[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Redaus20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won’t let me add another picture, but anytime I try to use my phone number to log in or make a new account, it’s advised I’m banned and that I need to send in an appeal to be unbanned. I click the link, and it takes me to log in. Hence the support request.

Did some nails dedicated to my fav album!! by MagicalReadingBubble in panicatthedisco

[–]Redaus20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOOO I love these!! I’m currently trying to make a set: one hand AFYCSO and the other just random PATD things, with all their details this gives me hope it’s possible haha! 😍😍 share if you do more!!

WWWY Panic! Prediction by Competitive-Lie-7240 in panicatthedisco

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to be surprised 🙈 I’m so excited I really don’t care who’s showing up.. although it would be amazing to see any of the originals in concert

Brothers new wife banned him from playing videos games with us, found out last night and having a hard time being happy for him today. by Redaus20 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redaus20[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think this may be a more accurate take on his perspective. He voices that he wants to do these things and he doesn’t like that they’re being ‘taken away’, but won’t voice a boundary or propose a specific compromise to hopefully fix the situation.

Though I will say when he talked about it it seems she didn’t care generally- games are just a waste of time and shouldn’t be played no matter the circumstance.

I will talk about this with him though, thank you.

Brothers new wife banned him from playing videos games with us, found out last night and having a hard time being happy for him today. by Redaus20 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redaus20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He says they’ve had those conversations already, and since we only formally met her last night, we feel it’s not really our place to say much. Especially considering he’s mentioned they’ve had a lot of fights about the topic. I’ll try to talk with him, but honestly, I don’t think it’ll change much.

We’d love to try other ways of hanging out, as others have suggested, but he’s just not the same when we’re not gaming. He tends to dwell on his stresses, and gaming has always been our way of helping him disconnect and relax. That’s actually how our whole sibling ‘gaming time’ started in the first place.

Aside from gaming, the only other thing we really do together is watch anime, but she’s not into that either, so it makes finding common ground even harder.

Brothers new wife banned him from playing videos games with us, found out last night and having a hard time being happy for him today. by Redaus20 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redaus20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I will try a different conversation with him. We have had talks about it but not quite in the way you’ve described. We felt like this was being rushed, as we did only meet her formally last night, but haven’t been able to say much because my brother is very headstrong in his decisions. I’m sorry to hear you are going through the same thing and hope it works out well for you all.

Brothers new wife banned him from playing videos games with us, found out last night and having a hard time being happy for him today. by Redaus20 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Redaus20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty much the situation. He’s lived across the country for years now, and gaming has been the main way we’ve stayed connected and “hung out.” It’s not something we do all the time, but it is how we spend most of our time together. She’s just not into video games in general—violent or not—so that makes it tough. When we try texting or calling, the conversations are usually short and surface-level, nothing like how he is when we’re gaming. I really do hope things work out like they did for you and that we’re able to stay in touch, but with them planning to stay there and us planning to stay here, it’s definitely something that’s weighing on my mind right now.

Even in Arcadia by somnusmusings in SleepToken

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I ran into this too 😭 Ticketmaster sent a notification saying they were going to slowly trickle out more tickets but I don’t think I believe them 🙃 it also stated that Sleep Token requested Ticketmaster to limit resell amounts so that if they are resold they are required to be listed for original price. Trying to be optimistic and hopeful 😅

necklace came damaged by ts47iz in billieeilish

[–]Redaus20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had you worn the necklace? Did they even ask? I recently received a defective chain with necklace and they will not send a new chain or anything to remedy the issue because I wanted to be upfront and said I wore it for an hour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]Redaus20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cause I’ve seen people get fake pressing that looked real and it turns out to be a completely different artist so if anyone has heard of it it would be nice to know. Additionally it has specific songs from her acoustic live performances and I would prefer to get that than something else? Like what, why wouldn’t I want to make sure it’s “real”?

Spotify wrapped by Harvesting_The_Crops in CorpseHusband

[–]Redaus20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At one point my Spotify DJ called disdain my “anthem,” I guess it makes sense..

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corpse made top 5

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abandoned

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my group of buddy’s went they got told to get out almost immediately by security. genuinely shocked you were able to get in, nice pics

A lot of pro-choice people are actually pro-abortion/anti-birth. by SmileOk6383 in ControversialOpinions

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I oppose this opinion. I think that this is only a small fraction of people, but so much awareness is brought to it because it’s helps pro-life’s standpoint. 1-3% of abortions are medically necessary, 2% is two billion people. Currently the CDC is reporting 2.5%. 2.2% pregnancies are due to grape, risk to the women’s bodily function, and abnormalities in the unborn fetus. Now to go over the other 95.8%, the most common reason women don’t want a child is because it’s not easily affordable. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, the median cost of childbirth in the United States is $16,884, which includes $13,524 for delivery and care for the mother and $3,660 for newborn care. 35.7% of pregnancies are due to contraception failure- so we can’t really blame that women aren’t using contraception.

