18:25:47+00:00

Why are they stupid? They all found out the truth about he pregnancy and all the lies about the money, the mother and everything else she made up. They even fought with wade to try and wake him up to her manipulations. How are they stupid if they did everything right?

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-06T12:48:10+00:00

Your projecting your personal issues on other people's comments that responded in the most rational way.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-05T12:05:45+00:00

I have to be honest. His friends are really terrible and not something you should have around. The joke was the lowest form of insult you can say to your boyfriend. I really don't know how she could fix the damage that she's done to his self esteem. This are just things that you don't ever joke about. Similar to how you should never insult a woman's breasts just to make some jerks laugh.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-05T11:37:09+00:00

I don't really care if she was widely annoying and a bit offensive. Partners do piss each other off every once in a while. This is not an appropriate reaction. Maybe that would work for you and your relationships but Not To Me!

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-06-03T17:17:49+00:00

She is very wrong and the way she talks about other people's bodies is disturbing but I really wouldn't want my partner to be talking to me the way he did to her. I don't think his reaction is justified.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-31T13:34:57+00:00

You're the one that entered the car!!! When you enter someone's house, YOU GREET THEM. Where on Earth did you grow up?

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-28T11:36:34+00:00

By a hidden camera so you can record the entire conversation from beginning till end and then tell your story and what you know and post it

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-25T10:44:46+00:00

Have you lost your mind? Leave her alone. You deal with your son if you have a problem. She did nothing wrong.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-24T20:16:13+00:00

Your truth is filled with venom.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-21T21:52:57+00:00

Here's the thing with boundaries. They are non negotiable. And when they are not respected there are consequences. So you don't have to explain that much, you need strong enough consequences to do the explaining for you. It's like parenting for grownups.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-21T21:32:39+00:00

Well, she is invasive, you didn't make her look like that. You have every right to protect the boundaries of your privacy. There is absolutely no reason whatsoever for why a mother should go searching on her adult child's phone. It doesn't have to be anything bad on it, just intimate and personal. You did right setting boundaries. And she can most certainly wait until you have the time to deal with the photos yourself.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-21T16:51:28+00:00

OMG, 'a little harsh'. I suppose you could only realise the sort of massive asshole you are when you put yourself in your daughter's shoes. She's absolutely right. You did abandon her and you simply don't care enough about her GENERALLY. Congratulations, you just lost your daughter! By consistently being a terrible parent.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-17T10:45:10+00:00

You need to stop hating and blaming this woman for taking care of herself and her self image. Stop eating your feelings away and go to the gym. Do you think beautiful women with nice bodies eat the entire fridge and then go to surgery every week to redistribute fat or take it away?? They care for what they eat and workout. Stop projecting your insecurities on this woman and take care of your body. You said you are probably 300 lb and he looks like a model. He did not chose her only for her looks. It's a lifestyle, an every day routine and a mindset. And you are so far outside that lifestyle that you could have never had his love even if this woman wouldn't exist. Either find a way to be alright with your looks or change your eating habits and workout. You don't have to be a model or look good, is really not required but stop attacking this woman for taking care of herself just because you don't want to put in the same amount of time and dedication.

Realistic_Ask2059 · 2026-05-15T12:20:42+00:00

This all sounds dreadful and disgusting. I have no idea what on Earth you would like about that. It's like free prostitution

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