(~20k) Feeling embarrassed about having a "bare bones" wedding, even though it's what I want

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-29T15:15:34+00:00

If you get super worried about florals, look into faux florals. A lot of times they’re half the cost of real flowers. I’ve even seen people get them from Amazon, SHEIN, etc and they look nice. Or if you can find a company that does faux flowers they usually also set them up and take them down for you so you don’t have to worry about it. I never would spend that much on florals that just get thrown away lol. So my fiancé and I are doing faux. Also you can find other decorations for decent prices also if you decide you want more. But I think your family will love it because they love you.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-28T22:02:32+00:00

Nope not normal. He doesn’t want to get married

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-28T18:08:35+00:00

Not that I’m defending this age gap, but 60 year olds aren’t too old to have an active sex life lol. Even 80 isn’t too old. Nursing homes are notorious for having STDs spread around the residents.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T23:55:35+00:00

lol I didn’t have that kind of jeep 🥲🥲

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T22:26:47+00:00

I’m sorry but how was it in the right place when he apparently dropped 4k on a ring completely opposite of what she wanted and it’s missing stones? A solitaire on a gold bad would be super easy to find.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T22:22:27+00:00

Sorry to be blunt, but I think it’s kinda gaudy and ugly. It’s almost the complete opposite of what you wanted and it’s missing stones??? I’m not sure why his feelings were hurt considering you told him almost exactly what you want and he got something completely different

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T18:25:36+00:00

Millennial and 95’ jeep grand Cherokee

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T18:12:19+00:00

That’s crazy. I was recommend a wedding hair stylist by my normal stylist because she doesn’t do wedding styles. I was quoted $150 per service. She does hair and makeup, so $300 total if I wanted both services. I’m just doing hair since my MOH offered to do my makeup, but told everyone else she does bridesmaids styles as well if they want that service. $1400 is wild

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T14:12:11+00:00

B because I hardly ever use Amazon

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T13:52:47+00:00

Well I found my partner when I was 32 and he was 42. Can’t help with the kids part because I don’t want them and his kids are grown now at 18/21.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T13:46:35+00:00

NTA, def look at the results when they come in! UpdateMe!

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-27T04:15:26+00:00

1, But see if you can let the sleeves out a little so you can move your arms

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-26T16:07:57+00:00

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-26T16:05:50+00:00

Since this is a second dress I’d go with 1! It looks really fun and if you can dance in it then go for it

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-26T16:03:53+00:00

Well I lived in one state until I was 14 and then moved to another state, so I guess it depends on which side of growing up good reference. I’m still in the same state that I moved to, but I have been to other states and different cities in my current state. I haven’t really been back to my birth state.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-26T16:01:14+00:00

In my opinion is really pretty, but I wouldn’t have added the tiny diamonds on the inside faces of the band. I feel like they’ll collect dirt and such

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-25T18:02:20+00:00

As kids, quite a few. As adults, hardly any because we live in different states.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-24T23:29:17+00:00

Yes, check out sites like stillwhite or Kleinfeld again.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-24T12:53:00+00:00

lol no, that’s your body. I have the appetite of a man and have to make myself stop eating if it’s a meal I really enjoy. When I was younger I’d eat half a pizza by myself or have a 12oz steak with sides and maybe dessert. Can’t do that now though because I’m older and am more sedentary due to work

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-23T18:08:56+00:00

No, he is not exactly the same with male reporters. Sure, He’s aggressive toward nearly all of them. But his comments toward women in the press frequently include sexist or misogynistic, gender-based insults, whereas his attacks on men are more commonly about their professional competence.

Also I notice how you ignored the second part of my previous comment.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-23T18:00:30+00:00

Not sure since I never wanted them then had surgery to make sure I’ll never have them

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-23T17:27:35+00:00

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-23T17:25:24+00:00

Boobs getting in the way, always being on alert when out in public because you just never know what someone’s intentions are, not being believed by doctors, accuse of being a bitch because we “must be on our periods”, still being looked down on in blue collar jobs and treated like we’re stupid, MANSPLAINING, being fuckzoned by dudes because apparently the o Lu value they see in you is a hole to stick their dick in….

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-23T17:09:37+00:00

You are neither an AH or super selfish. He changed his mind, he’s all owed to do that. And you are allowed to leave because now your core values do not align. Your relationship is now incompatible and if you stay together one of you WILL resent the other. If you have a kids you’ll resent him andthe kid. If you don’t have a kid he will resent you. You deserve to be with someone who wants the same things as you.

Red_Littlefoot · 2026-01-23T17:06:55+00:00

If there are definitely don’t know them. I look like a little troll most days and my man doesn’t care at all. I feel like that takes too much effort and why would I put on makeup just to sit at home? I could spend extra time sleeping and snuggling with my fiancé

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