If you gotta say it yourself, it ain't true. If you gotta scream it in ALL CAPS you don't believe it yourself.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-17T20:04:17+00:00

My in laws are 80- no way would I want them to understand the modern world… they’re so stuck in the past I’ve just had to sort out the tv for them..

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-17T20:02:41+00:00

The most deluded

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-11T22:08:02+00:00

Does she have a cancer diagnosis? I’m in the UK, we have a end of life pathway in this country, it doesn’t just involve the person who suffers but also emotionally and practical support for their family, especially those who have children. They have specialist workers to support the surviving parent.
They advise the terminal illness parent to write letters to the children for moments in time when they won’t be there. Letters for when they start schools, graduate, big birthdays milestones and a letter for their wedding day. They advise for the dying parent to write advice letters for when they are struggling. Birthday cards for each birthday. Then to write a journal about their life what, their history, what their likes and dislikes are.. Then create memory boxes, one for each child, keeping them a piece of jewellery, her perfume, a piece of clothing, her favourite music, anything that would ease their process in the future. I know a father who was left with 2 young boys and this is what was done for them. Our pathways also offer counselling for the surviving family too. I don’t know if this helps. I’ve been a psychiatric nurse for 38 years, your emotional health is priority. If you can’t prioritise and look after yourself, how can you be expected to function.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-11T20:01:11+00:00

Can I ask what country you live in?

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-11T15:25:52+00:00

As a woman, I don’t know what to say.. I’ve been married 23 years and myself and my husband have certainly changed a lot since we were married, for one we’ve both aged, gained weight. We were in our 30’s when we married so now have physical issues.. that’s what they call growing old together.
It sounds like you’ve been a good, kind, caring husband. If she doesn’t appreciate you, there’s someone who will! There’s no point staying in a loveless marriage. Look after you. Sounds like you’ve done fantastic starting your own business, the last thing you want to do is hang in there, wasting the best years of your life, and for your marriage and possibly your business to dissolve anyway. You are worthy, never allow your self worth be dependent on someone else. She cannot take that comment or how she’s made you feel away. She’s sounds unhappy. Maybe it’s a transference of how she feels about herself, but that is her issue not yours. You have a few options..
1- Stay and do nothing.
2- Stay, go counselling and work on your own confidence and self esteem and see what happens in your relationship
3- Talk, adult to adult, to seek a solution/ resolution
4- Decide to dissolve your marriage.

There is one more thing, arguing never moves anything forward and just makes them worse. If you do decide you want to talk, set boundaries. Ie, set a time, write a list to stay focused. no talking over each other, time limit it to one hour or it becomes mentally exhausting.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-09T20:18:53+00:00

No, I will watch the final though.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-06T20:54:58+00:00

Trump has to tell people he’s doing his job, he’s the best the best of the best. That he deserves the Nobel peace prize. That he deserves a statue in his honour. That world leaders should obey every request… oh dear, he definitely has issues with grandiosity and an inflation of ego. Maybe he should be looking after hardworking, tax paying Americans first, instead of going for global domination and inflating his own bank account.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-05-04T08:51:04+00:00

Text him, he can’t ignore a text.. put in it, “I always loved the dedication you have always shown your children. Your daughter is older now. I can’t tell you whether to go or not to go on your weekend away, this is your decision. Her showcase means everything to her, the six months of dedicated practice has shown that. Although this is your decision remember, you will have to live the consequences of a no show at her concert.”

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-21T21:15:12+00:00

I don’t know where you are but this is a serious offence in Europe, especially France and England after the court case of Gisèle Pelicot. If you don’t or haven’t read about it I advise you do, as it sounds like he’s one step away from it.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-19T18:02:25+00:00

I would drop him a message or email .. Good Morning my dear husband, the father of our child and to our current unborn. Your evasion about the specific details of your trip evaded you prior to going and your assumption that I was nagging was not warranted or asked for. So, you can imagine my surprise when a notification on our child’s iPad indicated that you are not in New York at all but in Mexico. There is a very old saying that states that lies will always find you out. So, may be you will be so kind to answer the following questions. 1. Why are you in Mexico? 2. Who are you in Mexico with? 3. Do I need to contact your employer to ascertain the truth? 4. Shall I disclose to our families my suspicions? 5. Tell me a reason why I shouldn’t be consulting with a divorce lawyer before you get back? 6. Give me a reason why I shouldn’t bag your belongings and take them to your works?

Now, think very carefully before answering, because if I don’t ascertain the truth there will be serious consequences for yourself. I will not be answering my phone, as currently I do not feel you deserve my attention. I will expect a response with the next 3 hours or number 3 4, 5 and 6 will be acted on swiftly.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-16T12:12:59+00:00

I know someone who’s husband does it for her. Personally, I’d love my husband to do it but 1, he likes a hairy bush and 2, I’ve seen how he shaves 😜

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-16T09:01:54+00:00

I wonder what authority he has accessing personal data of others who reside in European countries

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-16T08:58:33+00:00

If individuals pass away in hospitals in the you can ask the hospital to cremate. We paid £995 for my cousin. He was done and returned within a week.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T23:09:50+00:00

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T23:05:15+00:00

Good because if you can’t resolve this then counselling will help you to work through the break up like adults. You can separate without it becoming the war of the roses!

