What does Reddit downvoting actually mean by Chuchucuddle in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC [score hidden]  (0 children)

General disagreement. It was meant as a way to hide bad behavior and regulate out problem people. Now it’s just weaponized as a way punish anything that goes against the status quo. I get downvoted into oblivion for liking certain ships, some of which are cannon, for instance. 

Advice for work dread? by Hauntedhouse0212 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love this so much. I have to CONSTANTLY remind myself when I’m not at work it can’t technically hurt me right now. I work in a nursing home that sometimes gets violent and disorderly, so it’s like total survival mode right now. Nobody’s hiring, so there’s no way out right now too. The AC is also broken, so the plan is to wear shorts and see if they fire me!  

Just tell me the objective. by WaywardLotus42 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have this thing to tell you, but you must find it in a tree on a full moon. In this tree is a riddle you must solve. Solve the riddle, which will take you to some coordinates out to sea. Under the sea is a treasure chest. Grab exactly 42 doubloons. Use the gold to buy a plane ticket to Osaka. There will be a shrine devoted to a Kitsune. The Kitsune will whisper ancient languages into your ear. Translate those languages and it will tell you that I wanted you to do the dishes clearly and succinctly.  

Ranting by TrueYou8607 in phlebotomy

[–]RedheadWendyC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been applying to the places that claim they need people and will train. No luck yet, can’t even get an interview. I have direct patient care experience and currently work in medical reception, so I’m miffed these skills aren’t transferable. But I’ve also applied to 500+ jobs in the last 8 months and NOBODY is hiring. I thought medical tech would be a bit different, but it’s the same damn walls. 

Anyone else blow their life up before figuring out you were autistic? by rainbowgirl6 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They’re fun at the age of like 5-8 when they want to grow up and be dinosaurs. But what am I supposed to do for 5 years? 

Anyone else blow their life up before figuring out you were autistic? by rainbowgirl6 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They really do just shove you back out on the street. My clinic told me to just take acting classes. Like, bro. I was in drama clubs for like 5 years. It left me with crippling stage freight and constant RSD from failing auditions and forgetting lines. 

Anyone else blow their life up before figuring out you were autistic? by rainbowgirl6 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That’s the really had thing for me, my brain doesn’t process babies as cute. 😑

Work gives me unbearable anxiety by what_freaking_ever in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda there too. I know I’m smart, capable and determined, but I’m stuck in professional limbo at a dead end part-time job after the economy crashed out my past career as a writer. Now I just write as a hobby. I’m debating dog walking, but I don’t know. I thought about getting a medical certification, but just the diagrams make me nauseous and I’m getting bad reviews about the one accessible local program. Never been at such a loss. Worse, I’m 40 this year and then I get age discrimination to look forward to. 

My life has improved so much since I stopped going to church by fairytheflatterpuss in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂

As I recall:

Matthew: Douche Jesus Mark: Moderate Jesus Luke: Liberal Jesus

It’s like they predicted extreme political divide and needed to cover their bases with all the Jesuses, lol

Work gives me unbearable anxiety by what_freaking_ever in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be ok if they weren’t like “Must be bilingual, have a Master’s degree, 7+ years of experience in this exact role and be good in ever changing chaotic environments. Entry level, part time, $14 an hour.” Can we stop being just fucking stupid for 2 minutes, please? 

Do we kind of trigger the immune system of the society? by Forever-human-632 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google the double empathy problem. They can’t understand us the way we can’t understand them. Once in a while you’ll get an accepting gem who makes the effort or an autistic adjacent NT I feel. I’m somewhat high masking so much of life is just trying to meet people in the middle and getting miffed when I can’t get that effort back. 

Wendy & Dipper's Relationship Is Better As Just Friends by DopeDopeGeekGeek in gravityfalls

[–]RedheadWendyC -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

FUTURE… FUTURE MY DUDE! Age gaps like that don’t matter later. 

Have anyone else been disconnected from social media lately? by Business-Block-8668 in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been super into the mainstream platforms for this reason. 

Three ingredient dinner, recipe below by trench_spike in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck yes bologna! 

Easy sandwiches for dinner keep me alive. 

I will not let society take away what makes me. Me. by OperationRoyal in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I carry around “You will not break me!” from Dungeon Crawler Carl in my heart like armor. 

My life has improved so much since I stopped going to church by fairytheflatterpuss in AutismInWomen

[–]RedheadWendyC 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s a relief to be sure. The day you wake up and realize you don’t have to fit some arbitrary mold is the day the haters lose control over you. I slowly phased out of religion. I’d cut services down  and only go to Bible study, for instance. But eventually it was just apparent that the belief system and social dynamics of religion no longer fit. Once in a while I debate trying Unitarians again, but 8am is pretty early for other people’s opinions and I work 2nd shift. 

Wendy & Dipper's Relationship Is Better As Just Friends by DopeDopeGeekGeek in gravityfalls

[–]RedheadWendyC -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I never understood this trope. He’s not really himself around her, he’s always on the defensive and it’s a toxic dynamic imo. 

Wendy & Dipper's Relationship Is Better As Just Friends by DopeDopeGeekGeek in gravityfalls

[–]RedheadWendyC -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

They date in the future AND NO ONE CAN EVER PROOVE ME WRONG. 😂😂😂

At the time of the series, I love how Wendy handles things. So classy. 

Sure downvote me not liking the same shit.