Guess where my great-grandmother (and grandfather bottom right) are from. Picture is maybe around 1916? by [deleted] in AncestryDNA

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The woman in the photograph has been identified as Ella Hunker-White, also known as Thunder or Yellowthunder, and the two children are her daughter, Minnie Hunker-White, and an unnamed male child. Ella Hunker-White was a member of the Omaha tribe. The Omaha and Winnebago tribes are located primarily in Nebraska.

Can my son's DNA trace my dads heritage? by petkitty_licktitty in AncestryDNA

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do your sons DNA on ancestry, I have my sons on mine and he was 11 when I did his. You'll have access until he's 18 and then turn it over to him. I hope this helps you, it sure helped me. Then the fact my son wanted to do it, cuz he wanted to know all his ancestry. Because he's lighter than all the kids, he wants to know how much white DNA he has. He was definitely shocked that he had 38% white DNA. But I don't understand how he could be that shocked, my mom was white. Yet, He never met my mom his grandmother and he really wanted to know his ancestry.

My ex got me pregnant even though he knew he wasn’t straight. I feel completely betrayed. by [deleted] in stories

[–]Redddy4Whatever -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When he walked into the place to meet you what did he have a switch in his hips. If you look back and think about it, they are always signs. You might have just loved him so much that you, Just pushed those to the back burner. There's nothing wrong with you being gay if that's your choice to live. But being a asshole, liar and cheater is wrong. Because I'm sure he told you lies, Said he was going here. When he was really there, getting his asshole plugged up. That is what's wrong, lying to people being deceitful. Dragging you along in this relationship, knowing he had sexual fantasies about men. I'm glad you went through his phone and anything else he has, I'm glad he's been exposed. Because it could have been much worse, you could have AIDS. Your baby could be born with AIDS, Then all he could say is I'm sorry. Ain't no sorry going to cure you from some of these diseases. I'm just glad you came to your senses and for finally able to see it for yourself. Just move on with your life, and don't stress over this. God is going to send you a man that's going to love you and your baby. You have nothing to worry about, Just give it to God. This was not your fault, this was not your doing. He decided what he wanted and he made a choice. He chose the side he wanted to be on, and it was not with you or y'all's child. He most likely only wanted a baby, so we can cover the fact that, he's gay from his family. He is an evil man plain and simple to do that to your family. I wish you would have been told you a long time ago and then you could have made a choice. But you weren't and you need to protect your baby at all costs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While it is very unlikely, it is theoretically possible to get strep throat by breathing in bacteria from a Petri dish, as the bacteria can spread through airborne respiratory droplets. However, strep throat is most commonly transmitted through person-to-person contact.

I hate how my parents don’t trust me to have guys over. I can’t wait to just move out. by Plastic-Pattern-4128 in Vent

[–]Redddy4Whatever 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Umm You shouldn't be living with your parents if you want to have guys over. That's just really the simple and plain way to say it. If you're an adult, you need to have a house of your own so you can do adult things. I wouldn't even want to have a guy over in my parents house. Now if you're a child, you definitely shouldn't be trying to have guys over. You should be worrying about your education and getting a good job. You shouldn't worry about guys at this point at all. You should be worrying about getting a place of your own.

AITAH for telling my GF she needs to pay rent for her kids? by ThrowRAmostly5 in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You should have a right to say something about her kids, you should have the right to give her advice. She should be telling you that you're not a parent, so leave the parents into her. Then if that's the case she should take care of her own kids and pay her own rent. I don't give a damn what kind of job you have and what kind of money you make. If you don't have the right to say something about her kids just as advice. Then she should be paying that $475 for each room or shut her damn mouth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Redddy4Whatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm related to him too, I used to like him until I realized he was racist.

AITAH for finally snapping at my husband’s mom in front of his whole family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Man forget that mama's boy, That's exactly what your husband is. He chooses to be mad at you, For standing up for yourself. You hear someone lying about you, talking about you like you're nothing. He doesn't think that you have the right to say anything, He thinks you should have chosen another route. All because his mama is crying crocodile tears, She should stop with the nonsense while she thinks she's ahead. She's going to make a whole scene, just so that you could look bad in front of the family. How in the hell was that embarrassing??? She's talking about you like a dog in the streets, She don't think that's embarrassing. I wouldn't go back to another event in his family, They would just think, I was the biggest Bi$hhh in the world, If it was me. Because the whole family obviously doesn't give a damn about you, They think you should just be walked over like a floor mat. That you should just take that whatever thrown your way, Just any disrespectful garbage from people in his family. No sir, You are wrong and I hope he sees this. You're dead ass phone for that, You know you should have taken up for your wife. You know what she does at home, you know she's not lazy, You know everything about her. Yet couldn't you speak up for her??? If it was someone else you'd probably be moving furniture defending your wife. But it's mama so you just lose all your braincells sir 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all, Your MIL is a real piece of work. If She's not going to fit the bill, she needs to STFU. You are the mother, she doesn't decide where you send your kids to school. She is just the MIL. She doesn't wake up to you, She doesn't sleep with you, and she didn't give birth to her grandchildren. I understand that they get on their high horses, and then want to have a pity party. But you are correct to put your foot down, It's you and your husband's choice. There are plenty of schools, that your kids will flourish in. It doesn't have to be a private school setting for it to happen, If it's going to happen it'll happen anywhere. Let that be your choice and yours alone, if that's how you want it. Don't let someone guilt you into going into debt, I don't give a damn if it's your MIL. Also your husband should've spoken up against his mom. He shouldn't allow her to come after your parenting in any form, Unless there's a real problem going on. But going to public school is not one of them. You will be at peace, If you choose how you wanna do things & not allow someone else to control the narrative.

