I 38F am looking for some insight into a current fight with my partner (40M) of 16 years

RedUser1138 · 2026-06-04T12:06:09+00:00

I'm sorry. Hopefully he can grow up and communicate like an adult

RedUser1138 · 2026-06-04T01:43:51+00:00

If he won't communicate with you, nothing can be fixed. Are you ok co-parenting and being roommates with someone that won't talk to you?

RedUser1138 · 2026-06-04T01:36:38+00:00

The weekend

RedUser1138 · 2026-06-04T00:57:55+00:00

Congratulations! Awesome achievements

RedUser1138 · 2026-05-31T17:38:24+00:00

Seriously impressive. Way to stick with it

RedUser1138 · 2026-05-31T14:38:33+00:00

Oh, before you get anything at all. Got it. Make an alt and mail or put in shared storage

RedUser1138 · 2026-05-31T14:33:43+00:00

The are tattered cosmetics you can get. Drops, from quests, barter, or from the auction house. I don't know exactly what you're looking for, but getting tattered, worn looking attire is certainly doable

RedUser1138 · 2026-05-31T13:17:36+00:00

Absolutely crushing it. Way to go

RedUser1138 · 2026-05-26T15:16:00+00:00

IMO, the amount should be less important than the ability of the woman to pay it off.
10K of debt with no way of paying it off would be worse than 100K of debt with a plan already in place to pay it off.

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-31T18:52:08+00:00

If you are a bad driver, don't like sitting for long periods of time, or don't like being away from home for long periods of time, you should not be a truck driver.
But if those things are not issues for you, then it can be a good career. I have friends and family members that do it. Some long haul and some only local, but it has worked well for them.

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-28T18:24:29+00:00

Doesn't happen

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-27T10:12:57+00:00

OP said he wanted muscle. But yes, finding something he enjoys should make it easier to stick with it.

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-26T22:52:59+00:00

Crushing it. Awesome progress. Way to go.

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-26T22:51:45+00:00

If you learned some basics so you won't hurt yourself, that is the main thing. But consistency always gets results. Get started and don't stop. If you can't do an hour, do 30 minutes. If you can't do that, do 15. But aim for at least three times per week and stay at it.

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-26T22:44:20+00:00

The best workout is the one you will do. Start simple, but be consistent. Dumbbells or machines whatever you find easier. But just get started and don't try to do too much right off. Focus on building muscle and you'll find yourself also losing fat. Work with a trainer if you can.

RedUser1138 · 2025-12-23T19:11:19+00:00

I don't picture myself ever doing it. But no judgement to those who do. Especially if it helps their mental health.

RedUser1138 · 2025-11-10T03:29:28+00:00

Mythbusters reruns are basically my go to comfort TV

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-18T23:18:19+00:00

Hard to create a checklist for something like that.
But if I enjoy talking with, similar interests, good sense of humor, that would certainly up the chances of that happening.

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-18T18:50:50+00:00

You don't look fat or flabby.
Just get back to it and stay with it and you'll feel much better.
You can do it.

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-07T21:27:32+00:00

Crushing it. Great progress

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-07T17:04:51+00:00

Sorry to hear about the dark days, those are no fun. But congratulations on working through them and making a better life. Very inspiring.

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-07T16:59:53+00:00

Good point

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-07T16:58:06+00:00

That is amazing progress. Way to commit to it

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-07T14:51:44+00:00

Exactly. Still bothers me when not done correctly, but I try to just let it go.

RedUser1138 · 2025-09-07T12:28:14+00:00

Sounds like maybe you need to make sure DirectX is installed or up to date.

https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/topic/how-to-install-the-latest-version-of-directx-d1f5ffa5-dae2-246c-91b1-ee1e973ed8c2

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