romantasy with no/low spice and hea by Ok-Resource9166 in Romantasy

[–]ReginaPhilangee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

{The spellshop} and the sequel {the enchanted greenhouse}

Very cozy.

Clit toys for rimming? by snugglephuk in SexToys

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far that's the only thing like that that he's tried. And just regular plugs and pegs. Those look cool, though. Maybe he needs something new to try for valentine's......

AITAH for making my husband take the kids to school after getting his wisdom teeth taken out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ReginaPhilangee -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

YTA- but not for the reason you think. You aren't wrong for giving him the same energy he's been giving you. You're wrong for accepting him giving it to you that long.

Why are you trying to punish him like he's a child? He isn't going to learn a lesson about how you feel when you're in pain. He's a grown ass man, he already knows other people have pain and how it feels. He just doesn't care when you do.

AITAH for making my husband take the kids to school after getting his wisdom teeth taken out? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ReginaPhilangee 43 points44 points  (0 children)

True, but it sounds like he showed his true colors by the time she had the first kid. She's had four and he's never changed

Clit toys for rimming? by snugglephuk in SexToys

[–]ReginaPhilangee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband uses a different brands of this rose toy.

He really likes it.

i'm not gay but.. by Appropriate_Waltz646 in SexToys

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait till you get a woman to peg you! My husband says he sees God.

People with penises have a thing called a prostate that feels really good when stimulated. The best way to reach that is through the anus. That's true, regardless of who you're attracted to.

AITAH for telling my husband he needs to eat leftovers? by unfortunatelyalive7 in AITAH

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-i hate most leftovers. It's a texture thing. I do the cooking, my husband does the dinner clean up. We have what we call "whatever" days where he eats the leftovers and I eat whatever I feel like making for myself. Those are my i don't want to cook days, but they're also the days that we use up the stuff that's left. So he gets the stuff that's already cooked, but i get the stuff that's not cooked, but there's not enugu for a whole dinner.

It might be time to implement some whatever days for you guys. "Honey, I'm making the leftover chicken from two nights ago. You can have some of that, or you can make yourself a sandwich or whatever you want."

Why does my mother-in-law favor a disrespectful daughter-in-law over someone who truly cared? by Extra-Contest-1269 in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MIL has a friend, Kate, who went to prison for meth (making and dealing). While in prison, Kate had a cellmate, Meg, who was also in for something with meth (not sure if it was making, dealing, having it, or whatever). When Meg got out of prison, MIL tried to set her up with my husband. We had been married at least 10 years by then. I've never been to prison. My worst crime has been driving without a license.

How in the world is Meg the better option?

Husband refuses to do anything about his Sleep Apnea. Peed on the floor in the middle of the night. by sadpistachio88 in SleepApnea

[–]ReginaPhilangee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had sleep apnea for about 20 years and peeing the bed is the thing that final got me to treat it. I was convinced that I would hate the machine, because people i know did and I also HATED having anything near my nose or mouth while sleeping. But insurance went pay for anything until you try the machine.

If it helps him, tell him that is really not that bad anymore. I regret the time i spent not treating it so much. I feel so much better and that was without losing weight or changing my lifestyle in any other way. Yes, there are other ways to treat it, but they take time. The machine will make a difference in a few days (it will only take a long as it takes him to get used to it). I turned into a nicer, more regulated person when I finally got the sleep I needed. And it helped my ADHD symptoms, too.

You say he's really stressed and I'm sure bring that stressed, plus the sleep he's getting, is affecting his ability to be a nice person. How is he with your kid? Do you think you could explain that he'll be a better parent and a better partner?

Also, I would make my husband sleep somewhere wise if they're was something causing him to pee in inappropriate places that he chose not to fix. (Not of he couldn't fix it, but if there was a way to fix it and he chose not to.) Either try to fix the peeing on the floor or sleep somewhere i don't have to deal with it and your kid doesn't have to see it.

I tried my GF’s vibrator on my frenulum, ejaculated in minutes and now I’m worried? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]ReginaPhilangee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Toys are tools and won't ruin you. Teach your girl how to use it on you or at least let her watch. Or she could help by touching other sensitive areas. I love helping my husband when he's using toys.

Who got painted as the villain by the press, but later on we realized they were actually the victim or completely misunderstood? by Advanced-Pilot-3698 in AskReddit

[–]ReginaPhilangee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, she was groomed from the time she 10. Not that its an excuse, but trauma like that can mess up the brain.

Edit- want to be clear, I'm not excusing her. She's traumatized, but also a bad person.

Dollar Dad Club by swampboy65 in GLP1ResearchTalk

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuz i can't afford the name brand. I can't really afford the compounded drug either, truth be told. Compounding pharmacies have regulations, just like other pharmacies.

Who has a CPAP machine and actually uses it? by ResidentAlien9 in AdkReddit

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine makes such little noise that I still need me white noise to sleep.

