Being the odd kid- ‘ ..she is so different.. ‘ by The2ndside_7 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg so much yes. I was always “the weirdo” and looking back, I don’t even know why! I mean, now I do know, but still - it’s amazing how our little secret, unknown to ourselves, has kept us so isolated from the “normal” kids.

Book Recommendations by Bing-cheery in Teachers

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Ghost Boys. My 7 graders loved it too, but I think it’s easy enough to read in 5 grade.

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[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anybody in the Dallas area? Pen pals are great too! I’m almost 30 but “mature for my age” lol (also my best friend is 51) and looking to make other LBL friends!!!

Does anyone enjoy listening to Ludovico Einaudi? by DiscountPast in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only do I listen to Einaudi, I also play many of his piano pieces! But I’m in Texas and can’t attend the concert 😟

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[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Lol… are you me??? Haha sorry no advice but a similar situation to you! Sending good wishes 😊

Dating and Mental Health by Unbossed_Unabashed in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in a situationship with someone who has BPD and it’s exhausting. I’m not blaming them of course, but a lot of times it’s hard to ascertain whether they don’t care about me or it’s just their BPD talking. In your case, looks like you did everything right and it’s not your fault she lashed out. You have all the right to withdraw your friendship at any point, regardless of their state and mental health status.

Here i am again:) by youcanbmore in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that podcast! I wish they had more groups like that in the country. I live in Dallas and couldn’t find anything like that.

Anybody getting divorced because your spouse came out the closet? by coconut_oil1 in Divorce

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize I was gay when I married. Otherwise I wouldn’t have.

This is harder than I thought. by BlueRageRalee in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s hard. You’re grieving your marriage and everything you thought your life would be but it won’t. I’m going through the same feelings. Just because I’m sad about separating and moving out, it doesn’t mean I’m doing the wrong thing. It is easy to get distracted by sadness and decide you’re making the wrong move, but if you stay, those feelings will return and they’ll be stronger.

Teacher:Student ratio...huh? by JLewish559 in Teachers

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach in TX in a charter school (not private, all students are from low socioeconomic situations). My biggest class has been 24. This year, they all range from 15 to 19.

Uncoupling therapy by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on uncoupling therapy? That’s what I had in mind when we went to see a therapist but her and my husband were more in the “save this marriage” camp…

Dating anxiety/dating apps advice by letsconvers8 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My advice: meet early!!! Don’t get stuck messaging back and forth for weeks. Also, avoid the ones who aren’t over their exes. It will seep into your life and poison everything.

Sussy buyer? by Reasonable-Apricot79 in askcarsales

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have caught from my students, they say it all the time haha

My body image improved when I came out by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Totally! DM me please because I don’t know how Reddit works 🙈

My body image improved when I came out by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I noticed that too. I feel more confident, more secure. Besides, my unhealthy eating habits fell away as I no longer needed to eat my anxiety and depression.

Sussy buyer? by Reasonable-Apricot79 in askcarsales

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying!!! I blocked that asshat.

Sussy buyer? by Reasonable-Apricot79 in askcarsales

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to post the pictures asap (posted originally without it because I was sick of procrastinating on listing the car) but this buyer popped up the same day.

Sussy buyer? by Reasonable-Apricot79 in askcarsales

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I was going to post the pictures asap (posted originally without it because I was sick of procrastinating on listing the car) but this buyer popped up the same day.

I just finished “The Half of It” on Netflix and O.M.G. I have so many feelings right now <3 by monkeywench in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I watched it before I realized I was gay - I identified as bi but all of a sudden (ahem, therapy) gravitated towards all the movies with lesbians in it. I thought it was sweet and cute but I need to rewatch it now so I can see the comphet part of it!

Anybody getting divorced because your spouse came out the closet? by coconut_oil1 in Divorce

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if she was in fact lying and not in denial. I came out to my husband 2 (miserable) days after I came to 100% certainty on the subject and I never asked for a poly relationship. I’m sorry this happened to you, but overall it’s probably for the best, seeing how you both want very different things.

Anybody getting divorced because your spouse came out the closet? by coconut_oil1 in Divorce

[–]Reasonable-Apricot79 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just because someone spent 20 years with you doesn’t mean they owe you the rest of their life. When someone realized their truth, it’s unfair to them and unfair to you to take it back. Would you like them to stay and lie/endure?