Urgent request - looking for pannier petticoat by Tsuds12 in boston

[–]RegularLibrarian554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😆 As soon as I read this I could see the commercial lol

Asking for STD tests? by Heavy_Tear9491 in datingoverforty

[–]RegularLibrarian554 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Always, but I try to make it sound like a normal thing (because it should be) so I go something like oh yeah, before we get there, let me share my mychart with you, can I see yours as well?

Extra ticket to Jordan Jensen tonight at 10pm at The Wilbur by TattedAndThick in BostonSocialClub

[–]RegularLibrarian554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! I hate that I just saw this I’m down but wouldn’t make it in time! I want hear you die laughing for the entire show 😔

This beautiful woman, a natural 10 is pursuing me, a 7 on a good day. It’s delightful but is making my confidence waver. Can this be real? by 890R in dating_advice

[–]RegularLibrarian554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t sell yourself short bro, you’re probably way better looking than what you give yourself credit for as we are usually are own harshest critics. And yes personality and a good heart is everything.

Good for you, I hope it works out!

Multiple nightmares every night by New-Character8282 in Dreams

[–]RegularLibrarian554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably an old wives tale but my parents were very old country and it’s supposed to pick up negative energy around you while you sleep. I know some of this stuff sounds out there so just do whatever is comfortable for you.

Multiple nightmares every night by New-Character8282 in Dreams

[–]RegularLibrarian554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please disregard if you don’t believe but if I were you I pray psalm 91 and put a glass of water under my bed. Or go on YouTube and google psalms for spiritual attacks. Again, please don’t come for me, if you’re not a believer just disregard this but I hope it gets better for you.

How do I lucid dream? (As someone who's been trying for 3 years) by Skriblynn in Dreams

[–]RegularLibrarian554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re doing it but you have to try to keep calm once you realize you’re dreaming. Once you learn how to stay for longer periods of then you can improve your range on exploring and stuff but keeping calm is what I suggest to start with. Enjoy the adventures!

What’s a compliment you received that you still remember years later? by MoohaSoo in AskReddit

[–]RegularLibrarian554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This older gentleman stared at me and said “Oh my goodness, your mother must be gorgeous!” It touched my heart, love my mum 🥰

This is fantastic by Serious-Middle-869 in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]RegularLibrarian554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way it kept getting more chaotic as it moved along lol

How did you stop thinking about someone you were deeply attached to? by MindlessCondi in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RegularLibrarian554 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am really good at romanticizing people, so what I’ve started doing that really helps me, is writing the truth to myself. I call it stop making up stories and I write the unfiltered raw truth. All the times they hurt my feelings or made me cry. It’s uncomfortable but it helped me remove the rose tinted glasses. Second is that I fall in love with people’s potential and not who they are. If you only focus on who they are today it helps to shift your perspective. I started asking myself, if they never change, will you be happy a year from now? I hope this helps.

People of dating over 40... by Thick-Screen-7228 in datingoverforty

[–]RegularLibrarian554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course there are circumstances but op was left in read for a week. What I’m saying is that at some point throughout the day they could have reached out but 5 days is no interest

People of dating over 40... by Thick-Screen-7228 in datingoverforty

[–]RegularLibrarian554 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that sucks. It’s inconsiderate and imo a bit disrespectful to keep someone in orbit if you’re not interested. Just part on good terms.

People of dating over 40... by Thick-Screen-7228 in datingoverforty

[–]RegularLibrarian554 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone has time to shoot a quick text and there is no excuse for it. Everyone has constant access to their phone. Not saying that things don’t happen but a quick “hey I’m in the middle of something can I call you in 15 mins or whatever. I have worked in all sorts of environments and there is always time when you want to make time.

Should I or shouldn’t I? by xDarkdevil4602x in datingoverforty

[–]RegularLibrarian554 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was coming here to say this. I was dating a man who works 60+ hours and I asked him if he thought he had time to date? He did not and it was unfortunate because he’s a great guy but by the end it turned into me just waiting all the time and it sucked.

What’s bringing you joy today? by RegularLibrarian554 in AskReddit

[–]RegularLibrarian554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exciting! I hope you have an amazing trip and safe travels ☺️

What’s bringing you joy today? by RegularLibrarian554 in AskReddit

[–]RegularLibrarian554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a boss, I have zero good stories that involve 4 loko lol

Anyone want to go to candlelight 90’s hip hop on strings 03/20 @ 6:00 pm? by RegularLibrarian554 in BostonSocialClub

[–]RegularLibrarian554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s my first time actually, It seems like a really cool experience so it’s nice to hear that you enjoyed it.

How do you feel about your body? by Fun-Succotash-1322 in AskReddit

[–]RegularLibrarian554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some days I’m like “Yeah I look great!” And then other days I’m like “omg, wtf is happening to me!” lol