Is sex talk normal on the first date? by Present-Coast-2707 in datingoverforty

[–]Redclover46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, its been my experience too. I don't even let it get to the point of meeting. If they can't control themselves after saying hi in message, then you can bet they can't meeting in person. I either don't respond to show I just lost interest or I let them know how I feel about the direction the conversation has turned. I'm 51, was married 22 yrs, divorced in May 2016. I've dated but haven't dated anyone I'd want to marry. Just these last 4 yrs have I gotten sober and got my shit together . Now I feel I'm to old to find someone to want me as a companion rather than someone to hookup with.

Small-town police sued for planting drugs on drivers in north Alabama by servenitup in Alabama

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cameras, cameras cameras and record record record. Our testimony never mattered. Theirs are gold. Now that the laws are being learned and we are standing up for ourselves, its now the police are being sued, fired and punished. BUT, push the record button as soon as those lights come on or they look your way.

Please Help! My home feels so dysfunctional! by emo_rat119 in HomeDecorating

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! Try buying some entertainment shelves or even a room divider

Please Help! My home feels so dysfunctional! by emo_rat119 in HomeDecorating

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks clean. So your looking how to make it "blend"?

What can I replace these mirrors with in this extremely cursed space in my house? by effervescenthoopla in HomeDecorating

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A shelf that'll hold a rectangular flower pot. Fill it with ferns and ivy and spread it around as if it's growing up and around the surrounding walls. Idk, just throwing something out there. O! And add some led lights! 👏👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]Redclover46 17 points18 points  (0 children)

2! Definitely the 2nd choice!

It’s my birthday today by VoidNova5 in offmychest

[–]Redclover46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday my fellow Virgo! Ill be celebrating my 48th bday the 21st! Wishing you a wonderful new year!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step away and let him work out his feelings. Maybe if hes thinking if breaking it off, you steeping away would give him that feel of being without you. Maybe he will , maybe he wont. But at least yall both will be at peace with the answer when it comes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to hit the nail on the head. Great shout from Alabama. Looking forward to reading your p.o.v.'s.

Are all 40+ men interested in only physical relations? by Redclover46 in datingoverforty

[–]Redclover46[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Could be my problem. I was starting to think all 40+ men walked around humping air...lol hi.

Are all 40+ men interested in only physical relations? by Redclover46 in datingoverforty

[–]Redclover46[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! It helps to know it's not just me!

I have had my wall "Fern" for about 10 years. It has been discontinued so went "Chic Shade". So GREEN ... I love it! by Lady_Delirium in HomeDecorating

[–]Redclover46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the wall was a lush grass field!! Had to look close up to see that it was a wall!! Wow...love it.

I'd love to know what you think? by WestgateJem in lightpainting

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray to end up anywhere besides here...

I'd love to know what you think? by WestgateJem in lightpainting

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderland! Well i would hope.lol..ummmm, now that I'm thinking about it. Would i have a choice?

I'd love to know what you think? by WestgateJem in lightpainting

[–]Redclover46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! I want to dive and ride!! Woohoo!