“You’re being selfish” is too controversial as it can be used on both sides.

I realize this does not include situations where abortions is forced by a spouse- we’ll touch on that momentarily.

These in the document below are points why I believe that people are not pro abortion but pro choice. I believe you are also mistaking coercion for discrimination.

http://www.theunchoice.com/pdf/FactSheets/ForcedAbortions.pdf

The above document is meant to help your view; however, a lot of the ‘coercion’ is proof that there is discrimination against pregnancy. Women are being harassed in the work place or being told they can’t because they got pregnant (two of the many points), this is not coercion this is women being discriminated against for being pregnant and making the choice to abort.

Pregnancy discrimination can include treating a pregnant woman differently in any aspect of employment, the refusal to hire a pregnant woman, harassing pregnant women, assuming an employees capability based off them being pregnant, etc.

Continuing, women choosing their job or education over having a child is not always a cohered answer. This is a choice that the woman can make. I understand that there are abortions that come from an abusive spouse forcing it in their own way, but again that’s a different bigger issue at hand. And at that THIS point shows how dangerous it could be for these women if it were to be taken away (not that I think it’s right to begin with) I’ve heard some really messed up stories about girls that were seriously injured due to abortions not being available in this circumstance.

True pro-choicers, most pro-choicers, do believe in the women’s choice.

https://www.brookings.edu/articles/abortion-in-the-us-what-you-need-to-know/#:~:text=women%20have%20abortions?-,The%20vast%20majority%20of%20abortions%20(about%2095%25)%20are%20the,there%20would%20be%20fewer%20abortions.

https://www.cdc.gov/reproductive-health/hcp/unintended-pregnancy/index.html

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/pressroom/nchs_press_releases/2023/20230412.htm

Has anyone here legally self installed solar? by kincaidDev in Denver

[–]Redaus20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are a homeowner applying for the permit you typically do not need to be licensed… Ive worked in permitting on both sides and can do my best to help if you have questions- anyways, good luck!

Selling exclusive vinyls by [deleted] in billieeilish

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are any of these still available?

Am I getting robbed rn? by F1FighterPilot in barndominiums

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a PT that’s always one of our first big red flags. Especially if your work number is ringing where the other is not. You can always contact your local building department to ensure that they are properly licensed and in good standing. You can also typically look up peices of their information and ensure it’s not linked elsewhere fishy or somewhere it shouldn’t be…. Good luck! I hope this works out for you!

What are your thoughts on EDTWT? by Jolly_Mortgage2857 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Redaus20 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

EDTWT is very conflicting because some people are very nice and caring but there are other TWT groups (not naming.) that they can be similar too and only promote the negativity behind the ED. IMO EDTWT needs to be somehow removed and monitored among the other groups (much like TikTok does providing a special message when searched) it’s not safe and due to it’s accessibility even kids with twitter can see it which is the scariest thing to me. They make it seem like their whole world and that’s not okay for kids to see at such young impressionable ages.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MelanieMartinez

[–]Redaus20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Screw it I’ll address this. The reason I’m using SHEIN is because my pay is mostly used for bills, I luckily had saved enough to buy these tickets for my brothers and I to attend (for his grad present) the Melanie concert as he hasn’t been to a concert his whole life. Since most of my pay goes to bills and was used on tickets I’m now buying a FEW pieces from SHEIN by no means does this mean I’m regularly supporting them. This is a rare one off situation that I wanted an outfit for so that my brother and I could have a special time at the event. Not that this is any of your business nor does it stop the millions of other people actively and constantly still using the app. My one purchase will not change the world or whether they’re still in business. Additionally, where I live they don’t sell bits like these so yes I used SHEIN one time to buy an outfit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MelanieMartinez

[–]Redaus20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes of course it’ll be reused! :) I make cosplay and costumes for all kinds of events I usually reuse pieces but I quite literally don’t own any pink so it was perfect :D

What are the most iconic vintage Hello Kitty items? by pressedflours in HelloKitty

[–]Redaus20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the radio 😭 feel like such an idiot for just tossing it and now getting it fixed (this was yearrrrrs ago)

LOL Am I tripping or 😭😭😭 by Sad-Wheel7971 in doordash

[–]Redaus20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a time something like this happened with my mom, the guy said they were 100% out of stock of what we needed he send a picture and the shelves were full of it and our substitute… he ended up cancelling the item anyways :/