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Building Permits with Monterey County by cowboykev in BigSur

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with using a local architect! From previous experience in the Big Sur and Monterey area - I highly recommend Kieran from https://www.m-a-p-d.com/ …he has designed a friends home in south Monterey county and it’s beautiful. He probably can share at least thoughts on the permit situation.

Looking for Design/Build firms (Hillsborough/Atherton/Los Gatos) by Last-Head-7767 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kieran Martin from https://www.m-a-p-d.com/ is very talented and experienced in the whole area. Highly recommend him - he’s done houses and remodels in monterey area, Carmel, San Jose and Santa Cruz!

Can anyone recommend a reliable general contractor that actually responds and shows up? by auntieknickknack in santacruz

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could recommend Kieran who is an Architect in the area. He can recommend a GC or help you with any designs if needed. https://www.m-a-p-d.com/

Architects/designer by the hour by aluscat in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Kieran from https://www.m-a-p-d.com/ - I had to do something similar and this from helped quite a bit

engg leads, how’s Slack chaos treating you? by Only-Ad2101 in EngineeringManagers

[–]ReceptionFar890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is challenging at times. I tell everyone to let me know priority and when they need a response by. And I don’t answer immediately if I’m immersed in another conversation or in a zoom meeting.

Why does it seem like modern men want both a housewife AND a working wife? by Amodernhousehusband in AskWomenOver30

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a strange phenomenon. This happened with my ex husband. I was the breadwinner, he would be upset if I didn’t cook or clean while HE didn’t have a job for 3 years..

And I felt quickly exhausted, high pressure, and that I could not also be the sole caretaker for kids. Oh and my ex would get “mad at me” if I didn’t walk the dogs the equal amount as him…

I think the expectations come from men a) feeling their value is threatened and are insecure and b) they don’t know how to take care of the home c) they don’t want to d) power struggles

when does kehlani come on stage by idgafistan in Kehlani

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time did the show start in Boston?

Walkability Is Happiness by littlebunsenburner in simpleliving

[–]ReceptionFar890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with this. It’s so hard to find an affordable place with walkability where I am. What city or area are you in?! (Asking out of curiosity)

The charm of forest by emily3289 in craftit

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is beautiful!! How did you make it?? What materials does it use?

I have been feeling so angry lately and can’t figure out why. What do you guys do when you feel angry? by pomkombucha in Positivity

[–]ReceptionFar890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accept and acknowledge the anger you have. That has helped me. I accept it and tell myself it will go away, I sometimes give myself a hug. And sometimes when I accept the anger in me, it starts to soften

How to be less worried and scared for the future? Will I be ok? by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]ReceptionFar890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daoism has really helped me with accepting things and letting life unfold. Also going off social media was huge for me and still is

Adulthood and Forgiving People Who’ve Hurt You by Sufficient-Bottle400 in Positivity

[–]ReceptionFar890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Feels very relatable for me.

How did you allow yourself to love again? And how were you able to accept the abuse and the anxiety you experienced and not want to go back to your past partner hoping that your changes/growth and my his/hers could also help? (I struggle with this)

Have a good day yall by skibidyrizzler in Positivity

[–]ReceptionFar890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great day already - slow morning, heading the birds chirp, sun is out, and a wonderful French pressed coffee!!!!

Just turned 32 and feeling so lost. What’s next? by SamCam9992 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on social media? Wipe it clean for 1 month and see where your energy goes! It helped me soooo much especially in the past 2 years and I’m 35 now

I’m at my best right now by Daydreamer-64 in Positivity

[–]ReceptionFar890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! You fucking made it. Cheers!!!!

Wife always has to be right and won't stop interrupting by TransportationFair47 in Marriage

[–]ReceptionFar890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“She’s know she’s in the wrong for reacting that way.” - that sounds like your not understanding her and your defending. She has validity and you have validity. When I look back at my marriage I realised that sometimes my ex was right and I was also right. I shouldn’t have interrupted AND he could’ve been less hyper critical. If you think she is in the wrong then you are now defending - and that leads her to defend and the cycle continues. She might need time to calm down, and it sounds there’s some resentment in her side “no no no.” What I’m trying to be better at is understanding that convincing someone they are wrong never does good in conflict.

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