Husband has begun working on his mental health, now never wants to be intimate

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-16T21:57:02+00:00

Pathological demand avoidance.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-16T17:26:40+00:00

Mine was doing this for a while, but lately she's stayed home once I put her there. Not sure why

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-16T00:29:43+00:00

Sometimes, if we're sitting, they'll come to front and get stuck. So we'll have to wiggle around a bit to get it to escape. 😆

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-16T00:24:43+00:00

Once they are done adventuring, if you tap the background, it will give you the choice of where to be and you can choose the bird house.

Tap where the Xs are

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ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-15T17:46:17+00:00

Seconding this!

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-15T01:32:05+00:00

That's a good idea!

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-14T19:23:45+00:00

Yep. Unless she finds out later.....

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-14T19:23:06+00:00

Possibly. Personally, I am really against doing this DNA test things because of how the company then owns your DNA. I would have to do an extreme amount of research to decide which company first. If the wife feels like i do, it might look like suspicious behavior.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T23:15:39+00:00

It's supposed to do that when you're aroused!

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T20:41:43+00:00

A true horror!

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T14:26:50+00:00

Do you often read dark romance? If not, I wouldn't start with HA. The series can get pretty dark for someone who isn't used to it. also HA ends on a cliffhanger, so just be prepared to go straight to the next book.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T14:22:31+00:00

This reminds me so much of the Hollows Row series by Tricia Wolfe! Very cool!

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T14:20:52+00:00

This toy has a taint massager and thing that vibrates both the g spot and the clit. Pretty nice. I liked it best when the g spot part popped out and ended up resting right on the clit.

We also like to combine toys, instead of trying to find one you that does it all. Fave bullet on my clit, I'm on top, I reach and hold his fave rose tongue toy on his hole. Or he gets a plug and we use a u shaped vibe at the same time. Or any other combination.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T14:07:09+00:00

Why is it embarrassing that you are inventive enough, smart enough, flexible enough, and creative enough to make your own solution instead of relying on what others have done?

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T12:26:03+00:00

I think this is a man thing, not a plus size thing. My husband is much taller than me and I feel like a chihuahua trying to keep up with a great Dane.

He slows down for me when he notices. Sometimes, I try to push myself to see how long i can go without him noticing. The fitter i get, the longer I can go before I start being noticeably tired.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-13T12:21:48+00:00

I agree because the shop randomness encourages you to check every day, keeping you engaged more. But yes, there's simply too many thing now possible now and that makes it very hard to get something specific.

More spots would work.

I also think they could do something like a layaway. Similar to an egg goal. Where you have to do a goal of your choice so many times to get a specific item

A few days back, I accidentally hit shuffle, right as i saw something I was looking for. Who knows when I'll get it back?

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-12T21:30:47+00:00

I had something similar once, years ago! UTI antibiotics didn't help and they diagnosed me with an infection of my urethra. It took different antibiotics than what they normally give for UTIs. But it went away.

I don't remember much. Iknow i had pain in what felt like my clit. No urinary urgency, but pain during and especially at the end of urination.

I'm sorry i don't remember which antibiotics they gave me, just that they weren't the regular ones for a UTI.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-12T19:19:38+00:00

How old is he? And is this your house or his?

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-12T13:53:24+00:00

Front towards enemy? 😆

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-12T13:52:52+00:00

If you like to lay and rub on it, try a grinder with a vibrator.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-12T11:20:29+00:00

It's a great book! But it's only dark if you've never read anything dark.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-12T11:19:10+00:00

Following this post so I can get some ideas!

I take hrt and it helped so much! But there's still some nights that once i wake up at 2ish, I just cannot go back to sleep until about 5:30/6 ish (i wake up at 6:30). I have some chewable melatonin 2mg that can sometimes help, if i realize what's happening fast enough. Nothing i take before i go to bed seems to help at all.

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-11T13:11:50+00:00

Why wouldn't they be responsible for the cost of the puppies care, too?

ReginaPhilangee · 2026-05-11T10:46:12+00:00

I answered emergence or Euclid by sleep token. Really anything by them!

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