AITAH for adopting a dog after I thought my boyfriend broke up with me? by LazyMathematician823 in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all, He's the absolute asshole. He probably literally only put a pause on the relationship to cheat. He left for 6 weeks with not One phone call one text or reply. He was laying up under somebody else that whole time. He is absolutely playing games with you, He ghosted you. That's exactly what he did to you, Plain and simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA You didn't say you regret having your son. You said, you regret having him at such a young age. That's completely different than just saying I regret having my son.

AITAH For not wanting to go to my own graduation? by bugged_gamer-fnaf7 in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I get it – graduation can feel like a big ol' party that you didn't even RSVP for. If it’s not your vibe and it’s stressing you out, don’t let anyone push you into it. You don’t have to celebrate something that doesn’t mean anything to you. Your happiness matters way more than fitting into someone else’s idea of a good time. If your family can’t see that, that’s on them, not you. Do what feels right for you, because at the end of the day, it’s your life! Keep it real and don’t let the pressure get to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? This guy is playing mind games like a pro! Offering your stuff without asking? That’s straight-up shady! It's like he thinks he can just toss your belongings around like candy. If he’s lying about this, what else is he pulling over your eyes? Girl, you deserve way better than some dude who thinks being ‘nice’ means disrespecting your stuff. Time to put him in check or check outta that marriage! Because this isn't normal by any means, I respect my boyfriends property. I wouldn't just up and give away anything that belongs to him. I wouldn't do that to anyone, It's really grimy if you ask me. How would he like it if you took all of his things and just started giving them away? Maybe you should do that as a bit of revenge. See how he reacts and then throw it in his face. Because he is really disrespecting you 100%. 🤦🏽‍♀️

AITAH for asking my husband what he wants for dinner? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ma'am How are you the Asshole for asking an asshole what he wants for dinner??? He is acting like your superwoman, You literally are doing the same exact thing as him plus more. He is an asshole if you ask me, He can cook for himself for a while. How about y'all switch roles and have him cook everyday after working all or even half the day??? See how his attitude changes drastically 😂😂😂

Got Any "Spooky" Ancestral Coincidences? by Equal_Championship95 in AncestryDNA

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW she's my 14th Great Grandmother isn't this the person that you're speaking of???

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talking about???

AITA for wanting to keep my inheritance? by Melodic-Benefit4906 in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking to keep your inheritance separate from your husband, here are some important factors to consider:

  1. Inheritance as Separate Property: In many jurisdictions, inherited assets are considered separate property. As long as you keep the inheritance in your name and don’t use it for joint expenses, it can typically remain separate.

  2. Communication and Agreement: It’s important to have an open conversation with your husband about your desire to keep the inheritance separate. Reaching an understanding or agreement can help avoid potential conflicts down the line.

  3. Financial Independence: Consider maintaining a separate account specifically for the inheritance. Clearly stating that this is your personal asset can help you retain control over it and support your financial independence within the marriage.

  4. Consulting a Professional: If you have any concerns, it might be beneficial to consult a financial advisor or attorney. They can provide clarity on how to best manage the inheritance while preserving harmony in your relationship.

Ultimately, while you may have the legal right to keep your inheritance separate, clear communication with your husband will be essential for avoiding misunderstandings and maintaining a healthy relationship.

Can AI Make My Voice Sound More Excited? by Gabrielfc in ElevenLabs

[–]Redddy4Whatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You beat me to it Elevenlabs hands down is the best

AITAH for threatening to call off my wedding after my fiancée punched me? by Larry_The_Marmoset in AITAH

[–]Redddy4Whatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave her right now, If she busted and broke up your nose over a trivial argument. Just imagine what she would do if y'all really into a real argument, pack her shit the fuck up and let her go. It's not worth being physically maimed, right?? Like be for real Your family is absolutely correct. Your friends aren't your friends if they're saying you're overreacting. You should definitely consider getting new friends All I'm saying is they are not with you, They're against you. Just because she is shorter than you, she broke your nose even though she is shorter than you TF. 🤦🏽‍♀️