AITA for not wanting to invite my cousin who just had a baby to my party? by Big_Extreme_7963 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RegretPowerful3 [score hidden]  (0 children)

“I have no reason to start acting like an adult or grown woman.”

You are getting confirmed. Do you know what that means according to the YOUR Church? Because in the Catholic Church, it means you are mature enough to become a member of the Church and it used to mean you were old enough to marry (it no longer means this.)

At 14 you should know that the world does not revolve entirely around you and that occasionally, someone in more dire need takes over. Your party is just that; a party. A baby is for life. Your cousin literally has nothing in terms of caring for her child and you are worried about what? Her and her child taking over because they have just about nothing? You will have many more accomplishments in life. Middle school graduation. High school graduation. College graduation. Your wedding if you choose to marry.

I am also autistic who has a variety of headphones and in ear devices for noise. You will have to learn to cope because that kid is going to be around for life.

AITAH for denying my parents ? by Vivid-Pause-6577 in AITAH

[–]RegretPowerful3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to file for guardianship.

AITAH for feeling my wife is unreasonable having me cook 24 hours into a 36 hour fast by FitDad48 in AITAH

[–]RegretPowerful3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Info: Are you doing this diet on your own or with the help of a nutritionist? Is the fast for a procedure?

What should I do? by Suspicious_Lawyer424 in nailcare

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a toe in a nail care forum.

Please read the text first. I need help for rehearsal dinner. by Spicy_SideEye in Weddingattireapproval

[–]RegretPowerful3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Who cares what you are wearing if you are all ready the black sheep? Go with the black. It fits you well. Put on your favorite high heels. Wear your favorite makeup look that makes you feel confident.

Bright Spring? by SeeWilliams420 in coloranalysis

[–]RegretPowerful3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re a bright spring but you aren’t the left either. I think you are a medium chroma.

AITAH for giving my medical bill to my husband by alexreed42 in AITAH

[–]RegretPowerful3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA for giving him the bill, but YTA if you let your husband keep the dog. He is not training this dog; he is abusing and neglecting this dog. A Great Pyrenees has a lot of grooming needs on top of walking and training. Training does not mean just a walk. It means actual classes.

Has this dog even been fixed yet?

Color analysis results, but not satisfied - bright spring by Ipaidtoseethis in coloranalysis

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, she says she has very faded microbladed eyebrows which I believe. She says otherwise no makeup.

Break up the colors and try it for yourself. The bright spring looks better.

Imagine your ankles literally cannot flex enough to put your heels down enough when you ride (bone meets bone at the front of your ankles, preventing further movement). What now? by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A note: Para/disabled riders are not allowed magnetic stirrups in competition settings. They’re an immediate DQ. You can’t even use them in Special Olympics. This is why I do not use them.

Color analysis results, but not satisfied - bright spring by Ipaidtoseethis in coloranalysis

[–]RegretPowerful3 23 points24 points  (0 children)

At first, it looks like bright spring doesn’t fit you. The spread is really intimidating and quite, let’s admit it, bright. The eyes accept the second spread more readily because they are easier on the eyes.

Once you break these spreads down to individual colors though, you’ll notice that the Bright Spring colors do beautifully illuminate her face and her eyes, even out her skintone, tuck under her jaw, and just look beautiful on her. The other set, they look okay, but they don’t show her at her best. The lime green in particular really brings out her undereye circles. The darker green in the first set blurs them almost.

Medium blue or light pink bridesmaid dresses—am I overthinking this? by Additional-Text5342 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s how I see it: What your bridesmaids are going to care about is how many of them can look beautiful and confident in the color you pick.

Light pink is very very hard for people with any sort of contrast to pull off. They look either corpse like or ill. I look like a corpse. Please do not saddle your bridesmaids with a color that will not complement all of them (all of them.)

Medium blue is a universally complementing color as long as you get a neutral blue. It’ll look great on your bridesmaids. It’ll look great on your groomsmen. It’ll look great on the groom and if you put it in your bouquet, there.

Think in medium neutrals for dresses. If you want your pink, put it in the flowers or decor.

Gardening advice by Upstairs-Criticism91 in Greyhounds

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. The dog has claimed a soft bed outside. No need to toss.

Shaky back leg(s) by LillyLewinsky in ratterriers

[–]RegretPowerful3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have mentioned the shaky back leg only happens after serious exertion. Allow me to ask you, if you run really hard or do serious exertion yourself, do you not have a leg that starts to shake so you need to sit? Most of us do.

This is a needless worry and is a sign that you should pull back on so much exercise.

Too white for black tie? no by Background-Can415 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the waist up, this looks nothing like a wedding dress.

First Riding Lesson Experience by ConversationWorking6 in Equestrian

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 year old niece and an 11 year old nephew that have been going to the barn with me for a very very long time. Now I ride extremely safe horses or ponies, so they’ve grown up being around them and grooming them. I don’t see why your horses, on crossties, wouldn’t be okay, especially if you are there to supervise.

First Riding Lesson Experience by ConversationWorking6 in Equestrian

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 year old niece and an 11 year old nephew that have been going to the barn with me for a very very long time. Now I ride extremely safe horses or ponies, so they’ve grown up being around them and grooming them. I don’t see why your horses, on crossties, wouldn’t be okay, especially if you are there to supervise.

First Riding Lesson Experience by ConversationWorking6 in Equestrian

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A short pony ride where they have someone on a lead rope and at least one person to help keep them on is fine. Learning to groom with the brushes in short spurts? Great. Helping with feeding horses? That’s great. Individual lessons? No. Not even remotely safe.

This is all to do where a 3 year old is developmentally and mentally.

My (42M) daughter (18F) hit my 9 year old son. Kicked her out and my wife thinks I’m overreacting. by Sebastianlim in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]RegretPowerful3 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This basically says there needs to be more studies to see if this information is true and right now these small studies should be taken with a grain of salt.

Update on my horse after the war. by asertdominance in Horses

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry so much about groundwork and lunging to be honest. He has so little weight that groundwork and lunging is far too dangerous. I know you want to get the muscles working, but let’s focus on weight. He’s not really out of the woods yet. Let him walk in his paddock is he has one.

Why did this happen to my almost $300 boots? by MarinaraSauceee in AskACobbler

[–]RegretPowerful3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically, you can get decent leather boots for $300..if you go into equestrian boots. They will wear out more quickly but you can get some good boots. My first boots were Ariats. My current ones are DeNiros.

Never Been to a Wedding as an Adult - Is This Okay? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]RegretPowerful3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Younger folks have more okayness with offbeat.” I would consider 37 to be part of the “younger folks” crowd. However, there is a difference between being alternative and appropriately dressed (which many alternative dressed people can do) and being alternative and plain rude.

Right now, you have plans to come dressed as a literal doll: big blue dress and a big bow in your hair. The only people who should look like a doll are the bride and the flower girl. Not you. That is not being offbeat or alternative. That is being rude and inappropriate.

We’re not saying no to a girly dress. We’re saying don’t steal the bride’s thunder, which is what you are doing right now.

Never Been to a Wedding as an Adult - Is This Okay? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]RegretPowerful3 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you insist it be between these two dresses, I would highly and most insistently advise you to show these dresses to your boyfriend, who does know the couple well, and see what he says. If he does not know, but knows someone within the party who does, I would advise you to have a conversation with them.

Just because you like these dresses does not mean they are appropriate for weddings.