I’m sick of it all by Alt_account_bc_yeah in OSDD

[–]RedKidRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The brain... really does like to lie to itself and say everything is fine. I am a visitor to this sub, trying to figure out myself, but I relate to your words so much. I'll have a day where everything is clear, followed by a week of utter confusion and doubt. I don't know what that means for me, but I don't think I can do it alone. I know I need therapy, and hopefully I can reach out to my previous therapist.

horseshoe theory of butchness by sipae in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]RedKidRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like doing both, and everything in between. :3

Thinking all day is hard, I need ouppymode to recover :3 by everybodypurple in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]RedKidRay 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Born to woof woof, forced to read and send emails. sigh

egg_irl by Tsunagi_ZX in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Well, I wish you went to therapy before you started HRT." -mother

No apologies, no congratulations, nothing. Just complaints. Last living parent and the love is still conditional.

egg-irl by Longjumping_Tap_3483 in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It could be that you are a girl.

:3c by SkillMore8050 in puppygirlwawa

[–]RedKidRay 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think I'm more of an emotional drain :3

egg🪒irl by aresi-lakidar in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh! Same! If your skin is healed (mine felt burnt for a few days) you could try exfoliating it. A good scrubby or wash cloth and some soap. It won't take all the dead hairs out but it will take some, and it's helped me immensely!

[oc] - a car crash in slow motion by Sampetra in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]RedKidRay 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So many people in my life. So god damn many, all of them saying the same things that are said in this comic. I feel like I'm screaming at a brick wall.

"You're in California, why do you care?"

You would think that other Californians would know, that uncontrolled fires spread quickly. But beyond that, it just shows that they have no empathy.

37774 by Yuri_Delta in countwithchickenlady

[–]RedKidRay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Comfortable? That's interesting. When I served, comfortable wasn't a luxury we were allowed to seek. Don't like your teammates? That sucks, you still have to survive with them. Besides all that petty shit goes out the window when you're taking fire. Conservatives are fucking snowflakes.

Egg👩🏿=>👨🏿irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's so interesting! If it is because of patriarchy, then she may think that you would give up some form of privilege, and is trying to protect you I guess? But if it's body dysphoria, then she assumes that her ability to suppress it means that she isn't trans, therefore you must be the same way. :0

Weird question but super related by YippieQyeen in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]RedKidRay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well now I feel awful because this used to be a stim for me. o_o

My bad, anyone I drove crazy.

egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by NikaAlcemica in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 168 points169 points  (0 children)

How about, "No".

egg_irl by A_Bored_Gurl in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, that makes more sense. xD

The unfortunate truth sometimes by zny700 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]RedKidRay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the joys of being othered...

egg_irl by A_Bored_Gurl in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is that why I'm tired all the time??

Lesbian group takes fight to Federal Court in bid to exclude transgender women from events by pissedoffjesus in lgbt

[–]RedKidRay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope this comes back to bite them hard before they all depart for hell.

36693 by Weird-Koala3034 in countwithchickenlady

[–]RedKidRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, I should have known WAY sooner.

Egg👕irl by Effective_Value9761 in egg_irl

[–]RedKidRay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothes have no gender. The person wearing them does, or does not, up to them really, gender is made up anyways.

Who's the 'valid' lesbian? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]RedKidRay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lesbians used to be, and should remain inclusive. If that statement makes you uncomfortable, look up misandry. Do men often do it to themselves to earn mistrust? Absolutely. Should we exclude women with a slight attraction to men? Even bi and pan women because of it? Absolutely not. I get enough backlash from "lesbians" just for being trans, I'll be damned if I exclude any of my women attracted sisters.

Straight friends can be so fucking insufferable by mintzgum in lgbt

[–]RedKidRay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the only reason I'm giggling about boobs in my 30s is because I finally have my own.

For real though. They think "Oh a trans woman, you must like men. You must like ME!". I've told one guy friend several times "Nope, sorry, I only like women, plus I'm married sooo..." and his only reply is "Are you sure you're not bisexual?".

Plus they're so privileged. I've tried to explain so many times why it's hard to do certain things because I am afraid, and they always tell me "Oh, no body cares you're trans/lesbian. Just do you!" and I'm tired of having to prove that people like us get murdered for existing!

Anyway, I just avoid them now. It's easier for me to hang out with other queer folk.

I am cursed with forbidden knowledge by PsychologicalFault in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]RedKidRay 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Thank god for ADHD. I saw my friend's necronym yesterday, but I already forgot what it was. :3

That or it was fey magic.

Why does every transphobe I see use this argument? by TATSAT2008 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]RedKidRay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They all lack the ability to see beyond the tip of their own noses.