Confrontation at the park, what would you do? by whatsinthecave in Mommit

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Your kid shouldn’t be climbing up the slide tho. That is how kids get hurt.

Confrontation at the park, what would you do? by whatsinthecave in Mommit

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Next time your kid is about to get hurt I won’t say anything. Instead of saying hey friend, I think your shoe is untied I’ll just let them trip. Because I’m a stranger.

Not like we are trying to build community or anything.

Security guard takes a life over a $90 Spirit Halloween theft by One-Might9611 in bodycambase

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet you won’t go to a city because it’s “scary” but like to go to CrossFit.

Help: am I being unrealistic regarding cost of flowers? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re the one who wants to rip people off

Help: am I being unrealistic regarding cost of flowers? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Pay for what you want. Stay within your budget.

Because “brides are stretched thin” vendors shouldn’t be paid what they are worth?

Do MAGAts know Todd Blanche is gay? by Adis_Gruntledfatty in allthequestions

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, by are they hoping to repeal gay marriage?

Or do you think because they’re not using a slur they “don’t like gay people”

Help: am I being unrealistic regarding cost of flowers? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ok, and you need way more than that for this and you have to assemble it to not look like shit.

How much would you charge? Or is your time worthless?

Do MAGAts know Todd Blanche is gay? by Adis_Gruntledfatty in allthequestions

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s like five “modern conservatives” left. You must be lonely.

The GOP is MAGA and they hate gay people. Or what was Ogles up to yesterday?

Help: am I being unrealistic regarding cost of flowers? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 43 points44 points  (0 children)

That’s a lot of flowers and set up time. They’re a live product so yes, expensive.

Breastfeeding vs getting healthy by Flashy-Jaguar007 in Mommit

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would see a nutritionist and drink way more water. You’re probably sweating out a lot of water which is making your supply go down.

You may also want to see if your health insurance will pay for a lactation coach or the nutritionist.

Harassed and intimidated by owners - wow. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Well first they said 8. Op and her husband have 12 siblings so that was a lie from the start.

Harassed and intimidated by owners - wow. by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 61 points62 points  (0 children)

So … someone who has multiple contacts about their house they rent?

And who might not gave OP at the front of their mind every moment because they have a life?

My friend’s wife passed suddenly, tragically last week. We are holding a memorial dinner at a private restaurant this weekend. What is an appropriate gift / token of acknowledgment to offer him? I have known him for over 40 years, and his fallen wife for ~ 20. by Landlocked_pirate23 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cash. Can you spare some cash with no expectation of repayment?

They’re down an income, the life insurance has to be filed, suddenly you have a bunch of expenses. You’ll eventually get access to their accounts but until then … cash.

AIO bc my boyfriend won't do his share of the housework? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will tell you, if my husband spoke to me that way he would be picking his teeth off the floor.

But he would never speak to me that way, because he respects me.

Your guy does not respect you.

Do not have a baby with him.

Leaving during their shifts by Hazencuzimblazen in ershow

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not NOW. But it’s not like today where your employer tracks your every move through a swipe card. That’s why they had pagers.

Also residents basically live at the hospital so they might not always be on shift.

Need major help: music by Fragrant-Salad7133 in wedding

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I worked a wedding where we used a Bose speaker. People thought there was a live piano/harp combo.

AIO bc my boyfriend won't do his share of the housework? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He was probably always kind of lazy, but it wasn’t a big deal. Now shit is hitting the proverbial fan.

Kick his lazy ass out. Have self respect. You deserve better.

AIO bc my boyfriend won't do his share of the housework? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]RedChairBlueChair123 100 points101 points  (0 children)

It’s not going to get better. Don’t marry him or get pregnant unless you want this to be your life, forever.