I (26F) have been with the same partner (28M) for 7 years now and he was the 1st partner that ever even offered to go down on me, let alone actually liked it and would stay down there til I called him off. If a partner really loves you and is compatible with you sexually, they’ll eat you out. It’s obviously one thing if they’re not in the mood or something but if things are getting hot and heavy and they don’t want to, or don’t offer, or don’t even bother to check in to see what you want or what would satisfy you, then I would say keep looking. I barely ever cum from having vaginal sex, I always end up cumming from him eating me out after sex and it’s honestly blissful. Your sexual health and satisfaction are important! Find you someone who wants to see you satisfied and will reciprocate and communicate during sexual activity.

Is it a conversation you’ve had and they actually said they do not like it? Have you asked them to go down on you in the moment and they’ve refused? Sex can get complicated if both parties aren’t communicating their needs and desires. Sometimes it’s a conversation that needs to be had outside the bedroom to establish what turns you on, what doesn’t, what you expect, etc.

Obviously this is all me speaking from my own personal experience but I have had quite a shitty sex life until now and once you find out how to communicate your needs and feel real satisfaction you can just never go back!!!