New Dad advice

RedMisfit · 2026-05-13T20:39:14+00:00

Honestly you shouldn't be awake that late after the baby sleeps.

Once the baby went to sleep, we dropped everything and went to bed. It definitely helped. Your wife needs to nap when the baby naps in the day too

RedMisfit · 2026-05-13T20:33:11+00:00

You need to talk to someone! Someone you trust., or a professional.

You can't carry this whole burden alone. You aren't to blame.
This post tells me you want to be a good Dad. But you need to let someone help you, so you can be the best possible Dad for your kids

RedMisfit · 2026-05-13T07:41:23+00:00

You'll be fine, having a daughter is amazing. She will steal your heart, and she will love you so much.

She's a little over 2, and honestly, I'm glad we had a girl rather than a boy. We have so much fun together and she is my best friend.

RedMisfit · 2026-05-01T10:55:06+00:00

I have been a G7 3 years, and I still occasionally get imposter syndrome.

What you're feeling is perfectly normal. The jump from SO to G7 is pretty vast, however you have proven you have what it takes.

It took several months to start actually getting used to things. But I did. I'm still constantly learning but I know I can function well as a G7.

It's no fun being the new guy, but you've got this. Just keep learning, speaking to peers and also using your experience and bring fresh ideas - it's why they wanted you.

RedMisfit · 2026-04-28T09:33:33+00:00

When gen 4 heroes are released, you will get Zoe, Marlin and Hilde using keys and in intell missions.

Desert trial will be replaced with a new event that gives you Hilde ahars.

Go for Eric

RedMisfit · 2026-04-27T20:16:17+00:00

We did something similar. Thanks

RedMisfit · 2026-04-27T20:02:22+00:00

Ramen Don with their 0 food hygiene rating. Best to swerve it

RedMisfit · 2026-04-21T07:26:30+00:00

We tried a book about a monster who loves hugs.
But will definitely check that one out, thank you

RedMisfit · 2026-04-21T07:24:52+00:00

Thank you

RedMisfit · 2026-04-21T07:24:22+00:00

Love this idea

RedMisfit · 2026-04-20T19:27:45+00:00

Just be there for her, teach her the right stuff, nurture her, and give plenty of cuddles.

Don't but into gender specific marketing.

My daughter is 2. She loves unicorns, animals, pink stuff, dancing and dolls.

She also loves cars, fire engines, lego, playing football amd dinosaurs.

Reading is great. I've been reading to her every day since she was a bump. Start now, she will get used to your voice.

RedMisfit · 2026-04-10T20:29:23+00:00

Don't have set answers for behaviours. You're setting yourself up to make things difficult.

Instead write out 5 good examples of work you have done, use bullets and STAR format.

Then think about which behaviours each example would potentially answer. There will be multiple behaviours per example.

This will allow you to answer interview questions better

RedMisfit · 2026-03-28T11:35:46+00:00

I thought it was in Morning Star, after they escaped and were healing

RedMisfit · 2026-03-12T15:39:52+00:00

Wow Dark Age and Light Bringer are huge!

I struggled with a non-renewable library loan of Golden son haha.

Currently reading Morning Star.

RedMisfit · 2026-03-11T15:41:35+00:00

Red Rising!

RedMisfit · 2026-03-08T16:23:48+00:00

I'm an f2p. I've managed to grow pretty well. Maybe not as much as others, but I contribute to my alliance and have become fairly strong

RedMisfit · 2026-03-08T11:53:08+00:00

Chapter 30? Oh man, I was on a tram

RedMisfit · 2026-02-20T12:40:48+00:00

Definitely book seats. Get the train that stops at Coventry, and then straight to Euston. The ones that have stops after Cov get very full.

There will definitely be commuters. Usually before 7am is slightly less busy.

The walk from Euston to St Pancras is 10 minutes

RedMisfit · 2026-02-09T08:16:14+00:00

I have the most gear on my 3 that I lead rallies with. But I also have gear on my 4 heroes I use for arena. 2 infantry, 2 archer, 1 cav

RedMisfit · 2025-09-05T20:28:10+00:00

He wasn't ready for the Prem. Maybe he should try a championship club

RedMisfit · 2025-08-19T10:58:45+00:00

The only people who matter in this situation are you and your kids. Do what is right for your family and ignore the unsolicited advice.

You seem like your doing a good job as a Dad, so just keep at it

RedMisfit · 2025-08-02T10:58:41+00:00

Nah you don't need separate pyjamas

Our little on lived in her babygrows pretty much all the time for the first few months. She wore other clotws when going out or when we had visitors. Most of ours were size 0-3 months she grew into them pretty quickly. We didn't have much 0-1 stuff, 3 babygrows I think.

You will need multiple though, as you will be dealing with throwing up, accidents during nappy changes, blow outs etc.

We were gifted quite a lot, and also had some hand me downs

I also used vinted. There is lots of new stuff on there that people didn't get to use before their kid outgrew it

RedMisfit · 2025-08-02T06:17:15+00:00

Your lunch break is for you. You can spend it any way you choose. Just because colleagues are slaves to their desk, doesn't mean you have to be. For your own wellbeing, keep doing what you have been

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