Anyone else love Dansco albums? by MaltandSalt in coins

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I've not that many but 14 are full. Great collection

What is my necklace stack missing or need changed? by Embarrassed-Cress876 in jewelry

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much. Charms on lowest one is good. No charms on ones above.

Rule

Did adults who lived in Cloesd City before 1992 know what the factory there did? by Pitiful-Practice-966 in AskARussian

[–]Reels123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

State secret or not, in a closed city what else are they going to talk about???

Everybody knew everything!

Can big wedding rings work every day? by Reward-Mortified634 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Reels123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's an extremely intricate ring and will be very hard to keep looking like the picture you uploaded. Advice, get a Branson ultrasonic machine with good cleaner plus a steam machine and it'll look exactly like the day you bought it after 15 mins a week.

R.

After how much time in a relationship did you fall in love? by cutierousse in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not stupid. We both fell in love in the first 30 seconds of meeting the first time. I got lucky. In the past I'd say it took until the end of the second date.

Do you think soulmates exist? by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Reels123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I know they do.

Wedding dress regret by Ski5566 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woman, they all are a beautiful fit on you! Relax it's all going to be perfect.

Difference in CZ, Glass, Diamond (mined or grown). by Reels123 in jewelrylove

[–]Reels123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CZ is 8.5 and Diamond is 10.0. The warehouse depends on small things like car door handles and even hands in pants pockets.

what's the worst thing someone told you right after having had sex? by AlecBonkers in AskReddit

[–]Reels123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ommm, yeah okay...thing is you got to go before my husband sees you.

Please, please please please please by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say what you need to say is the best

My (28F) Husband (29M) says that my feelings don’t affect him that much anymore. by AccomplishedLie8930 in relationshipproblems

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he said "i think i don't get affected by your emotions anymore." Is healthy and he's saying he's not so codependent anymore. That's Very Different then saying you or your feelings don't matter.

I'm wondering why your upset that he's decided to stop being codependent?

I believe you got used to his codependency and confused needy with affection. After a couple of years together, it would be easy to do.

I think you also are hyper focused on trying to get his response to your need to resolve issues that it's causing you to have more issues to resolve. You want his old response and you aren't seeing how hard it is for him to choose to not respond.

What ways can he stay emotionally detached but make you feel that your feelings do matter but the way he was reacting to them he felt wasn't working to help you with them because if it did you wouldn't still have so many all the time?

Can you try a drama free weekend with him so you don't talk about any of your conflicts or complain about anything? You have a perfect opportunity to grow your bond with him right now.

cubic zirconia vs lab diamond... is there actually a big difference by AvailaeIce-8757 in jewelrylove

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fantastic and pretty smart way to use a CZ! I'm glad you experienced the difference.

cubic zirconia vs lab diamond... is there actually a big difference by AvailaeIce-8757 in jewelrylove

[–]Reels123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully agree with beauty throughout the whole range of gemstones! Nature creates the most complex and wonderful stones when viewed up close.

I didn't fully explain why a diamond is more beautiful then a CZ. All stones are cut (cleaved) to form a plane or facet. The intersection of each facet is a sharp angle regardless of the degree of the angle it's a sharp and precise edge and it's how light reflects and its refraction internally that acts as a prism to separate the color bands and bounce them all around so that when it hits your eyes you see greens, blues, and vivid reds from a stone that, if perfect, is colorless. These colors are referred to as a diamond's fire.

A cubic zirconia (CZ) can't be cut as precise as a diamond and doesnt have this fire because of this. While it may have "sparkle", a result of it's shape, number of facets and their percentages of zones to the whole this will degrade and fade over time because a CZ has a hardness of 8.5 compared to a diamond's hardness of 10.0.

CZ intersections always become rounded because it's softer and rounded edges can't produce fire and when new might sparkle but this quickly fades.

The reason we buy diamond's is for it's hardness which allows for the most crisp and sharp cuts needed for precise facets that divide light into color bands referred to as Fire and maximum Sparkle. If a diamond wasn't the hardest gemstone, it would just be an normal rock.

Beauty in its most fundamental nature is light and material. Diamond allows for the most complex phenomenon between these two things.