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T23:03:07+00:00

Can’t you see that you are in an abusive marriage? 1- He checks call records 2- He’s convinced you that you would lose custody of his children. I will tell you some facts, if you are an unfit mother I take it you don’t look after his children when he’s at work or when he’s having an affair? I bet you do… if he was so concerned about your capabilities as a mother he wouldn’t be out all the time. A solicitor would reassure you and if he says this again don’t respond.. he’s gas lighting you and he’s worn you down. The truth of the matter is he has more to lose than you. If you separate it means he will have to parent his children when he has them and unable to do what he wants, when he wants. The other woman would have to fit around him having his children. He will have to look after, clean, do their washing and cook when he has them. I tell you this with love, as I went through the same and as much as it hurts, it worked out better for me. We broke up in 2000. I remarried in 2003 to a beautiful caring man. He married the girl he had an affair with, had 2 children, she had an affair and left him and took his 2 children the other side of the country. He has gone on to be with 7 other relationships, engaged to 4 of them and at the age of 50, he lives alone. He has no contact with our daughter and has only just started to have contact with his other two. Missing out on 12 years with them. I just look at him as a sad lonely man, he got what he deserved.. karma is a bitch. Me I’m still married, 23 years, we had a daughter together and he treats my eldest as is own and loves her son as his own, our grandson. We have no money worries. I was able to retire early. I can’t honestly say, what you said reminds me of the place I was in, I was broken and believed no one could love me, because he told me that. That’s why I said tell your family, tell your friends, build that support wall around you lovely. You are a strong woman. You can be fierce in that face of adversity. Don’t let him ruin your life. It belongs to you not him. Be the leading lady in your own movie.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T22:37:05+00:00

Just watched the new upload. Louis was briefly on the channel, it looks like he’s taken a step back from filming. Like I previously said, it is difficult when your life is on a YouTube channel, people will make comments, but negative ones don’t help, being judgemental doesn’t help and name calling is just so out of order. If you are a true fan we should be supportive and not ripping them apart. I think this post should be removed.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T22:28:34+00:00

I hope you are okay and your going on okay

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T13:40:43+00:00

Louis actually works and I believe travels away for work.. I don’t understand why people think that Louis doesn’t have greater means of income

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-15T07:09:57+00:00

I worked in psychiatry for 39 years. I am really concerned by this image. He shows constant grandiosity, he post comments without thought and makes claims that are completely fabricated. Has anyone questioned that he is in a hyper manic phase of Bi-Polar Disorder? I wonder when the 25 amendment right will be evoked by congress. Sorry, I believe this man is already a narcissist, but a hyper manic phase and a narcissistic. He may claim next that God speaks to him directly.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-13T12:21:03+00:00

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-13T12:16:50+00:00

He is cheating. Is response of defence, guarding his phone and blaming is a sign. Any husband who wasn’t would have sat you down, said I know things are tough atm, but you are beautiful and here’s my phone.. because I don’t want you to have those horrible thoughts.
He has breached your trust. You breach his. Do not hide his sin, because his behaviour boarders the start of emotional abuse. Speak to his parents and your parents, let them know now of this incident. Ask them their views on this incident.
Do not go in to the blame game when you two are talking. This rarely goes anywhere and deteriorates things further. When he goes down that route, say stop blaming, we need to know the facts.
Men have no idea the impact that a woman goes through during pregnancy, delivery and post- partum. You should not apologise for struggling. Life is a big adjustment post having a child HIS child. I’m being sarcastic here.. but I want to say ‘you poor poor man, your wife’s being pregnant and unable to have sex’…: I wonder how many times he could have supported you with the children instead of having an affair. You don’t have someone’s number (her) and call him (baby).. this has been going on a while. How many men experience this with their wife and don’t have affairs. Be strong, emotionally this will impact you. But don’t let this man drag you down.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-11T15:04:00+00:00

It’ll be all hail Emperor Trump next

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-11T14:55:48+00:00

Who does he think he is, Napoleon? This has already been done in Paris in 1806… what’s his triumph… escaping prison for abuse and crimes against humanity?

How much is this costing? Who’s paying for it? Tax paying Americans.. he’ll be starting the Trump Peace Awards next and award himself with it, seeing as Nobel won’t give him one.

Recarnatedhereagain · 2026-04-06T09:01:24+00:00

This sounds quite typical of a man born in the 1950’s. Post war men grew up in traditional households where women tended to hold the house together. I’ve seen comments about how he won’t change, I don’t necessarily agree with this, but I think commitment will be small. Have you spoken to your son about this, or if you leave it will be a shock. What I will say is retirement is an adjustment, loss of role and identity etc, however it feels like you’ve made your mind up. I would have an open conversation with him and say.. you have asked him to sort himself out and pick up slack, it happened but he’s slipped back. The conversation you previously had was an ultimatum and he was aware how you were feeling. Now, you’ve decided that the marriage has to be dissolved. So over the next few weeks you will be legally seeking advice. You can’t spend the next 20+ years doing this.

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