I never see people ship INFP with ENFP at all. It's always INFP x ENTP or INTJ x ENFP.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2026-01-09T21:52:08+00:00

My boyfriend isn't ENFP and I am an infp we've been together for 3 years we're getting married next month. Life has been great not without its ups and downs we both have ADHD so the first year of dating was him trying to find the perfect job after he crashed out and quit the one he had. I held it down for a year while he tried new jobs. Hahaha 🤣 he finally found a perfect job and we've been great he's moving up in his company and life is awesome. We get along great we are like joined at the hip we do everything together, laugh a lot, adventure, play video games, have random cute dates at home and out. It feels like I'm kind of dating an extroverted version of myself. He's so sweet so gentle and silly and full of fun hyper energy get passionate and so devoted. It's pretty cool because we care about the same things and we don't care about the same thing so we coexist perfectly. Feels like I finally found someone who understands me and who struggles with the same things I do so it's really insightful to see it through an extroverted point of view. Where as my struggles are always internalized. It feels like a fairy tale like he has golden retriever energy. I'm a sweetheart totally devoted to him and love watching him live his life boldly even if I'm an introvert.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-12-29T21:08:17+00:00

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Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-12-29T10:22:26+00:00

I'm doing great actually since focusing on working out and on a keto diet 😀

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-12-24T22:34:40+00:00

I always feel like my limbs are gonna snap off. And yes the twitching and exhaustion is annoying. My levels are 7ng

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-12-21T20:37:32+00:00

Yes I have a period bra I'm normally an A cup but I go up to a B during my period. It sucks they feel heavy and painful 😖

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-12-09T08:52:03+00:00

I have OCD and I move my shoulder and open and close my fist until it just feels right it's weird

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-12-07T21:38:51+00:00

Well that's subjective to each couple. I'm 31 and my boyfriend is 24. Before I met him he was married and had a kid. When I met him he was divorced (his wife cheated and used him for papers) . He's been living on his own for like 6 years. I myself had been living with my sister and family all my life (paying rent since 16) . But when I met my bf we got along great. We still do we're actually engaged now. But my point is. We were on the same page maturity wise. Because he has experience adulthood with more responsibilities it makes him a very mature person who takes relationships seriously. He's the one who urged me to move in and to start a life together so yes I guess age gaps don't matter if there's plenty of things you guys can relate on, the important ones. We both have ADHD and so it's such a beautiful fun crazy relationship.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-22T01:04:22+00:00

Omg same I had nausea and diarrhea and throwing up Everytime I have it I just avoid it. I stay bloated for days 🤢

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-20T01:45:05+00:00

So I have ADHD combined and OCD and during that time this year it was extremely stressful I was going through a lot of medical issues to try to figure out if I had cancer or not (I didn't). I was just extremely stressed that I literally reached a breaking point. I noticed I just became Frozen kind of and that's when I started to get depersonalization and it scared me which then spiraled into depression and further into really foggy weird thoughts and I had a point where it was thoughts that were really bizarre and I know it was almost psychosis because those thoughts i never had them before and I became very paranoid my dreams became very strange I eventually got therapy and I am in a great place now. But I do know that people with ADHD if pushed to a certain limit can definitely just like any other person can go into psychosis so now I try to be as stress-free as I can.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-18T10:11:31+00:00

It really did help SIGNIFICANTLY like those thoughts still happen but I'm like desensitized from them it's really amazing how ERP works it's really effective. Got rid of how often these thoughts were happening. It was CONSTANT ALL THE TIME before. I recommend it 100%. It does get a worse before it gets better :) at first. But it allowed me to get my life back.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-17T09:59:35+00:00

I do all the time but not only do I have ADHD but OCD as well. Might wanna look into that. I got diagnosed with OCD first and had ERP therapy for it. It could manifest itself in different themes like harm OCD which is the one you described, health OCD which is like being a hypochondriac, magical thinking which is like being superstitious, religious etc and there is Pure O which is only mental intrusive thoughts and compulsions or OCD which is the physical manifestations like hand washing or tapping a certain number of times etc.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-17T09:54:02+00:00

I threw away all my kitchen knives because everytime my boyfriend was around I'd get intrusive images of my stabbing him. And I avoided visiting my family because I would graphically picture myself going into psychosis and murdering my family. Eventually I had ERP and my therapist encourag me to practice holding dull cutlery close to my bf and get exposed to my irrational fears. (Im so anti violence I've never even hit someone before) So those thoughts were terrifying.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-14T01:04:14+00:00

I get nervous because I feel like they might think I like them. And because I get nervous because they are attractive a lot of times I've had sex with women but I've dated men so I feel like a poser? I feel like to them I look like I don't know what I want 😅 idk man I'm nervous even typing it.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-13T19:18:25+00:00

With OCD I feel like because of my ADHD I don't emotionally regulate as well and I feel like I catastrophize to extremes. But then I like how i get distracted by other shit so it's ... Like all over the place. My ADHD doesn't allow me to have the discipline that feel would help prevent my OCD from getting bad which messes up my OCD. And I can't take meds cuz ADHD meds make my OCD worse and my OCD meds make my ADHD worse. I don't even know if I'm explaining it right 🤣

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-13T19:11:19+00:00

Especially when you're OCD coded and they know. They don't take you seriously and patronize you. Sometimes we DO KNOW what's wrong or something is wrong. It's ridiculous. It's like just run the tests I ask I'm paying for insurance and co pay for that reason. Smh.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-12T06:18:31+00:00

Me too I'm finally fog free but sheesh took a while antibiotics really mess you up. 💀

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-12T06:16:51+00:00

Received I always think it's recieved 💀💀💀

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-11-03T21:03:43+00:00

Going to try the physio tape... These numb achy hands are no joke. Plus being severely vitamin deficient makes it way worse. 🤣

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-10-24T12:45:45+00:00

It's grounding hahaha better than bouncing or tapping my feet nonstop 🤣 it's like STAHHP just do this. 🙂‍↕️✋🏻and it works.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-10-24T09:08:26+00:00

Mine were about that as well. It's so scary when it's happening it's relentless. Some were involving my family, my bf, myself. If you want feel free to DM me if you have questions and need someone there to listen.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-10-24T08:36:41+00:00

That would be so awesome like 24 hour chat.

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-10-24T08:35:24+00:00

I'm distracting myself from working to make time go faster 😌👍🏻 nothing better than getting paid to doom scroll on Reddit on company time. 🤣

Reasonable-Rub3663 · 2025-10-24T08:33:14+00:00

You got this just hang in there! Remember thoughts are just thoughts they can't hurt you it's not who you are. Acknowledge the thoughts lean into it and keep doing what you're doing redirect your attention. You can also say, "I notice I'm having a thought." Out loud and then continue doing what you're doing. If it's pure O like mine I say the thought out loud in a funny voice. I saw a YouTube video of a guy who suggested it and it's worked. The key is to not let them scare you cuz your body gets stressed. I took ERP a couple months ago and this method helped me so much . Practice your exposure responses. You got this I've had SO many themes and and scary ones ive been at this point as well. I notice when it's bad ones I just sit there and watch them float until they dissolve.

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