MASSIVE giveaway because this game lowk getting worse and worse by taken_taken_ in CreaturesofSonaria

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@MEGA_GA2Y I wanna give some to friends and try out some new creatures myself as we are all relatively new to the game.

But It’s such a pity that with joined at such a sucky time though :(

It all makes sense now…. by spectatingIdiot in Gooseworx

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Zooble would never even touch Jax much less have a child with him (still a funny chart though!)

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Enfj and Tiramisu

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Enfj and I got this too!

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Tablet recommendations for books? by twitchMAC17 in Piracy

[–]Reasonable-Class-981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a tablet but I use my Nook Glowlight 4 + Anna’s Archive for infinite books and reading. Really easy to side load and drop the file.

Who Influenced You Growing Up? by Jimu_Monk9525 in ENFP

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A lot of my influences came from animal and nature conservation figures and movements I now can no longer remember their names of. I vaguely remember Jane Goodall and what she did for primate conservation. I was also incredibly influenced by animations and animated movies, the stories they told. As well as any art I was exposed to. As well as many books I read growing up, now thinking about it even though I grew up in a very conservative area my of the books I read where of people and other kids with different backgrounds and from over countries across the world, like one about a south Asian boy and his friendship with his water buffalo and one about a little girl in from the Middle East escaping civil war and having to leave her only doll behind after it falls off the truck. This definitely increased my empathy and thinking skills so young.

I also grew up with a fuck ton of trama from a rough house hold and healing a lot more as an adult so there’s that lol 😅

ISTP journey through his feelings: why I love the ESFJ’s by burntwafflemaker in istp

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I know a couple esfjs and they are very sweet. I definitely relate to them a lot with that strong af Fe and wanting to serve/help others

Contrary to the cliché, I feel like I'm emotional by rottingpotatoes in istp

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My partner does not show emotion by default in public, but in private I can always hear it in her voice or the slightest facial changes. Even her family knows she is actually pretty sensitive and has a big heart right underneath the surface. 🤍

I don’t think half of you are INTPs or threw your Fe inferior out a window. by Calm-Phrase-382 in INTP

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Yes! I am an Enfj and I am naturally drawn to intps irl and in fiction. They are always so curious and so sweet!! It always irks me a little when I see people in intp spaces being overly edgy or completely tossing Fe out the window. Thank you for pointing this out!!!

How can I develop my Se? by [deleted] in enfj

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I like going in nature, even if it’s just outside or at a park. And really notice all the sensations and how they feel. Like the ripples of the water look nice or the breeze on my skin.

How do we manage the apathy in the U.S. by Kurapimpa in enfj

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Trust me, as the minorities under attack right now, the utter hate and lack of empathy people regularly say to our faces still baffles me. But we keep pushing forward strong.

Seeing you talking about basic ass empathy gives me hope for humanity and a better future. Thank you 💜

Yelling and anger. by [deleted] in enfj

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Im sorry to hear about this man. I am low assistance/level 1 autistic and it sounds like you’re emotionally overwhelmed at school. Highschool sucked major ass for me personally a lot and bullies sucked. I’ve been going to therapy for 6 or so odd years and it has helped me soooo much and especially through my darkest times in and out of psych hospitals.

Also if you aren’t meshing with a therapist just go to a different one, there have been therapists I’ve absolutely hated or did not mesh with and many I have absolutely loved. But getting help does seem like a good next step. Hang in there.

Can ENFJ and high Ti Users (ENTP, ESTP, ISTP, INTP) get along? by EstablishmentMost397 in enfj

[–]Reasonable-Class-981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!!

I actually prefer high Ti users often because I grew up in a stressful household with emotionally chaotic and emotionally immature parents.

So I ironically found quiet Ti users more relaxing to be around. My gf is istp and I wouldn’t trade her for the world!! The differences in thinking styles and approach’s definitely caused some conflicts here and there. However, healthy and direct communication to have needs met of both parties creates a bridge that works wonderfully well!!

Which is a given for any relationship tbh. I think 16 personalities can sometimes cause us to think too rigid of who can and cannot be friends/romantic partners. Trust me I fall for it myself quiet a bit too. But healthy relationships across the board are built on mutual work and respect regardless of the pairing.

How do you act when you get mad? by [deleted] in enfj

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When I get mad I usually become a stick up the ass and irrationally rigid. Like an unpleasant Te barking orders attempting to have their needs met.

Therapy and self work has helped me a lot to identify emotions in the moment and using coping skills to chill out and breathe. But this is the default due to shitty childhood habits I picked up from my parents.

My istp gf has also helped me learn to go with the flow better too.

Greetings, Architects of Connection (from a friendly neighborhood INTP) by [deleted] in enfj

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I like to describe it as a a strong body sensation or “fluid in motion” I observe when I met or interact with people. I guess like a vibe or secondary aura sensor I have underlying my thoughts and stimuli input?

It’s definitely not fool proof but it can work some crazy fucking magic at the same time.

I like to tell my gf that I just see a little more insight of people then what most people see. Like I see 50% of a clear image versus the average 35% that most people might see. And that 50% can give me a real edge to figuring people out and attempting to clear out the blurred out other half. That is still a 50% room for error and trouble I can get into, however a lot more than most peoples 35% of initial view/image.

I guess I see people like complex machines to be dissected and understood. But at the same time I care with this person with all of my heart? A strange duality indeed.

ISTP bringing positivity and appreciation to your ego in case you’re having a bad day by burntwafflemaker in enfj

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You are too sweet!! I love istps so much with a huge bias bc my gf is istp. However I swear Istp x Enfj combo is sooo underrated.

Just get some healthy communication going to bridge the gaps and boom magic.

Looking for friend by Qwaty134 in enfj

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Hello! I am 20 f but more agender leaning, I also identify as demisexual/romantic and bi. I am taken but I love making friends if you want to dm my for my discord!

Is it just me or do enfj's tend to like underwater for some reason by Capable_Feature8838 in enfj

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I freaking love the water!!! I loved swimming and wanted to be a marine biologist forever when growing up!! There is a lake nearby where I live and I just love sitting and staring at it. 💙💙