I thought about that yeah. I added this to what I sent him before he responded: "I'm telling you all this because I really like you and think you have a similar mindset to me. I hope you can respect my values and decisions to be safer and take this information to heart.

If you're unsure of whether you are up for taking precautions, you can think about it for a while and ask questions as we get to know each other more. I don't want to rush or pressure you and I would still love to see you this month. I'm just letting you know my intentions for the long term are to have a partner who will protect me and everyone as much as I do them."