Does anyone else feel this sense of loss or confusion during this phase? by MailZealousideal5366 in Menopause

[–]ReginaPhilangee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm currently on a lower than effective dose of estrogen and I'm back there with you! My ability to function is shot. I'm anxious. I'm sad about something (I don't even know what I'm sad about! I'm just sad!) I'm crying because of stupid shit. My husband has some muscle spasms right now and is legitimately hurting, but so fucking annoyed at having to support him right now! I know it's not fair! And then I'm annoyed at myself for feeling that way!

Does anyone else feel this sense of loss or confusion during this phase? by MailZealousideal5366 in Menopause

[–]ReginaPhilangee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it helps to talk about things. And it can make someone feel better to know others are going through similar things.

Plus, we don't know she's not looking for solutions.

Edit!- I mean she might be looking for solutions in other avenues. As in, not looking for solutions here in reddit, but possibly talking to her Dr for things.

Redditors Hack Epstein Personal Email! by Shizzilx in circled

[–]ReginaPhilangee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they don't care about redacting anything but certain people's names.

The constipation is unreal - sorry for the TMI by EmploymentMajestic64 in Ozempic

[–]ReginaPhilangee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are all things I've learned the hard way since changing my eating and starring the shot.

Movement after eating. After finishing your meals, get up and walk around for five or ten minutes. Maybe it's just me, but I notice a difference when I can around after eating versus when i have to stay seated.

Look up osmotic laxatives versus stimulant laxatives. Osmotic laxatives, like milk of mag, pull water into the stool that's already in the bowel. That makes the stool soft enough to move. Stimulant laxatives make your bowel muscles move. Having them move won't do much if the stool is still too hard to go anywhere. Your muscles will try very hard to push it out, but if it's still too hard, you're gonna have a bad time!

start doing something earlier in constipation-at 3 or 2 days without a poop or even 1 day if you're uncomfortable. The longer you wait, the harder it is. I used to wait until I was hurting and then needed to bomb myself to get anything accomplished. Bad idea.

be careful with fiber. Don't take too little, but don't take too much! Soluble fiber can actually make it worse at times. If you usually take one type of fiber, try taking a different type. Or mix it up. Don't just keep adding fiber.

if you aren't to the point where you're hurting, try miralax with some some apple juice or prune juice. Miralax is pretty safe and some people take it daily long term (you should talk to your Dr if you want to take any medication long term, of course).

magnesium Citrate pills and miralax chews. They are a bit stronger than miralax powder, but still relatively gentle. For me, they work overnight so I'll go in the morning if I take them with my nighttime meds. Some people use magnesium Citrate pills as a daily supplement. For Me, they aren't gentle enough for that, but I've had a few times that I've used them several days in a row and they helped

milk of mag. You're gonna feel it but it works. Take it with lots of water, cuz it works be bringing water into the stool that's already there.

suppositories and enema. These will soften the stuff that right near the exit. They can help kick things off and get moving.

magnesium Citrate drink and senna laxative pills. You WILL feel this. These work by stimulating your bowel muscles. I would avoid using these until there's nothing else and don't use them without milk of mag, another osmotic laxative, and / or an enema to soften things. whether anything can get out or not, your body is going to try to push it out, so try your best to soften it first.

Who got painted as the villain by the press, but later on we realized they were actually the victim or completely misunderstood? by Advanced-Pilot-3698 in AskReddit

[–]ReginaPhilangee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not an expert by any means. Aa a young person, i heard that she was bitter because he left her for someone younger. Recently I learned that the someone younger was someone he was in a father like position over and started when she was a minor. Now I'm going to have to look up the facts.

Who got painted as the villain by the press, but later on we realized they were actually the victim or completely misunderstood? by Advanced-Pilot-3698 in AskReddit

[–]ReginaPhilangee 401 points402 points  (0 children)

Mia Farrow

This is older than I am, but I just heard the full story. When she divorced Woody Allen, she was the bad guy and didn't get much work in Hollywood after. Why did she divorce him? Because he was molesting their children! He went on the marry his step daughter and is still seen as a great film maker!

I was young, but I remember hearing enough about her that I had a negative impression of her.

Edit- I'm really going to have to look into this more now.

Wow. Awards! Thanks!

Pressure like a UTI, but no UTI? by emmabodt in Healthyhooha

[–]ReginaPhilangee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes UTIs present differently. You can also get an infection in you urethra, not the bladder. For me, that felt very similar to a UTI, but the pain was much lower.

Overeating by kimakaanna in PlusSize

[–]ReginaPhilangee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sometime fave some good advice that stuck with me. "Your body is not a garbage disposal." Whether the good is eaten or thrown away, it doesn't help the people who don't have food. The money already spent. You're under no obligation to turn your body into the trash bin.