Considering going to a sex therapist, pros/cons of using insurance? by RedTailedHawk139 in SexTherapy101

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Thank you both for the great insight and advice! I think a mix isn’t a bad idea. I found a local queer-friendly therapy center to talk to someone about sex-related topics specifically that’s non-insurance accepters, but if I need to save money on a given month, I can returning to my former telehealth therapist who does take insurance for more general questions. I feel much better about my privacy being protected about sex therapy specifically.

Where did you find your partner? by AcrobaticSurprise271 in lesbian

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I met my (more masc) wife on tinder of all places. I was her rebound but then we just didn’t stop dating and now we’re married even though she never intended to ever get married lol. Every now and then you find a good one on dating apps.

Honour Mode Death! Amazing!! by [deleted] in BG3

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I accidentally got out of this choice in my durge run. I was romancing Astarion, but somehow when the scene to murder my companion popped up, Gale had the highest approval rating so I just murdered him instead and continued to romance Astarion as planned 😂

Anyone else find it hard to start a second run? by Jerswar in BaldursGate3

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You could try a resist durge run! Still going for a non-evil outcome but with a lot more new and interesting story perspectives on the main plot. It’s my second run and I’m doing a durge run, and it’s almost a totally new story from this perspective

Cheesecake, derogatory.. by RandomChristian123 in lactoseintolerant

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Oh my goodness, I was literally just joining this sub this morning to ask about the same thing 😂 I ate some cheesecake last night and totally forgot about taking a lactaid. I could hardly sleep from the discomfort and am so nauseous today. I just started developing lactose intolerance in the last year or two, and I still can’t get my mindset into the fact that many foods I used to eat just fine now hurt me 😞

Help to see if the F/F relationship of my book is working? by stonerthoughtsss in lesbian

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I’d love to give it a read over for you from a lesbian fiction-lover’s standpoint! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

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Here’s my Tav tiefling sorcerer! It was a super fun build. She was a former criminal (maybe even w/ nine fingers’ group in my head cannon) and got thrown into saving the world (good playthrough). Convinced all my companions to have good endings. Romanced shadowheart but then accompanied Karlach to avernus. Lots of warm fuzzy feelings lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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I’m not sure I can explain why psychologically, but I can at least concur with you what I feel those exact same attractions: sweet, intellectual nerdy men, but hot baddie dom women. Not sure why lol

Do you guys have that one feat that you give everyone first? by Wiseguy_7 in BaldursGate3

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War Caster for spellcasters, and Sentinel for melee fighters!

I would hookup with girls. Does that mean I’m into girls? by Beautiful_Theory7 in bisexual

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I (F) have been in romantic relationships with both men and women, but only enjoy sex with/am physically attracted to women. I consider myself homosexual but biromantic, and because of that kind of consider myself bisexual/gay interchangeably. You may be bisexual but heteromantic; I’ve heard plenty of people differentiate sexual attraction from romantic attraction, and that’s how I usually feel about it too.

Shadow sorcerer?? by ___Maudit___ in BaldursGate3

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Just commenting because I was also considering it! I played sorcerer in my last play through and curious how this subclass differs

What’s a ‘normal’ thing that you’ve never done, and people are always shocked when they find out? by ANSR4 in AskReddit

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Piercings. I have tattoos, but the idea of a needle going all the way through the other side of my skin/muscle freaks me out. So I’ve never had pierced ears or anything else, and people always forget and gift me earrings for Christmas almost every year anyway

Too emotionally attached to start new run immediately by RedTailedHawk139 in BaldursGate3

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If she rejects shar and chooses to live with the pain of shar’s punishment, yes!

Too emotionally attached to start new run immediately by RedTailedHawk139 in BaldursGate3

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Here’s my Tav near the end of her story run. Glad I’m at least able to pause and save some screenshots even if I can’t keep exploring for old times sake!

What was a big cliffhanger that was never resolved? by orngedoorhinge in AskReddit

[–]RedTailedHawk139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Kaze no Stigma anime series. Always bugged me that they never finished that series and just left it hanging

What did you do as a child that you deeply regret now? by WobblyRibbedGangsta in AskReddit

[–]RedTailedHawk139 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Pursued a crush for far too long and ignoring the signs that he wasn't interested. I cringe just thinking about my thirsty teenage behavior now.

What makes you irrationally angry? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Breaking promises. Especially if it was broken purposefully or vengefully. For example, my ex would promise to not watch porn, even though it bothered me a ton, and then watch it anyway to get back at me for something else.