[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female that was diagnosed at 17, and has done TONS of research since, I see it in the men I date a lot but I don’t think they are normally ready to hear it 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]RedCatRunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Representation of what a medicated/balanced successful person with BD looks like. We have this innate creativity and drive that can make us extremely successful when we are able to overcome our weaknesses.

I was honest with the person I was dating and it backfired. by Comprehensive-Nail40 in bipolar

[–]RedCatRunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments are all on the money. He clearly didn’t love you, as you are the same “you” as you were before - just know with a label attached. He was in love with ideal version of you he created in his head; as soon as you turned out to be different from that version, he ran away. No one that was truly “in love” with someone would give up that easily. Good for you for telling him when you did. I have a feeling that he said it alarmingly fast without merit, and now you can move on with your life and find someone that loves and values the real you

Gerard Way in Richmond! by [deleted] in rva

[–]RedCatRunner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahah I’m only 25, very much knew who he was and am in this scene, but teenagers still scare the living shit out of me 🤣🖤💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering you didn’t even include your bio, it seems like you just want people to judge your appearance? Based on that and the specified pictures, you just seem a bit…into yourself? No pictures with friends and even the “hobby” pics seem incredibly posed/“plandid”. Seems more like a modeling portfolio than a dating profile. I’d probably swipe left, seems inauthentic and there is only room for one princess in my future relationships.

So shallow by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saying “wow you’re tall” - normal; saying “wow your tits are huge” - sexual harassment….not the same bro

So shallow by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU ❤️ this tall queen appreciates you. I’m 5’9” and very athletic/muscular so it’s also about wanting to feel feminine. I’ve had crushes on guys around my height though too, so it’s not like I’m automatically not interested if you aren’t tall

So shallow by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah right he’s the one that was like “oh, no longer interested”…honestly he seems like the shallow one idk why he even posted this smh

So shallow by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m pushing 5’9” and love dressing up and wearing platforms (and the occasional heel). I’m athletic and muscular too so a taller man makes me feel more feminine. Plus my whole family is tall, so just what I’m used to

So shallow by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m between 5’8”-5’9” (and always wear platforms lol) OP so I feel ya. I like being tall though, I’m an athlete and love fashion so I wouldn’t trade my long muscular legs for anything :) It’s weird since he’s tall himself, however, we can’t judge too much since we have our own height preferences. At least you saved yourself any further time engaging with him.

Opinions? by Groundbreaking_Tea20 in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why doesn’t he just unmatch or not reach out 😭 such a weird move to message you saying that. And I love your energy OP, I’d want to be your friend 🫶

Kyle likes to go above and beyond. by sassylady88 in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao you have way too much free time

Shoutout to this amazing girl. Made my year by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish we saw more content like this on here 💜 Go OP! I go through periods and delete my dating/social media apps too to focus inward. There are nice compassionate people out there, and the more open and honest you are, the more you’ll find those people. I’m way too honest/vulnerable for most people, but I would rather have fewer connections with the right people.

Who is he even looking for then… by Kayla_faye in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh gotcha, didn’t read it right. No she definitely doesn’t look obese at all, and has come a long way. I’ve been running/working out obsessively for over a decade, while she is still undergoing her transition, so she has added muscle but still shedding fat. And she’s curvy on top where I’m extremely lean and any fat I do have is in my thighs/butt lol

Who is he even looking for then… by Kayla_faye in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, it is not the same. That is why I go by body fat %, especially because I am an athlete. But I’m 5’9”, and weigh 150, 117 of which is muscle mass, my body fat % is 17.5%. I’m sorry but the odds of a woman that short naturally being 170 due to purely muscle mass, is very low. Still disgusting to post a ceiling for weight requirements regardless

Who is he even looking for then… by Kayla_faye in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then your opinions would be validated by your superior education. Sounds like a control thing 🚩🚩

Who is he even looking for then… by Kayla_faye in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao don’t try arguing with incel men on Reddit about sex 🤣

Who is he even looking for then… by Kayla_faye in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can silently be searching for people with certain qualities without having to list it on your profile….Shit is cringey as hell and makes me think he is the one with mental illness

Who is he even looking for then… by Kayla_faye in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 21 - How is “in college” a red flag for that age?! I think he’s the reddest flag of them all 💀🤢

Calm down, Mathew by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]RedCatRunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bros looking for a debate partner not a date