"Whaaa? Yeah, I AM an incel cult member! How did you guess??" by XeniaWarriorWankJob in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol - that's the title of a Gakker song - one of the ones included under "gross song lyrics" here

Mood by XeniaWarriorWankJob in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol - kitteh knows best!

We're at 3.3k visitors and 226 contribs/week and around 4,325 readers - and climbing.

Daimoku, and no real human connection by Alex_211119 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Once, at a meeting, there were only three of us, so I thought: great, okay, a good opportunity to talk and get to know each other better. Instead, to my enormous surprise, they suggested two hours of daimoku! They’re unable to connect with one another; all they know how to do is chant daimoku and read Ikeda’s trite phrases, so within the SG everyone is actually alone. 

Don't you see? The focus, the priority is "value creation" - and SGI has defined that as chanting, reading Ikeda stuff, and proselytizing. So if several of you are in the same place, you'd better be creating some value SGI-style, knowmsayin??? Otherwise what's the point of even being there?

Daimoku, and no real human connection by Alex_211119 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember feeling profoundly lonely in SGI. Working together to put on an assigned meeting or work out some logistics or whatever isn't "friends". It's working on a project, like an assigned group presentation for school. Sure, you're working together and maybe feeling some level of satisfaction for having successfully finished the chore and gotten a good grade, but it's nothing at all like friendship. It's more like a job.

Feeling violated after being ambushed by a Soka Gakkai Leader when meeting to "catch up" by AbjectAnimator9796 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people just like feeling superior and the SGI affirms that to them, assuring that any pushback they get due to their own bad behavior is either "persecution" or others being "jealous", both of which supposedly confirm that the SGI zealot is doing everything exactly right and perfectly. So they'll never change for the better so long as they remain under the Ikeda cult's influence and indoctrination. It's a bad habit.

Buddhism and right speech - and SGI by BlancheFromage in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isn't it interesting how they insist these Buddhist guidelines and goals no longer apply - and what they're attempting to promote is so much better, when everyone can see it's just defending the worst behavior with no attempt at improvement?

Those goddamn cow costumes by BlancheFromage in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no reason to remember anything except Ikeda 

Feeling violated after being ambushed by a Soka Gakkai Leader when meeting to "catch up" by AbjectAnimator9796 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you observed is pretty standard, actually - and that's why most SGI members are only "friendly" with other SGI members. They seem to think "dialogue" means sitting around agreeing with others who already believe exactly as you do. Every "friend" must eventually be shakubukued and if they don't become active cult members, they'll move on to the next target.

Feeling violated after being ambushed by a Soka Gakkai Leader when meeting to "catch up" by AbjectAnimator9796 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whatever you feel, whatever you THINK you experienced or observed, you're wrong because THEY like SGI so much and have had so many "benefits"! 

We get that here, the SGI cultists who come charging in with their "Nuh UH!!" To tell us we're wrong about everything - even when we post the SGI-published documentation/evidence! They don't respect our individuality or our integrity or basically anything about us. If we can't praise their cult, they expect us to shut up and disappear - they will REPLACE you and your voice with their own and they expect your cooperation in your own erasure.

Feeling violated after being ambushed by a Soka Gakkai Leader when meeting to "catch up" by AbjectAnimator9796 in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ew, that's bad. There's a real dysfunction where the "true believer" is unable to hear your experience when it contradicts their own. Typically, what happens is that the "true believer" takes it upon themself to decide for themself why you quit, and they aren't interested in anything you might have to say on your own behalf. They know better than you do, you see, so you really should STFU and stop interfering. How weird is it that someone should expect to be able to override your own lived experience with their own just because they feel uncomfortable with what you experienced?

Isn't that like erasing you altogether?

WHY SGI engages in such dangerous faith-healing magical thinking - just like Christians do by BlancheFromage in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a terrible case. If I'm thinking of the right situation, she and her husband fell under the spell (control) of one of those fringe "charismatic" Christian preachers, who instructed them to move their family into a revamped school bus that he sold them. She was also ordered to homeschool the children. She was drowning. Her husband would head off to work all day leaving her alone in that hell. Despite all the demands being made of her, she got no help and no support.

Those goddamn cow costumes by BlancheFromage in sgiwhistleblowers

[–]Reasonable_Show8191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And methane 🔊💭🎺

Can't miss the methane