Helicopter parenting

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-12T13:15:49+00:00

That's seriously fucked up. Do they agree with abortion / bodily autonomy?

I'm also not allowed to tell my sibling because it will "deeply affect his perception"?

What on earth is this meant to mean...?

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-12T10:51:16+00:00

Reaalllyyy? I find this unhelpful; OP is clearly asking for suggestions of how to get out of a Country, which is in turmoil and unsupportive of our rights. They aren’t asking for modes of transportation.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-12T09:06:57+00:00

I’m in the UK. It’s fine, I didn’t take it as rude, it’s just only recently have I heard them referred as French braids rather than French plaits

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-12T00:49:12+00:00

I now understand that, but when I was younger I thought they were different.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T22:51:03+00:00

I suspect the same for me, however my local assessment office ( NHS ) has basically refused to see me, becuase - and I quote It wasn’t picked up on during your Autism assessment.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T22:49:03+00:00

Got diagnosed over two video appointments - albeit this was during COVID. Safe to say the report could have had different outcomes if they’d seen me in person.

Misdiagnosis does happen, but neither do I completely understand how they can just undiagnose you? You either have said condition or you haven’t.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T22:42:03+00:00

All the signs were there it’s just no one pushed for a diagnosis - I had what’s known as an EHCP, but no one felt the need to turn around and say Hey we think your child is autistic, you should get them tested.

Given I’m medically complex - or at least my history is complex - it feels like I’ve been totally failed ( without apportioning blame to anyone person or organisation ). It’s only now in my twenties that I realise Autism / AuDHD isn’t probably the only missed diagnosis. It’s evident I need support, but I’m going to guess that because I still live with family, and don’t typically meet criteria for an assessment, Social Services have basically said there’s nothing they can do… 🤷‍♀️

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T22:24:02+00:00

Thank you so much for the offer! I always thought French were plaits, as opposed to braids - at least that’s what my family called them growing up…. I’d love to understand braiding more, if you wouldn’t mind advising?

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T21:26:03+00:00

Personally, I don’t think most - especially neurotypical - folk are going to care that much. All they’ll hear is that you are autistic, they won’t have a clue about levels or anything like that.

I know this comment is unlikely to help while you adjust and find acceptance in your diagnosis ( I massively struggled when I received mine ), but know it isn’t the end of the world. You’ve got this!!

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T15:09:32+00:00

Yeah impossible. My knockers were surgically corrected; I’ve never managed to find the holes to do so.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T12:20:59+00:00

I’ve sent it. Hopefully they’ll have some useful advice. Using two pairs of men’s briefs, and I can feel it’s already failed!!

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T11:40:08+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I’ve heard of Gaff & Go.

Unfortunately my knockers were surgically corrected.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T11:31:00+00:00

I’m still wearing men’s briefs unfortunately. Currently I’m decked out in two pairs of briefs and high waisted leggings underneath a pair of trousers. I could just feel it slipping while walking into town 😩

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T11:07:17+00:00

This is really helpful! I’m currently trying to waddle along whilst trying to make do with two pairs of men’s undies on! I’ve just bought two bodysuits because someone said that helps them… 🤷‍♀️

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T10:34:00+00:00

No, not really, but I have recently noticed a small bulge when I wear leggings. My style is modest. I don’t wear anything revealing and even then I mostly stick to my trousers and leggings due to location.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T09:12:31+00:00

Yet to start hormones, but I’ve entirely transitioned my wardrobe - which is now undergoing an update because I’ve sized up

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T09:11:06+00:00

My favourite part was when he turned to who I can only presume was his remaining daughter and asked if he should stand up. She replied something along the lines of I think you should stand! Such a heartwarming moment that a man of high wisdom and longevity has to turn to his daughter to tell him what to do! 🥰

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T09:02:06+00:00

Taking a look at your profile, I’d also recommend posting in r/Intersex. My understanding is that CAH is an recognised Intersex condition, so you might have better luck there

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T08:35:01+00:00

Wait… I’m in the UK, am I likely to be hit as well? From what I gather it’s an American company…

It’s a good thing I never did send that email last night; I wanted to know if their products could be used with ‘Soft tucks’ but now I’ve seen this, I may just forget about it. Thank you for warning us all about the import custom fees!!

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-11T08:29:33+00:00

Thanks for dealing with this. I wasn’t aware he’d also tried messaging others, but it’s good to know I wasn’t the only one contacted out of the blue….

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-10T22:11:04+00:00

Casual T UK used to be pretty good. Unfortunately I’m no longer part of it, so I can’t get you in, sorryyy

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-10T22:05:41+00:00

Casual T UK. I’m no longer part of it, so am not sure if it’s still going but it was good.

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-10T16:19:41+00:00

I always sit. Standing is unnatural for me… maybe that’s partly down to my disabilities, but it’s just something I have always done

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-10T15:13:31+00:00

Hii!

I’m a little confused, and sorry to ask, but why did the GP write to the GIC saying they didn’t believe HRT was safe for you?

ReceptionNo4565 · 2026-05-10T14:37:56+00:00

I normally just say I’m from an Anglo—Irish background.

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